Want to be "the hot guy." Others with vain motivations?

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  • highervibes
    highervibes Posts: 2,219 Member
    My motivations used to be vain, then I had a massive stroke (not diet related) and decided I didn't like the feeling of possibly leaving my 4 and 3 year old without a mother - so it most definitely is about health now. Being a MILF will be a awesome fringe benefit though!
  • norrisski
    norrisski Posts: 1,217 Member
    I am hotter than I was in my twenties. It was the added benefit when I decided to lose the weight and realized that I needed to start lifting to tone all the extra skin from years of being stretched out. I love checking out my own booty when I am in the dressing room. I like it when people compliment me but the most important person is who looks back at me in the mirror.
  • Lane1012
    Lane1012 Posts: 211 Member
    I love unicorns .. I'm doing it to look good in a pink unicorn shirt.
  • tiffsting
    tiffsting Posts: 23 Member
    I have always been the bigger girl with the fun personality guys liked to hang out with, but they wouldnt treat me or even look at me like the thinner girls. So I would LOVE to have that sort of attention and I'm looking forward to it! My other big motivation will be fitting to the clothes I love! Styles are limited for big girls and I cant wait to get a brand new sexy wardrobe ^^

    Exactly! Love this!!

    This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about! I've got the personality, the pretty face, now it's just time to get the hot body and no longer be known as the "bigger girl thats fun to hangout with"!
  • DirtyHammer
    DirtyHammer Posts: 91 Member
    Pretty much for pure vainity here. Thinking about it, that's about 100% true. Hehm,.. Whatevs
  • Fit_Mama84
    Fit_Mama84 Posts: 234 Member
    Yep, 100% why I'm doing this. I've never had any health issues at all so there's really no motivation there. I just want to look hot and I am willing to admit it.
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    Every year, my company forces us to attend a 'picnic' (it's nothing more than a work meeting that happens to take place outside and we provide our own food, but I digress). Since this picnic happens while it's warm, we are 'allowed' to wear casual clothes. So while getting fit and healthy has been great for me, I'm also kind of wondering if I'll get checked out if I show up in a size medium t-shirt and jeans.

    Vain? Absolutely... but I prefer to call it a social experiment.
  • StephanieCo3
    StephanieCo3 Posts: 122 Member
    Pretty much straight up vanity. I even bought an outfit to motivate me/reward me. And it's not an outfit I could wear to the mall. Plus my boyfriend is sooo skinny so even though I'm not fat, I still feel large next to him, and I'd like to be tiny instead.
  • Health.. yeah that's the normal answer.. I'm definitely doing for looks this year..lol... I want to fit my wedding dress and I want to strengthen my sex life.. better shape.. boost of confidence.. better sex life with the hubby :)
  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    It's always a let down when you have a group of friends and needless to say you're never the one the girl asks about.

    Changing that every day! Plus, I want to be a real life super saiyan.
  • Sherae12
    Sherae12 Posts: 89 Member
    I've always wanted to be the hottest girl in the room. I think everybody has that desire to be wanted. It's natural.
  • Sherae12
    Sherae12 Posts: 89 Member
    It's always a let down when you have a group of friends and needless to say you're never the one the girl asks about.

    Changing that every day! Plus, I want to be a real life super saiyan.


    It's OVER 9000!!! lol
  • laele75
    laele75 Posts: 283 Member
    Does "I want to shop for clothes in the ladies sized section for the first time since I was 20' count? My doctor ordered me to lose weight and my leg pain is the catalyst, but really, clothing shopping is horrible when you're a 3x. :(
  • wendybird5
    wendybird5 Posts: 577 Member
    I don't need to be considered hot by everyone. Just that one great guy with whom I'm going to spend the rest of my life. But I wouldn't mind if I was.
  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    It's always a let down when you have a group of friends and needless to say you're never the one the girl asks about.

    Changing that every day! Plus, I want to be a real life super saiyan.


    It's OVER 9000!!! lol
    Uh oh, instant friendship?
  • laurenbrooke79
    laurenbrooke79 Posts: 27 Member
    I am a sophomore in college right now and 30 pounds overweight. i do not want to look back and be pissed at myself for not having the best body of my life. I want to be the girl with the body everyone wants! ,, and i will :P
  • Gina91507
    Gina91507 Posts: 51 Member
    Sure! I want to be one hot momma myself...and HOT not just hot for my age...or for someone with 2 kids ;)

    Ha! I say this all the time. I want people to say you look great, period. Not you look great for 32, or you look great for having two children.
  • triciab79
    triciab79 Posts: 1,713 Member
    My motivation was completely vain. I wanted to be thinner than my sister's and hot before I went to visit them last Sept. Vanity works just fine as a motivator.
  • PonyTailedLoser
    PonyTailedLoser Posts: 315 Member
    Meeeee! :happy:
  • glennstoudt
    glennstoudt Posts: 403 Member
    When I go to nursing homes and senior care villages I am considered hot. It's awesome.
  • pb3693
    pb3693 Posts: 21 Member
    It's always a let down when you have a group of friends and needless to say you're never the one the girl asks about.

    Changing that every day! Plus, I want to be a real life super saiyan.

    ^ sucks when you're the girl that never gets asked about too. I've spent most of my life surrounded by tall/skinny, or short/skinny friends and am sick of blending in because I'm awesome dammit LOL I want to be in better shape now than I ever was in my teens and I've got a bunch of motivation now. In closing...high five to the underdogs!! :)
  • pb3693
    pb3693 Posts: 21 Member
    I love unicorns .. I'm doing it to look good in a pink unicorn shirt.

    This reason made me lol for real. Best motivation ever.
  • erinpd
    erinpd Posts: 96
    Yup, I want to be hot. I have never been the "hot" friend, and I just turned 28. I don't think it's ridiculous to want be smokin' hot by the time I'm 30, no?
  • Sherae12
    Sherae12 Posts: 89 Member
    It's always a let down when you have a group of friends and needless to say you're never the one the girl asks about.

    Changing that every day! Plus, I want to be a real life super saiyan.


    It's OVER 9000!!! lol
    Uh oh, instant friendship?


    Absolutely!!! I'll message you.
  • PlantBasedGrace
    PlantBasedGrace Posts: 64 Member
    I definitely want to look good, but mostly for myself since I am lucky enough to already have a supportive boyfriend who loves me the way I am. I want to be super toned and athletic!
  • pb3693
    pb3693 Posts: 21 Member
    Annnnd finally...ahem.

    Yes I have completely vain motivators involved in my pursuit to get leaner, stronger and healthier. I want to look and feel sexy for once, and have the damn confidence to make people take notice. I'm working on my music business degree and knowing that the music industry is very male dominated, I need all the confidence and attention grabbing ability that I can possibly have. I need to be able to work the whole eye lash batting, flirty angle effectively. But mainly I want to be hot to myself I guess. To finally feel like the outside matches the inside and gain the benefits of that. :)
  • Rado_SVK
    Rado_SVK Posts: 442 Member
    I always say the best things are balanced things..so I'm doing what I'm doing 50% to feel good and 50% to look good..
  • RacerX_14
    RacerX_14 Posts: 578 Member
    Yep, definitely want to look good nekkid!! Plus be strong as hell and in great shape too!
  • I am doing this 100% to look good, If I could eat crap all day and still be skinny I would. I'm sorry but it's true. I'm going to be a bridesmaid at my brother's wedding and his fiancee is small and skinny and I don't want to be twice her size next to her, and bridesmaids dresses tend to be very unforgiving. Also I want to stop the hurtful comments I've received about my weight. And I want to be able to fit into clothes and look good in then and not have to buy new jeans every month because I've ripped them.
  • teamike
    teamike Posts: 83 Member
    I started working out, to lose weight before our Disney World vacation in May. I didn't want to see more vacation pics with me being fat. I won't get completely where I want to be by then, but I believe I will have a good jump on it. Since I have started, my attitude has changed a little. Now I worry that I will gain too much weight while on vacation.

    In the beginning it was for vanity, however I am now likeing the idea of being fit.