Tall girls who wear High Heels!!! ( Guys Opinion Needed)

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  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,141 Member
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    I'm 5ft 9" and often wear heels for a night out, I always get guys shorter than me chatting me up. My husband is an inch shorter than me, he loves me being taller.

    ETA: no matter how uncomfortable my heels may get I WILL NOT take them off and go barefoot, really so uncouth.
  • iorahkwano
    iorahkwano Posts: 709 Member
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    I'm 5'7" and feel self-conscious in even 2" heels. I feel like I look like a Sasquatch stomping around the room that everyone looks at. And I don't really like when I'm in a group shot with girls who are all 5'1"-5'4" and I'm towering over them like some big Amazon woman lol. I don't want to be short, but I just don't like sticking out like a sore thumb!

    I feel more normal around my tall girl friends, or when my short friends wear shoes that make them my height!
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
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    I'm 5'7" and feel self-conscious in even 2" heels. I feel like I look like a Sasquatch stomping around the room that everyone looks at. And I don't really like when I'm in a group shot with girls who are all 5'1"-5'4" and I'm towering over them like some big Amazon woman lol. I don't want to be short, but I just don't like sticking out like a sore thumb!

    I feel more normal around my tall girl friends, or when my short friends wear shoes that make them my height!

    I have come to realize a few things:
    - nothing stands out more than a tall chick crouching to try and blend in
    - I will never EVER blend into a crowd... EVER... E V E R!!!
    - If I'm going to STAND out in a crowd... I might as well make a statement
    - a lot more shorter women would kill for my height
    - men are either going to hate it, love it, or not give a crap. Me wearing heels or not, is not going to change anything.

    So... I wear heels, walk with purpose (and long strides), wear short skirts, and laugh about how the hem on my skirts is at the same height as a number of my friends waists...
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
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    I'm 5ft 9" and often wear heels for a night out, I always get guys shorter than me chatting me up. My husband is an inch shorter than me, he loves me being taller.

    ETA: no matter how uncomfortable my heels may get I WILL NOT take them off and go barefoot, really so uncouth.

    un·couth
    Adjective

    (of a person or their appearance or behavior) Lacking good manners, refinement, or grace.
    (esp. of art or language) Lacking sophistication or delicacy.

    * * * * *
    it's only uncouth if you're the only one doing it...
    :drinker:
  • angelams1019
    angelams1019 Posts: 1,102 Member
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    I'm 5'6" and I wear tall shoes every time I dress up. They make me like 5'10' but I don't care! lol

    Tall African American Males: Please apply! :wink: hahahahaha
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    I'm 5'2" (not tall). I don't wear heels (although they look good) just because I have had orthopedic and knee issues and I am a dancer. I do wear a wedge heel (not too high). Most of the time I wear hiking sneakers.
  • angelams1019
    angelams1019 Posts: 1,102 Member
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    And for some reason, I have ALL tiny friends....So I basically look like a giant standing with them....But its all good! :drinker:
  • Fit_Vixen1
    Fit_Vixen1 Posts: 419
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    I'm 5'9 and I wear heels when I go out. Guys shouldn't feel intimidated by a tall woman & if they do, that is very much their problem. I wouldn't stop wearing heels for a guy, never did, never will. I'm proud of my height & my legs & I love standing out vs. blending in.
  • rachmika
    rachmika Posts: 4
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    I've never heard a guy or girl complain when I'm in heels.

    Unless it's the "I wish I were as tall as you..." thing.

    I'm 5'8 and I rock at least three inch heels.
  • stellabobella79
    stellabobella79 Posts: 44 Member
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    Aw it makes me sad to think that young girls are self conscious and wish they would stop growing. I'm 6'3" and I love being tall. :) I wish I could give these girls a pep talk. I feel really lucky to be so tall and I get a lot of positive attention from it. I have a 10 year old daughter and she wants to be 6' tall. <3

    However, no I won't wear heels. I'm not just tall, I'm extremely tall! I stick to TOMS, ballet flats, sandals, flip flops and Uggs. The closest thing is cowboy boots when I go to the rodeo every year but even that is a little much for me. I wore them with a short dress so I would still feel girly. :)
  • estrobabe
    estrobabe Posts: 337 Member
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    I'm also 5'9 and I like to wear heels/wedges. I use to feel self conscious when I was with my ex boyfriend (and I know he was a little insecure as well) because we were the same height. I would wear mostly flats or very low heels when I was with him and then when I'm not with him, I would wear taller heels. However, some places we would go I use to think flats were so inappropriate to wear but I wore flats because I can tell he use to try to make himself appear taller than me by trying to stand on his tippy toes.

    I always wear heels when appropriate (mainly weekends) and I sometimes feel like I completely stand out, but I guess the older I get (and the more weight I lose lol) I feel better about my height. Once I went out with a few friends out to dinner, wore really high heels, and a few guys (probably 5'7 and shorter) actually complimented me on my height (probably 6 feet at this point in heels) and one even told me he was comfortable with his height (probably 5'5/5'6ish) and asked me for my phone number! I was pretty shocked!
  • ArmandoG28
    ArmandoG28 Posts: 283 Member
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    im 6'6 and i love when girls wear heels ! ...mamasitas !!
  • Fit_Vixen1
    Fit_Vixen1 Posts: 419
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    ^^^^^ LOL
  • TheRightWeigh
    TheRightWeigh Posts: 249 Member
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    I'm 6'4'' ish...I like tall girls...i like heels on girls...put them together...I'm all smiles... WEAR HEELS.
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
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    I am a bit over 5-9" and I wouldn't mind a taller girl in heels.
    My wife is 5" shorter and her heels are so high, she is reaching me anyway.
  • alvarezara1
    alvarezara1 Posts: 5
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    Im 6ft n i do wear heels, i think u should love your self . If your tall or short its doesn't matter because we're all special and unique.
  • kendunn579
    kendunn579 Posts: 391 Member
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    HMMMM....lets see.... you make your boobs eye height....

    I dont see any issues

    I wouldn't be able to see anything....
  • shade0343
    shade0343 Posts: 59 Member
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    At 6' 1" I've never really had to think about it. My best guess is since heels always make a woman's legs look great I would not worry about it. My two cents worth.
  • Luckyshan89
    Luckyshan89 Posts: 24 Member
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    Great post!! I have always dated guys that were 6’0 (which is my height) or taller and still felt uncomfortable wearing heels on a date.
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
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    I am 5' 11" and always felt self conscious.

    These boots are the first heel I have purchased EVER...i was being Catwoman for Halloween and needed shoes.

    I am probably 6'2 in them...at least...but they are beautiful and i love them.

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    YEP!! Definitely hot, couldn't see the pic the other day for some reason! :wink:

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