What size is sexy? MEN PLEASE!

Ya'll should really get off her back. I love MFP, because for the most part it is a supportive environment. However I have noticed that message board threads on here can quickly turn into an attack on someone if they post something that you don't like. We all have the right to ask whatever we want....if you don't like the question, do not take the time to post. And folks also please stop acting as if you have never in your life...even for a moment.....sought outward validation or reassurance. Everyone has at some point so get off her back.

It really doesn't matter, as long as your confident !!! Confidence is SUPER sexy! :bigsmile:


<<< SIZE 10 and rockin that big boootay !

I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

Not seeking validation as much as I'm just taking a general poll....being stuck up is also not sexy! Get over yourself!

Was it the arrow pointing to myself as the size of sexy or my comment about insecure women that makes me stuck up? Or maybe a combination of both?

There was nothing stuck up about my comment. You come across as a women who cares too much about being visually appealing to men (the "MEN PLEASE!") in your title is what brought me to this judgement. My comment was my opinion which I rarely hold back..especially on thread asking for opinions and posted on a public forum.

Opinions are like *kitten*, everybody has one..

Here's my take on the situation.

My fiance LOVES my body type. I am not skinny nor fat. I am extremely proportionate. I have an hourglass figure, so to speak. I WEIGH 190 pounds. I do NOT have a flat stomach. I do have a few rolls here and there, but I am not covered in cellulite. I am a 38D and I wear a size 14 in pants, an XL in shirts. Do I look as big as I sound? No. Not at all.

Point is, my man is attracted to my body type. He doesn't want to go out with a very skinny woman. He doesn't like how they look. He fears that he'll break them. He told me last night that big thighs are sexy. Not FAT thighs, but big thighs.

I would have to agree with other posters, though. The LEAST sexy thing in the world is an insecure woman seeking validation from other men. Does your husband find you attractive? Yes? That's all that matters. Furthermore, do YOU find you attractive? If yes, good. If not, work on it. My fiance loves me, but I personally would like to drop another 40 pounds or so. He just wants me to be happy. I have a big frame and I will NEVER be "skinny" anyway. My goal is health.

I read an article about marilyn monroe and it was a bit sad... but when I read stuff like this I find it interesting because if you at size 12 said ... DAYUMM I am sexy you would be! I promise! Marily had special made dresses she was a 16 by all rights but they never wanted her dresses to say more thana 12 so all the tags did. Marilyn was sexy. so who really knows. kind of like you are what you eat well you are also what you think you are. We manifest our own destiny. So with my magic wand I command you to be SEXY!

I'm not a guy, but I like girls, so I'm just going to butt on in right about now.
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Also, I'm about to sound superduper shallow.

For me, it's not about size it's about shape. I've seen some size 10s that are rocking a flat tummy, curves, and just an overall thickness, very nice.

I also have a friend who is a size 4, she had a baby recently, she has the same tummy pouch I have. Not to say that it's not cute (I think they're cute, and the story behind them makes me melt, I love babies) but if we're talking lingerie parties and strip clubs, I'd rather see my size 10 friend.

So like I said, for a lot of guys (and girls) it's not about the size or weight, it's about what they look like naked.


ALL THAT BEING SAID. Confidence = sexy. Gimme a size 14 in a corset and some thigh highs and I'm set to go, okayyyy.

Can I have a crush on you? (:

I'm not a guy, but I like girls, so I'm just going to butt on in right about now.
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Also, I'm about to sound superduper shallow.

For me, it's not about size it's about shape. I've seen some size 10s that are rocking a flat tummy, curves, and just an overall thickness, very nice.

I also have a friend who is a size 4, she had a baby recently, she has the same tummy pouch I have. Not to say that it's not cute (I think they're cute, and the story behind them makes me melt, I love babies) but if we're talking lingerie parties and strip clubs, I'd rather see my size 10 friend.

So like I said, for a lot of guys (and girls) it's not about the size or weight, it's about what they look like naked.


ALL THAT BEING SAID. Confidence = sexy. Gimme a size 14 in a corset and some thigh highs and I'm set to go, okayyyy.

Can I have a crush on you? (:

Yes please
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Sexiness comes from within and permeates out. Many people would be attracted to that regardless of size.

In areas of the world where health means heavy, such as the tribes in Congo Africa, a large woman is sought after. In first world countries like America where food is plentiful, skinny is the norm. I believe its very demographic.

I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

Yep!