Why women don't date fat guys?

The same reason why guys don't date fat women

All men who are funny, intelligent, civilised, compassionate and kind are attractive. My husband is all of the above (perhaps not always at the same time) and I love him dearly. We were both very much smaller when we met, but we got fat together.....and we still dig on each other, even as we try to lose our extra lbs and recover our former glory.

I did go out with a fat train driver once. I was intrigued by his piercings.........

To the OP trying to get the girl........dress nicely, be smart and cool. Be a little bit aloof, but try to engage her in casual conversation. But if she doesn't like you honey, she never will......go spend some time with someone who DOES like you!

I've had two larger boyfriends.
My currently one is close to 300 pounds. (Going on three years together and he's only gotten fatter. lol -.- ) And even though I never knew what the other boyfriend weighted I'm sure ti was also close to 300 pounds. So I'm not sure why girls don't date fat guys cause I sure do!

Ya, another guy on here said it best... In all honesty, it's not so much the looks, but the way you approach the woman. Be confident, respectful, and genuine. That's what we're all looking for, right?

^ that, that is right!

I wouldn't use the word fat but big.

It depends how big you are, I personally do NOT like skinny guys. I prefer guys with some meat... something to hold really tight without putting them in danger to crack in two! Super big guys don't attract me.

But I'd say the main things are confidence and charm. Defo.

Hope this helps

Here's a girl's opinion: I've dated a couple chubby guys in my life. It's all about personality/sense of humor to me. That's sexy.

looks like I SHALL have to wax then!

Hang on a moment - I'm married

Phew!

Both my man and I are overweight and are in the process of changing. I love him and think he's the most handsome guy ever, and he finds me just stunning. What's the issue here?

My ex husband is overweight. I was married to him being overweight. I never have minded a bit of meat on man. I guess I find all men wonderful no matter, with the exception of the male version of me. I'm very thin. Fit but thin. My current partner has a slim runners build and tall. I guess I wouldn't date a very underweight sunken chest type or someone that is extremely morbidly obese.

Why women don't date fat guys?

The law of attraction. A woman is no different to a man when it comes to attraction much like a woman who wouldn't date a fat, skinny, average or muscled man. The answer to this question would apply to women who only date - types - short, tall, big, small or average downunder, there are women who only prefer to date men with specific girths ... The reasons are varied and aren't blueprinted, neither should they be, much like a man's preference - big boobs, small boobs; bubble butt, no butt; straight figured or curvy, tall or short, skinny slim vs weightlifting slim ... The bias, really is your answer. If we're all well and truly honest, we have all profiled well before we say yes. And another answer for you would be, a question both genders ask themselves before they consider a prospective - I know for a fact, in under 5 mins - I know if I'm going to sleep with him or not. If something happens, I know if I would sleep with him. If the answer is no - I don't bother - friend zoned! And I'm certain men do the very same thing. Surely, men don't want to sleep with every woman they know.

Really give me an answer an someway to change this? that don;t have to do with losing weight

Case 1: This was at least 12 years ago. I was a student at the time and my sister and I basically dined at the same venue - every lunchtime. This one time, a group of guys who'd usually dined there too, were encouraging their friend and were almost mocking him that he didn't have the guts to follow through and ask either one of us out because he liked us both. At first, we thought it was cute, not noticing him. The next day, we both took the time to have a good look. Upon noticing him, he was the fattest in the crew and the tallest. All his friends were very well put together and they'd looked after their bodies. We both turned to each other and said, "He's cute," so we walked up to them and directed the question to him - "So have you decided who you like more?" He was pathetic. Tongue-tied, blushed, his eyes were shifty, he broke into a cold sweat - very unattractive! Now we would've both considered dating him and we were both skinny at the time.

Score: Woman NOT rejecting fat man.

The reverse of this thread would get taken down before you could blink...

Well, I found the topic surprising bc I see many many more fat guys with average-sized girls than the other way around. Men are much more visual than women.

Let's says you are in college and you see a girl you like walking around almost every week how do you introduce to her?

Try and be freindly with her at first, meaning dont come off to strong right away. You don't want to creep her out if she isn't into you, but if she's into you she'd let you know.

To me, it depends on their personality and face and not the body.

Myself and every one of my friends prefer "fat guys"! Even my bestie who is 5 foot tall 115lbs is dating a guy who is 285lbs. Big guys are easy to be around, laugh have a good time with AND make me feel small and protected. Whats not to love?

I would love to have a flat stomach but when I want to cuddle I don't want to feel like I'm snuggling with a hard boney man. I want some fluffiness there to cushion my head and just curl into his arms!

Its less accepted in society. and idk how fat is fat though? Cuz I wouldn't mind a bulky dude. But fat is fat.