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Why do YOU delete "friends"

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  • Naywifey07
    Naywifey07 Posts: 74 Member
    I think I am about to delete some "friends" because out of about 15 friends only 2-3 motivates me.... So there be it......
  • demorelli
    demorelli Posts: 508 Member
    Not logging in for over a month (there are a couple I'm really hoping will come back so I haven't deleted them". I haven't had enough other problems yet but there have been some jerks on the forums who I would have deleted of they were my friends.

    Got a friend request turned down today :( but I understand. The person had posted something inspiring and got like a million friend requests.
  • jennaworksout
    jennaworksout Posts: 1,739 Member
    people who don't log anymore...or have eating disorders, can't support that
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    When they don't pay the bacon rent.
  • SueGeer
    SueGeer Posts: 1,169 Member
    I only delete if they haven't been on for so long their account status is registered 'inactive'.
  • delonda1
    delonda1 Posts: 525 Member
    -Havent logged in over a month
    - Dont motivate
    -Talk negatively ALL THE TIME
  • Aello11
    Aello11 Posts: 312 Member
    Haven't logged in a month ..

    ^^^ This
  • sdreed25
    sdreed25 Posts: 208 Member
    - haven't logged in for a month.
    - under-eating consistently despite constantly posting about wanting to change.
    - people with ED's, they need professional help not mine
    - people with 20-30 status updates per day with only 2-3 being about fitness/food
    - people that don't interact with me and never comment on my posts (I mean ever)

    I've had quite a few deleting sessions over the months on here, it's very rewarding :p
  • Silvara_11
    Silvara_11 Posts: 133 Member
    Deleted someone who posted more about her faith and love for god than fitness and weight loss. I respect your religious beliefs but I'm not here for a praise the lord session.
  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,690 Member
    The only reason I'd ever delete someone is if they turned into a creeper. one dude literally posted something in the forum where he talked about his wife and kids, I responded, he added me, and starts hitting on me. EW! I feel bad for his wife.
  • NutellaAddict
    NutellaAddict Posts: 1,258 Member
    Because they want to see my junk.
  • drchimpanzee
    drchimpanzee Posts: 892 Member
    If they go from "would bang" to "no bang." That's pretty much it.
  • enewsome2
    enewsome2 Posts: 355 Member
    Sometimes I'll go through and delete anyone that doesn't talk to me or log in.

    This way my feed is only full of people I talk to on a regular basis, so I can see what they're doing really quickly, then get on with my day.
  • Kamile69
    Kamile69 Posts: 87
    -the ones who never comment on my successes/failures/challenges, or anything for that matter!
    -the ones who haven't logged on in at least a month.
  • VpinkLotus
    VpinkLotus Posts: 849 Member
    -the ones who never comment on my successes/failures/challenges, or anything for that matter!
    -the ones who haven't logged on in at least a month.


    this
  • drchimpanzee
    drchimpanzee Posts: 892 Member
    People who post slutty photos of themselves for attention lol

    This:mad:

    Please give me their names before unadding them. I always need more friends that do this :)
  • bsuew
    bsuew Posts: 628 Member
    I have only deleted a couple but it was because of their attitude and mouth, and a couple when they haven't logged in forever.
  • DonnaLeeCattes
    DonnaLeeCattes Posts: 492 Member
    Haven't logged in a month ..


    This!!!!
  • joeysox
    joeysox Posts: 195 Member
    Add me and NEVER speak...how are we friends if you don't talk/comment anything! x
  • conniehv40
    conniehv40 Posts: 442 Member
    when they stop logging
    when they never respond with any encouragement to others but log all the time
    when they just collect friends
    when they seem a little strange for my liking after a bit or seem self absorbed after a bit.
  • gerirojas
    gerirojas Posts: 101 Member
    People who want to add you, then never ever respond to anything you do or write
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    People that NEVER interact.

    People with ED's.....that aren't trying to get better.
  • b/c he wears a banana hammock and I just get tired of seeing his junk every time I log in.

    eww!!!!! haha thats so funny! and i can totally picture it in my head

    I was picturing it too. :laugh:
  • nikki_mar
    nikki_mar Posts: 32 Member
    When they don't respond to my posts to them after about 3 times. If I'm checking up on your well-being, or saying hello, at least say "boo" or something,
  • ellepribro
    ellepribro Posts: 226 Member
    I delete people who:
    - haven't logged in for a while (usually over 3 weeks),
    - constantly post negative things about themselves or healthy lifestyles,
    - are only here to seek attention,
    - do not interact with me. I try to motivate everyone on my list, and if I find I'm not getting motivation in return I'll delete them.
  • If they're sending me dirty messages, or if they don't interact with me. I want FRIENDS, not just people on a list.

    While I haven't gotten dirty messages, I agree with the interacting part. I had a "friend" who lost a good deal of weight. If I remember correctly, I saw her on a forum and sent a message telling her she looks great, and she friended me. She had tons of friends. She would update her status, and I would comment, but she never commented on anything of mine. Doesn't feel like a friend. One day she started talking about doing a detox. Not my thing...so I unfriended her. And people who don't log in for a month or more.
  • brit_ks_89
    brit_ks_89 Posts: 433 Member
    we dont interact
    not motivated
  • coffee_rocks
    coffee_rocks Posts: 275 Member
    What are these "friends" one speaks of?
  • I have deleted people for the following 3 reasons:
    1). Haven't logged in a long time, 30 days +
    2). Told me to "get back to it" when I said I ate chocolate
    3). Said god created all food
  • foxro
    foxro Posts: 793 Member
    What are these "friends" one speaks of?
    Exactly, and they have a surplus that they can get rid of !!!!:laugh:
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