Lame.

I get it now....it's pretty predictable. You made a post this morning and people did not agree with you and expressed differing opinions.

do you honestly think I am that small minded?...people are entitled to their opinions....
I congratulate them on being different...even if they do not agree with mine...:D

Yes I do.

She's more like my personal comedian. She dances and performs for my amusement, as opposed to performing for the amusement of everyone. She's very good. I just bought her new shoes. They are a tap shoes. Would you like me to make her tap for you?

lmao...now this is actually funny...
I like you,..lets be friends?

I was being serious. =|
Why does no one ever believe me?

I get it now....it's pretty predictable. You made a post this morning and people did not agree with you and expressed differing opinions.

do you honestly think I am that small minded?...people are entitled to their opinions....
I congratulate them on being different...even if they do not agree with mine...:D

Yes I do.

She's more like my personal comedian. She dances and performs for my amusement, as opposed to performing for the amusement of everyone. She's very good. I just bought her new shoes. They are a tap shoes. Would you like me to make her tap for you?

I aim to please...but just for you will I get the tap shoes out.

That is your opinion. I respect that. Now please respect mine. Mean is reality. Motivation is BS. If people are discouraged by people typing characters into a keyboard then they were not fully committed in the first place.

Yes....

I'm sorry, but nobody said you had to listen to it.
Me personally, I am more MOTIVATED by being told to get off my *kitten* and work for something.
I'm more MOTIVATED by being told that I'm junk and can't do it.
Call me crazy, but I am more MOTIVATED by negativity and being challenged to prove people wrong....
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Yeah.
Nobody said this place was supposed to be positive OR negative.
I take the side of reality.
Some people want the sugar coated crap of "Oh, you're fine..."...
That's not me. That's not a lot of people.
'Some people just want reality.
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If that's what you got and not what you wanted, ignore it.
Why can't people just grow up and stop arguing about the dumbest things ever?
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Motivation and Support.
This section keeps its name because of the WONDERFUL motivational posts and stuff in here.
Maybe it's not your idea of motivation and support, but so many people are actually being helped in this section of the forum.
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So yeah, move on and stop being so offensive and taking everything personal....
Grrrr. People...*SMH*....

Perception of negative or positive will depend on the person. Both can be used as motivation.

A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
IDEA Fitness member
Kickboxing Certified Instructor
Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

Agreed...completely.

So OP, please enlighten me on how your post is motivational?

Personally, I find blind encouragement of stupid actions and agreements on dangerous plans to be demotivational. But please, continue with your outrage. How dare people disagree!

Love this.

Motivate people by making the majority of them angry?



ps. This thread should be under Fun and games/ angry rants

LOL...I love that pic!!
No, the thread is right where it needs to be...
Sometimes tough love is the hardest to take...and yes, it may make people angry, but it needed to be said...

Exactly....wait....whats the problem again?

So OP, please enlighten me on how your post is motivational?

Personally, I find blind encouragement of stupid actions and agreements on dangerous plans to be demotivational. But please, continue with your outrage. How dare people disagree!

That's what I was saying. Although I didn't cover that 50% of the forum is people complaining about people complaining.

I get it now....it's pretty predictable. You made a post this morning and people did not agree with you and expressed differing opinions.

As always it starts with a post by the OP that went wrong. Here is that post:

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/820117-no-support-from-family-or-boyfriend

No support at home, needs the forums to be nice to her.

I have no shame for what I posted...and no, I don't need the forums to be nice...because honestly, the world is not a nice place...I just think it's lame that people have no respect for other anymore....and that people feel the need to be mean...
But that's what I get for being a dreamer and believing that people should treat people how they would like to be treated...
I really don't care what any of you think of me...you are nothing to me...and this will all be forgotten tomorrow...
But lolz...this is the internets...and people are jerks on the internets...
*rolls eyes*
My gods...do you honestly think linking to my previous thread is going to prove something?

No. I was pointing out a cycle.

In every instance that someone starts a 'the forums are mean' post, there is a forum post by the OP in which they did not get the support they thought they might get. You started a thread saying you have no support at home and your MiL makes you eat unhealthy by always suggesting you go through a drive-through.

Forum members pointed out, that you do not have to eat that food and that your MiL is not force feeding you the food.

Clearly that was not the answer you where expecting.

So now, to close the cycle you make a thread saying everyone is mean. And then get angry when people comment.

Oh no no no...you misunderstand

I didn't say everyone was mean....and I was not angry at the pointing out that she does not force feed me or of the fact that they were pointing it out....I was angry at the post saying I should kick them to the curb and the one saying to "f my boytoy" and then the post about how I choose to address my love.....I just think people should watch how they say and word things...I am not angry that people are commenting....I wanted people to comment...but yes, you are right...I was not expecting all the negativity...I was told by a lot of people who I personally know that use myfitnesspal that this was a positive environment and was shocked to find out it was not so...I am not angry about the opinions people have....I am angry about the way people, like myself, are getting treated...we all want support and encouragement....not to be torn down for things we might not be able to help...
That is all I am saying...

Stop complaining and prove them wrong.
So what if you can't help them.
Do something else and show them that you've got it in you.
Don't let them bring you down. Nobody said you had to.

p.s. If you post on forums you should be ready for real un-sugarcoated opinions. Since we all do not know you personally we dont have to be "nice" just say what we honestly think.

And you obviously expressed what you think very clearly with this thread. :ohwell:

If you want to only hear nice things I suggest talking to someone you know in real life....that way they can tell you everything you want to hear and then talk about you behind your back later...

Just call me Al-tar...
I think this is enough....
I am tired....and not thinking all that clearly...
Good night...
I am going to go pass out on my face.


p.s. Thank you all for expressing your opinions....I may not like them all...but such is life...
p.p.s. Thanks for all the laughs.
p.p.s.s I am sorry if I came off small minded or *****y....I am really not like that at all...well, *****y yes, but not small minded...
p.p.p.s.s I also like to argue....forgot to warn you.
p.p.p.s.s.s I love this community...:D

Not being sarcastic here at all (just to be clear as i usually am), but that was one of the best exits from one of these threads I have seen. Kudos!

Just call me Al-tar...
I think this is enough....
I am tired....and not thinking all that clearly...
Good night...
I am going to go pass out on my face.


p.s. Thank you all for expressing your opinions....I may not like them all...but such is life...
p.p.s. Thanks for all the laughs.
p.p.s.s I am sorry if I came off small minded or *****y....I am really not like that at all...well, *****y yes, but not small minded...
p.p.p.s.s I also like to argue....forgot to warn you.
p.p.p.s.s.s I love this community...:D

Not being sarcastic here at all (just to be clear as i usually am), but that was one of the best exits from one of these threads I have seen. Kudos!

She ruined it by posting again. You can't flounce out then come back, you have to properly flounce.

I'm sorry you didn't hear what you were hoping to hear.