What makes a girl intimidating?

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  • phoenix_59
    phoenix_59 Posts: 1,123
    stunning beauty like Snoops up there.....
  • snoopytwins
    snoopytwins Posts: 1,759 Member
    stunning beauty like Snoops up there.....
    Aw...how YOU doing?
  • ApexLeader
    ApexLeader Posts: 580 Member
    i'm really only intimidated by women that are really good looking
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Nothing, I am subject to only my will.
  • jonnythan
    jonnythan Posts: 10,161 Member
    i'm really only intimidated by women that are really good looking

    The ones that are *really* good looking don't intimidate me. It's the ones just a little out of my league that do ;)

    Although, really, if they're not that bright they don't intimidate me either. Intelligence and wit do. But they also excite me.
  • Jerrypeoples
    Jerrypeoples Posts: 1,541 Member
    I find men are intimidated by:
    1) women taller then them ;)
    2) women that are really pretty
    3)women that arnt easy lol... I think that has a lot to do with a man's self esteem as well
    4) very opinionated women
    5) women that have a high level of education... or perhaps a really high paying career

    im not sure #3 is valid. now if the guy is just looking to shoot a brick, then yes. but otherwise why persue someone who is easy
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Vocal Chords
  • justkiesh
    justkiesh Posts: 7 Member
    The men aren't intimidated, they just don't like the woman. Shocking right? LOL.
  • vinnieti
    vinnieti Posts: 79 Member
    An attractive girl, surrounded by a group of her attractive girlfriends in a defensive formation... haha

    That's a what makes approaching a girl in that situation intimidating.
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    "Intimidation" is a misnomer.
    A guy needs have a clear idea if a girl is "on the market" or not.
    In my younger days, I was surpised at women getting upset if I paid attention to them and DIDN'T want to sleep with them.
    One or two burns like that and a guy decides to wait for the traffic signals to bean him on the head before he does anything.
  • jayche
    jayche Posts: 1,128 Member
    Success obviously...
  • Nutella91
    Nutella91 Posts: 624 Member
    guys never approach me. a lot of people say my looks are intimidating. not being cocky, just honest :/ how am i supposed to find a boyfriend
  • Yatashie
    Yatashie Posts: 61 Member
    I get told that I am intimidating all the time. I think it has to do with the fact that I'm super loud, opinionated, and I have a high level of self-respect. It may also be the sarcasm :/... If you come at me with a cheesy pick-up line (that wasn't meant in jest) I'm gonna rag on you for it. The funny thing is I'm a super softy when you get to know me.
  • Krizzo87
    Krizzo87 Posts: 14,186 Member
    I'm never approached by men, and I don't think it has anything to do with being intimidated either... :huh:
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    Not typically intimated approaching a female. I actually find it a challenge to approach one that gives off the "I'm too good to talk to you vibe"

    Shouldn't be such of a game, but at times it is.

    cocky much?

    He does not like a challenge. Lol.
  • jjscholar
    jjscholar Posts: 413 Member
    In my experience, it is not that I find women in general intimidating, it is how I feel about a particular woman. What I mean is that if a woman is extremely attractive to me, I naturally would feel intimidated by her... That is I find tall, blonde, blue-eyed women intimidating because I view them as perfect...
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
    a daddy with gun permit.

    I have my own gun permit.
  • Yatashie
    Yatashie Posts: 61 Member
    a daddy with gun permit.

    I have my own gun permit.

    ^ #winning
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    I know I'm never approached because I look mean. I mean, I can be really mean at times. That and my husband :bigsmile:
  • BoomstickChick
    BoomstickChick Posts: 428 Member
    My husband told me it was my attitude. I come off as a ***** a lot, I dunno why...but whatever. I'm the type that I don't care if I offend someone, I speak the truth and I speak what's on my mind.
  • Jerrypeoples
    Jerrypeoples Posts: 1,541 Member
    guys never approach me. a lot of people say my looks are intimidating. not being cocky, just honest :/ how am i supposed to find a boyfriend

    hi...you like peanutbutter?
  • robot_potato
    robot_potato Posts: 1,535 Member
    I've been told that I'm intimidating, mostly by my people I work with. Reasons such as a position of authority, self-confidence, being outspoken, and wit have all been cited. But we all know it's my amazing rack.
  • yokurio
    yokurio Posts: 116 Member
    guys never approach me. a lot of people say my looks are intimidating. not being cocky, just honest :/ how am i supposed to find a boyfriend

    You found me!

    But seriously, I'm not intimidated by anyone. I personally am at a point in my life where I don't know if I want to approach someone and get caught up in a relationship. I'm having fun finally being single and getting to know myself. Meeting someone would just screw up my time with my 3rd favorite person in the world (i have 2 kids), which is me! =-)
  • Jerrypeoples
    Jerrypeoples Posts: 1,541 Member
    My husband told me it was my attitude. I come off as a ***** a lot, I dunno why...but whatever. I'm the type that I don't care if I offend someone, I speak the truth and I speak what's on my mind.

    thats all well and good but i equate that to basketball terms. teams that press do not like to be pressed, therefore people who like to keep it "real" and truthful do not like to hear it themselves or play it off as others are jealous
  • Stronger_Diva
    Stronger_Diva Posts: 149 Member
    Like others said it's the fear of rejection, cause guys like to have odds presented to them or calculated by them for any given situation. If the odds are low due to girl being hot or giving the "l will stab you in the eye with my highheel if you talk to me" look, then you start to submit to the fear of rejection and just give up.

    I use to be like that very young around girls I'm interested in, until in college I figured what the worst that could happen? so now I just walk up and say hi and try to interject humor into the approach.

    That is beautiful! That's what I love about my Husband the most, his confidence. :) Guys, have this and you will do well in the "pick-up" department.
  • ARDuBaie
    ARDuBaie Posts: 378 Member
    Let's see....

    A few years back, I was in a car accident. Car near totaled and I in a neck brace. Boyfriend calls and ask if I could come see him. He lives about 3 hours away. I tell him I can't because I am in a neck brace and my car is in the shop. "How can I help you if you don't tell me that you are hurt?" he says.

    Next month, brace now off, I slip in the tub and fractured three ribs. In lots of pain and on pain medication. Figure I will call boyfriend to let him know I am hurt even though I am perfectly able to take care of myself. Boyfriend gets sulky and keeps the conversation short.

    Two weeks later, boyfriend calls and says that our relationship will not work. He needs...... a strong woman.

    Now, what the hell am I? I get through a car accident, not calling him only to get yelled out about not calling him. So I call him the next time I am hurt and he gets all sulky on me. Says he needs a strong woman.

    I have sky dived, breezed horses, raced cars, skied, mountain biked, etc. and he doesn't see me as being strong???!!!

    I think the problem was that I was too strong for him and intimidated him. He's a wuz in my book.

    I give up.
  • ashmariehay
    ashmariehay Posts: 35 Member
    One of my favorite quotes:

    "There's something about a woman who wants you but doesn't need you" :heart:




    ^^^ THIS <3
  • hrshygrl00
    hrshygrl00 Posts: 66 Member
    A phallus.

    :laugh: :laugh:
  • Jerrypeoples
    Jerrypeoples Posts: 1,541 Member
    if she has more farkle chips than i do
  • HealthWoke0ish
    HealthWoke0ish Posts: 2,078 Member
    If she is a psychopath wielding a gun.

    Nah, because I'm cool as a cucumber and also wielding a gun. #slowissmoothandsmoothisfast #Iwon'tmiss

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