Tall girls who wear High Heels!!! ( Guys Opinion Needed)

Are you tall as well, or is she the only girl in the family tall?

I got a helluva lot of taunting about my height when I was growing up, but the one thing that made it all ok was that my mom primed me for being proud of my height. She was constantly telling me how great it was to be tall, how I'd be tall like her and my dad, how a tall woman should stand tall and walk proud... She did this on purpose WELL before I started growing (And I grew 8 " in about 4 months)

I am doing the same thing with my two girls...
ages 5 and 7 - currently 4' and 4'5"

one thing I know... no matter whether you are tall, short, or average - kids are going to find ways to make you unhappy about yourself. Good luck - tall can be painfully awkward sometimes!

This. I'm almost 6' 1" and the only thing that really made it better was that my dad (who's 6' 8") was always really proud of my height. I was roughly 6 ft upon entering high school so I know how it feels to be tall at that age. It was even worse for me because I take after my dad's height and my mom's curves. I've always been broad shouldered and busty with child bearing hips. I stand out.

My sister, who's actually 5'10" used to want to be 6 ft so badly. It was her goal before she got all the "guys don't like girls who are taller" bs. Keep telling her how special her height makes her.

I actually want to recommend a book. It's called "The Tall Book". It's written by a 6'3" (I think) woman and it's an absolutely fantastic perspective on height. I would have really benefited from reading it during adolescence.

Tell her how beautiful and unique she is. Have her meet other tall women. Show her that it doesn't mean she'll be dateless forever (most of my boyfriends have been shorter than me actually). It's really important because I have a few friends who are super tall and have very low self-esteem because of it. They won't date shorter men and think that they're too tall to be pretty. You need to make sure she knows how gorgeous she is.

I am 5'9" and my bf is 5'6". It really doesnt bother him when I wear my heels, even my 5" ones. I say rock them if it doesn't bother your guy, and if it does still wear them and tell him to get over it. :happy:

I'm 5'3 and when I wear heels I look normal, I say go on wit' cho tall self" lol.

In my experience high heels are problematic. I am 5ft 7", and I have no issues with how tall or short a woman is. Not at all.

What I do find as a turn off is a woman who wears high heels to go dancing and then complains when her feet become sore and blister. I have no problem providing foot rubs and plasters but I think correct footwear for the right occasions would be awesome.

Ladies complain if a man wheres a suit and trainers, and you wouldnt see shorts and smart shoes. So I think kinky heels for the bedroom and dance shoes for the club would make any man happy.

Just a thought.

Not a tall guy either at 5'8 but I love myself a tall woman with heels on...something to conquer...

I'm 5ft 9" and often wear heels for a night out, I always get guys shorter than me chatting me up. My husband is an inch shorter than me, he loves me being taller.

ETA: no matter how uncomfortable my heels may get I WILL NOT take them off and go barefoot, really so uncouth.

I'm 5'7" and feel self-conscious in even 2" heels. I feel like I look like a Sasquatch stomping around the room that everyone looks at. And I don't really like when I'm in a group shot with girls who are all 5'1"-5'4" and I'm towering over them like some big Amazon woman lol. I don't want to be short, but I just don't like sticking out like a sore thumb!

I feel more normal around my tall girl friends, or when my short friends wear shoes that make them my height!

I have come to realize a few things:
- nothing stands out more than a tall chick crouching to try and blend in
- I will never EVER blend into a crowd... EVER... E V E R!!!
- If I'm going to STAND out in a crowd... I might as well make a statement
- a lot more shorter women would kill for my height
- men are either going to hate it, love it, or not give a crap. Me wearing heels or not, is not going to change anything.

So... I wear heels, walk with purpose (and long strides), wear short skirts, and laugh about how the hem on my skirts is at the same height as a number of my friends waists...

I'm 5'6" and I wear tall shoes every time I dress up. They make me like 5'10' but I don't care! lol

Tall African American Males: Please apply! hahahahaha

And for some reason, I have ALL tiny friends....So I basically look like a giant standing with them....But its all good! :drinker:

I've never heard a guy or girl complain when I'm in heels.

Unless it's the "I wish I were as tall as you..." thing.

I'm 5'8 and I rock at least three inch heels.

I'm also 5'9 and I like to wear heels/wedges. I use to feel self conscious when I was with my ex boyfriend (and I know he was a little insecure as well) because we were the same height. I would wear mostly flats or very low heels when I was with him and then when I'm not with him, I would wear taller heels. However, some places we would go I use to think flats were so inappropriate to wear but I wore flats because I can tell he use to try to make himself appear taller than me by trying to stand on his tippy toes.

I always wear heels when appropriate (mainly weekends) and I sometimes feel like I completely stand out, but I guess the older I get (and the more weight I lose lol) I feel better about my height. Once I went out with a few friends out to dinner, wore really high heels, and a few guys (probably 5'7 and shorter) actually complimented me on my height (probably 6 feet at this point in heels) and one even told me he was comfortable with his height (probably 5'5/5'6ish) and asked me for my phone number! I was pretty shocked!

^^^^^ LOL

I am a bit over 5-9" and I wouldn't mind a taller girl in heels.
My wife is 5" shorter and her heels are so high, she is reaching me anyway.

HMMMM....lets see.... you make your boobs eye height....

I dont see any issues

I wouldn't be able to see anything....

Great post!! I have always dated guys that were 6’0 (which is my height) or taller and still felt uncomfortable wearing heels on a date.