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Posts: 17 Member
edited January 5 in Chit-Chat
Ok why am I having trouble finding a girlfriend. I'm an attractive 31 year old male. Where is the best place to meet a good women???? Have not had too much luck with online and don't want to go boozing at the bars every night.

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  • Posts: 1,140 Member
    :x
  • Posts: 5,030 Member
    What do you like to do? You'll find someone who shares your interest if you go do things you like to do.

    Take up a class
    Sign up for some kind of lessons
    Join a fitness group ( Hey imagine that!)

    Or whatever you're into.
  • Posts: 5,404 Member
    Have you tried one of those single activity sites...like singles that meet to take a cooking class/kayak/bowl, etc?
  • Posts: 617 Member
    Get a dog. Everybody wants to stop and chat with you when you have a dog, and they immediately like you for some reason too. Plus, even if you don't end up with a girlfriend, at least you'll have a dog.
  • Posts: 928 Member
    Ok why am I having trouble finding a girlfriend. I'm an attractive 31 year old male. Where is the best place to meet a good women???? Have not had too much luck with online and don't want to go boozing at the bars every night.

    The free weights area at the gym. Go after the girl who can squat more than you. Just make sure she's single first.
  • Posts: 1,517 Member

    The free weights area at the gym. Go after the girl who can squat more than you. Just make sure she's single first.

    Heh...
  • Posts: 2,390 Member
    I met my wife off a message board...
  • Posts: 17 Member
    Well I race road bikes and ride 150 milesish a week. So thats my main hobby. I have a dog already. Been single for 7 months and it seems that the women I meet in everyday situations the majority are married or dating someone already. Funny thing is I'm a nursing student and in my class everyone that I would be interested in is married or engaded. They all ask me about my dates and love to talk about em.
  • Posts: 1,517 Member
    I met my wife off a message board...

    how YOU doin?
  • Posts: 182 Member
    comedy club.bc women like me were awesome. great features and and we make you laugh, also the weights. i catch my self staring sometimes. :).
  • Posts: 3,863 Member
    Met my husband at work.
  • Posts: 182 Member

    how YOU doin?

    ahahahaha
  • Posts: 3,863 Member
    I met my wife off a message board...
    *bats eyelashes*

    I love a man with rosy cheeks. Teehee
  • Posts: 457 Member
    I me my husband at walmart..they literally have EVERYTHING, even significant others. lol
  • Posts: 2,645 Member
    The grocery store, church, the coffee shop, the library, local activities (meetup.com), volunteering, bookstores, local sporting events....
  • Posts: 289 Member
    I met my boyfriend of three years on World of Warcraft. I didn't sign up to meet guys (I'm a gamer). It just worked out that way.

    In the past, I had a few awesome dates thanks to OkCupid.com. It's free, and it's the best matching site I've seen.
  • Posts: 617 Member
    Well I race road bikes and ride 150 milesish a week. So thats my main hobby. I have a dog already. Been single for 7 months and it seems that the women I meet in everyday situations the majority are married or dating someone already. Funny thing is I'm a nursing student and in my class everyone that I would be interested in is married or engaded. They all ask me about my dates and love to talk about em.

    I hadn't considered that already taken problem. Maybe you should date younger?
  • Posts: 386 Member
    Sounds like you already in a female dominated profession, trust me you will run into a hottie first...however have you thought with your workout and school schedule that although part of you want a girlfriend, maybe you are just too busy. But in saying that...I have the same issue...sigh
  • Posts: 91 Member
    totally jut replied that I met my huband on e jarmony but my post got removed. Anyway,

    good luck..finding people with similar hobbies is so hard. I was lucky but had lots of bad luck before that. SoI don't even thing there is anything wrong with being single for 7 months...you just have to be patient--something good is waiting for you. Sometime being single can really help you decide your need vs want list for potential Mrs...

    Good luck
  • Posts: 247 Member

    The free weights area at the gym. Go after the girl who can squat more than you. Just make sure she's single first.

    Women who can squat are HAWT!
  • church - find a good one (a lot of churches, well, larger ones, have singles events to help them "mingle")
  • Posts: 3,472 Member
    Craigslist

    or

    http://www.rosebrides.com/ -- RoseBrides.com is dedicated to helping you find your perfect match by making it easy to search the world over for your soul mate and life partner. Here you’ll find many potential matches - Russian and Eastern European women as well as Asians and Latin Americans whom you would otherwise not have the opportunity to meet!

    or

    eHarmony
  • Posts: 617 Member
    Craigslist. You can find everything on there.
  • Posts: 2,390 Member
    Met my husband at work.

    So did he help advance your career?
  • Posts: 928 Member
    Move to Wisconsin? :flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 34,971 Member

    how YOU doin?

    OMG, you crack me up!
  • Posts: 3,562 Member

    So did he help advance your career?

    May have been the other way around. :laugh:
  • Posts: 3,863 Member
    First step: The correct phrase is "a woman", not "a women." Good grammar and spelling are sexy.
    Second: 7 months is not long at all. Slow your roll.
    7 months is an eternity for some people.
  • Posts: 3,863 Member

    So did he help advance your career?
    No.

    He knocked me up and I lost my job. He's a jerk.
  • Posts: 179 Member
    Well....I'll say I went to Zumba fitness classes to meet guys my age...except there were no guys. Only women...so hey maybe you should go there?
    Even if you meet an older lady who is married, she might have a daughter your age!
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