What size is sexy? MEN PLEASE!

mllst18
mllst18 Posts: 188 Member
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Ok. So, my husband and I got into this debate this weekend after we went to the strip club. He thinks that women built like me are sexy (kinda nice, huh?!). I'm a size 12 with enormous hips, thunder thighs, and 38DD. He seemed to think that the stripper that he though was doing the most personal dances was close to my size (I didn't seem to think so, but he could have been right). We're going to a lingerie party in a few weeks and I'd like to wear something revealing, but I'm also a little nervous about being super self-conscious....

So, my question is, what size and body type are you attracted to?
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  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
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  • RunWinterGarden
    RunWinterGarden Posts: 428 Member
    It varies from guy to guy and it varies by the girl based on how she carries it. All in all, I would think a generic "medium" for lingerie is generally considered sexy by myself.

    But what the hell is a lingerie party and how do I get invited to one and convince my wife to attend?
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
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  • TheSwoleMinister_deleted
    TheSwoleMinister_deleted Posts: 540 Member
    It's going to be different for every guy. Probably not the answer you were looking for, huh? :ohwell:
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Depends on who is in the "size".
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    lol
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
    Sexy is a state of mind
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.
  • mrphil86
    mrphil86 Posts: 2,382 Member
    It depends on the woman! Every body type has it's sexy size and it's always in the eyes of the beholder as well.
  • mrphil86
    mrphil86 Posts: 2,382 Member
    I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

    True!
  • Bolluxed
    Bolluxed Posts: 7 Member
    I do like Big Butts and I can not lie.
  • __RANDY__
    __RANDY__ Posts: 1,036 Member
    what ever size this is
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    same girl

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  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    Any size as long as everything is still firm for the most part. I was with a Cambodian girl for a while and we weighed he same, but she looked way better than me and had HUUUUUGE.. that some how were natural and firm.
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    Bendy ones
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

    Meh. Everyone seeks some type of validation. I got no problem with it.
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcReCffHVW9jQ8cPbpCT92dHmqrtUEGM-_kv-dLRDAlFrPmWfN0fQA

    :laugh:
  • dale24105
    dale24105 Posts: 9
    I like most any size as long as the pesonality is nice. As far as what to wear to the lingerie party, how about something sheer with noothing underneath. that way you are both covered and sexy.
  • Drussander
    Drussander Posts: 266 Member
    Really, I don't think most people objectify others in terms of size that way. People come in all sizes and shapes and if someone was like "oh you're great and all but I only date size x", would you really want to know this person anyway?
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
    lol
    QFT
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    just like food, no one has the exact same taste. Thankfully! Some would want a girl who looks like me and some would say I was not their taste. To the latter I say "oh well. Next!" :tongue: :laugh:
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    De gustibus non est disputandum
  • thetemplateblog
    thetemplateblog Posts: 53 Member
    For me, it's not so much about size ... It's more about Confidence

    EDIT to include this assuming they are not 'obese'
  • Admiral_Derp
    Admiral_Derp Posts: 866 Member
    I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

    dingdingdingdingding! And the winner is!
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    Every guy has different taste. If your husband married you, you are likely at least part of the variety of women he finds attractive.
    Given the choice, I prefer women with "thinner" frames, but many guys go the other way.

    I always say that any women that makes the most of what she was born with is attractive, but that's just me.
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    To paraphrase the great scholar and philosopher, Forrest Gump - "Sexy is as sexy does."

    Confidence and comportment are the sexiest things you possess. Everything else is just details.
  • albertabeefy
    albertabeefy Posts: 1,169 Member
    I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.
    Confidence is - in itself - sexy. (Applies to both men and women).

    Personally I can find a size 12 sexy or a size 3. I *do*, however, find fitness sexy regardless of body size/shape.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    You should start stripping.
  • mllst18
    mllst18 Posts: 188 Member
    I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

    Not seeking validation as much as I'm just taking a general poll....being stuck up is also not sexy! Get over yourself!
  • crossfit_lover
    crossfit_lover Posts: 230 Member
    Varies for each girl but if I had to pick a size it would be "medium". "Sexy" is something that everyone is capable of and is not necessarily external but INTERNAL, I feel. With that being said, I probably have the "Sexiest" friend list on all of MFP.....just sayin
  • LoraF83
    LoraF83 Posts: 15,694 Member
    It's going to be different for every guy. Probably not the answer you were looking for, huh? :ohwell:

    Exactly.

    This is like asking "What do you like on your pizza?"

    Everyone is going to have different answers. The easiest solution? Find someone who likes the same toppings as you.

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