Girls - your first thought when..

Can't really share the thoughts that go through my head when I see something like that. Let's just say I'm focused on the visual until he opens his mouth--then the thinking kicks back in.

interesting. this is kind of what i was wondering.

Spill it..You hit on someone and didn't get the reaction you were hoping for?

no i never hit on girls, im pretty shy. but i was told by a girl that i know that they can be intimidated by a guy with a really nice body or something like that? like im only concerned with looks or something, or their body has to be crazy good too,

So you never hit on woman?
You'd date someone that wasn't as fit as yourself?
Since your shy..I am too..how do you go about dating?
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pretty simple, i dont.
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Username says "fishin." Methinks that speaks the truth.

Can't really share the thoughts that go through my head when I see something like that. Let's just say I'm focused on the visual until he opens his mouth--then the thinking kicks back in.

LOL- yup, that is pretty much it. I usually miss what they are saying at first b/c I am A) thinking how good they look, they must be so dedicated and they must be lost or something....wait, what did he just say?

I don't really have experience with that.

Depends on the situation



Would you be walking up to me with your shirt off?

would i have better success shirtless? id be afraid that might come off a bit "douchey" if i undress before approaching.

Honestly either way I would probably turn red and not be able to talk

i am a dork

Also i would have no judgments about you based on your appearance...people are so strange when they say that they worry men in good shape spend too much time in the mirror or are in love with themselves,etc

really?

caring about yourself is a bad thing? plus it doesnt take hours upon hours to have effective gym workouts and eat to accomplish whatever your goals are.

anyway, i like to have an open mind.

you see a fit/muscular guy, or get hit on by a guy like that do you instantly think he is narcissistic or shallow cuz he's buff? or do you just think, cool that guy has a nice body?

No, wouldn't think he was narcissistic or shallow at all, but I would look around to see who he was talking to.

Woman...any female over the age of 18-20 is a woman. Personally, I prefer muscle that is built by playing a sport or doing manual work over the gym type of muscles.

LOL do you have a magic wand that tells you how mens have earned their muscle?

this is interesting, getting several different opinions.

That's because some women just want a play thing and some women actually want to get to know and like the person. It all depends on what you are looking for.
Most of all women are afraid of rejection just like men are.

I don't really have experience with that.

Depends on the situation



Would you be walking up to me with your shirt off?

would i have better success shirtless? id be afraid that might come off a bit "douchey" if i undress before approaching.

Honestly either way I would probably turn red and not be able to talk

i am a dork

Also i would have no judgments about you based on your appearance...people are so strange when they say that they worry men in good shape spend too much time in the mirror or are in love with themselves,etc

really?

caring about yourself is a bad thing? plus it doesnt take hours upon hours to have effective gym workouts and eat to accomplish whatever your goals are.

anyway, i like to have an open mind.

If I went up to a girl to flirt and she turned red and got shy, I would find that so endearing that I would keep trying to flirt with her.

I know what you mean...girls think I must be totally shy and not very confident..why they slap me, pour drinks on me and go PFFT and walk away is beyond me.....
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If women are anything like us their personality is the last thing on their minds.

but are they like us?

Yup.

I don't judge them by the muscles, i've had very smart muscular guys talk to me, and be sweet, and be kind. Nice guys and douches come in all kind of packages. They have to open their mouth first for me to know how they truly are. And then they have to open their wallet. The end.

You had me until "open their wallet". That drives me nutsssssssss!!!!!!!!!

Gahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I would be somewhat rude if I continued, but suffice it to say- men are not ATMs, and I HATE the perpetuation of the idea that women consider them to be. Yuck.

you see a fit/muscular guy, or get hit on by a guy like that do you instantly think he is narcissistic or shallow cuz he's buff? or do you just think, cool that guy has a nice body?

first thought: What the hell does this guy see in some 48 year old broad? Second thought: DAMN, I still "got it", YES!

When they open their mouths and start talking, that's when I start to judge. A great body is one thing, a great mind completes the package.

Let's flip the situation- if an attractive woman speaks to/ smiles at/ or comes up to you- do you automatically think she is flirting? Do you think she is shallow for choosing you, if she is flirting?

I would immediately think she was put up to it by a friend and was trying to mock me.

hah- I smile/talk to justtt about anyone. I learned it as a solo barfly when bored and couldn't find someone to hang out with.

If I'm interested, I attempt to make it known, but I don't think I'm great at that part.

i have no clue how to pick up girls, and im 28 lol.

Put up shirtless pic on site with a lot of women.

Ask innocent question.

Be polite and a little coy.

Profit.

I think "SHWINNNNNNG!" But no really, I just hold my purse because you can never be too trusting and he maybe trying to rob me.

You got that right! :laugh: He could be CRAZY!

Seriously, though - how rude of that girl to tell him that, just because he is good looking. After a few months on this site, I hope I am so good looking that someone is rude to me, too!