ALL GUYS CHEAT!

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  • alexbusnello
    alexbusnello Posts: 1,010 Member
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    I've been cheated on once and it hurt so bad. I never knew what I seen in my ex but I was younger, so not as wise I'd guess you call it. My boyfriend now is amazing. He too has been cheated on a couple or few times so he knows how it feels, too. He doesn't even watch porn anymore. In fact, he never really was a big fan of it. I'm not saying that porn is a form of cheating, I'm just saying how amazing my boyfriend is. lol :smile: :heart:

    I guess I just lucked out. But I have a feeling my hate towards porn is the fact that I'm insecure and not very confident...I don't find myself physically attractive but he thinks I'm absolutely gorgeous - the best he's ever seen. He has helped me, though. I'm still learning to love myself fully....it's hard for me. And I don't believe in the whole, "If you don't love yourself, you can't love others" because I'm so in love with my boyfriend and I love my family and friends.

    But back to the actual topic. I think you should rethink about the guys you are dating and giving chances to. Not all guys are the same, clearly. I hate when girls say this....they just choose horrible guys, that's all.
  • supplemama
    supplemama Posts: 1,956 Member
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    I've been in several long term relationships and have never cheated. Perhaps you should look more closely at the men you choose to date. You might be following a pattern that leads you to unfaithful guys.

    ^^This
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
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    No they don't.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
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    Not all men or all women cheat. Silly thing to say.
    Don't date a man who would say that. Too many good ones to fudge around with the bad.
  • CynthiaCollin
    CynthiaCollin Posts: 406 Member
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  • Skratchie
    Skratchie Posts: 131 Member
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    This is what people say who lack impulse control ("it just happened") and/or who want to find a way to justify their cheating ("I can't help it; all men are like this!").
  • Itsnic
    Itsnic Posts: 13 Member
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    I truly believe that the kind of person (male or female) that cheats just has that inherant character flaw. They are just selfish people, simple as that. If he is telling you that it is just because he knows he is that kind of person and he hasn't met the person that would make him change. I have plenty of guy friends that don't cheat. I have a brother that has been with his girl 18 years without ever cheating. I am also in a relationship myself with a guy that I trust totally.
    Definately ditch this guy, not at all worth your time. Be glad he gave you a heads up...and don't even waste your energy sweating it, he really did you a favor by letting you know ahead of time so you can bail.
  • Itsnic
    Itsnic Posts: 13 Member
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    This is what people say who lack impulse control ("it just happened") and/or who want to find a way to justify their cheating ("I can't help it; all men are like this!").

    ^^TRUTH
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
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    Then it's a good thing I date girls.
  • justal313
    justal313 Posts: 1,375 Member
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    Nope, total crap. "All men" do not cheat. Among the people I know, I'd say the cheaters are actually 80/20 slanted towards the women including a few that basically started dating or whatever the next boyfriend before breaking up with their current boyfriend as if they couldn't stand to be along for a millisecond.

    If you want to cheat, it's time to break up, you clearly don't want to be in your committed relationship. I was cheated on, my GF at the time probably tried to break up with but I was too dense/too needy to know she was trying to break up and the one time she started "the talk" I talked her down.

    I'd blame myself but she was a cheating *kitten* and while I don't wish her ill I certainly don't wish her well.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
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    A B▲◄▼◄►►

    Yep I'm a cheater.
  • Topher1978
    Topher1978 Posts: 975 Member
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    Never in my life have I cheated on a gf. I do not associate with people that cheat. When I am dating someone, I try to not even check out other women.
  • Topher1978
    Topher1978 Posts: 975 Member
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    I've been cheated on once and it hurt so bad. I never knew what I seen in my ex but I was younger, so not as wise I'd guess you call it. My boyfriend now is amazing. He too has been cheated on a couple or few times so he knows how it feels, too. He doesn't even watch porn anymore. In fact, he never really was a big fan of it. I'm not saying that porn is a form of cheating, I'm just saying how amazing my boyfriend is. lol :smile: :heart:

    I guess I just lucked out. But I have a feeling my hate towards porn is the fact that I'm insecure and not very confident...I don't find myself physically attractive but he thinks I'm absolutely gorgeous - the best he's ever seen. He has helped me, though. I'm still learning to love myself fully....it's hard for me. And I don't believe in the whole, "If you don't love yourself, you can't love others" because I'm so in love with my boyfriend and I love my family and friends.

    But back to the actual topic. I think you should rethink about the guys you are dating and giving chances to. Not all guys are the same, clearly. I hate when girls say this....they just choose horrible guys, that's all.
    Porn is equivalent to cheating. It ruins more relationships and causes more disorder than most things in out society. It is just rarely spoken of.
  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
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    This is what people say who lack impulse control ("it just happened") and/or who want to find a way to justify their cheating ("I can't help it; all men are like this!").

    ^^TRUTH

    I personally have had many gf's over my time and not once have I ever cheated or even broke up with the girl so not all men are like this. As far as cheating goes of course men and women do it and even though its different with both genders its still cheating. Then I would ask what consitutes cheating because to some people that is also different. Excuses are made all the time, and some may even be valid. Comes down to wanting a new experience really. I do believe though in general anybody will cheat but its dependant on the options available for them. I say I have never done it but it don't mean I wouldn't do it, the chances are just unlikely as I tend to stay out of those predicaments. I never tend to believe when I hear somebody say their partner wouldn't cheat. Its not that they wouldn't its more that the liklihood may be high or low depending on the person. of course all in my opinion
  • alexbusnello
    alexbusnello Posts: 1,010 Member
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    I've been cheated on once and it hurt so bad. I never knew what I seen in my ex but I was younger, so not as wise I'd guess you call it. My boyfriend now is amazing. He too has been cheated on a couple or few times so he knows how it feels, too. He doesn't even watch porn anymore. In fact, he never really was a big fan of it. I'm not saying that porn is a form of cheating, I'm just saying how amazing my boyfriend is. lol :smile: :heart:

    I guess I just lucked out. But I have a feeling my hate towards porn is the fact that I'm insecure and not very confident...I don't find myself physically attractive but he thinks I'm absolutely gorgeous - the best he's ever seen. He has helped me, though. I'm still learning to love myself fully....it's hard for me. And I don't believe in the whole, "If you don't love yourself, you can't love others" because I'm so in love with my boyfriend and I love my family and friends.

    But back to the actual topic. I think you should rethink about the guys you are dating and giving chances to. Not all guys are the same, clearly. I hate when girls say this....they just choose horrible guys, that's all.
    Porn is equivalent to cheating. It ruins more relationships and causes more disorder than most things in out society. It is just rarely spoken of.

    I agree it can destroy relationships, but it's not the same as cheating.
  • alexbusnello
    alexbusnello Posts: 1,010 Member
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    A B▲◄▼◄►►

    Yep I'm a cheater.

    haha
  • LittleMiss_WillLoseIt
    LittleMiss_WillLoseIt Posts: 1,373 Member
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    Not all guys cheat...hell women cheat too. It's certainly not okay just to clump all guys in a category of cheaters and liars. I know plenty of guys who don't cheat nor lie so yes there are guys that aren't like this. This goes the same for women.
  • contingencyplan
    contingencyplan Posts: 3,639 Member
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    Never cheated. Been cheated on a bunch of times.
  • Hendrix7
    Hendrix7 Posts: 1,903 Member
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    op will

    - get with this guy anyway
    - get feelings for him
    - then he will cheat on her as he told her he would
    - make a thread about how he cheated

    and the world will go on.
  • Jimaudit
    Jimaudit Posts: 275
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    First of all *damn*, who would ever cheat on you....gorgeous eyes.

    But in all seriousness.........guys are d bags and at your age, they prob do all cheat. If you are dating around your age of 19, the guys are all walking around with stiffies and cannot control themselves.

    Find a nice older guy who will take care of you.

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