Girls - your first thought when..

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  • Grlnxtdr0721
    Grlnxtdr0721 Posts: 597 Member
    There are a lot of things to consider-- the situation, how he comes across, if there is a sincere smile, body language....Also, as much as I hate to admit it, it also depends on who he surrounds himself with. If it is a lot of muscular guys, a red flag would probably be raised in my mind. However, all in all, it just depends on the person. I really try not to judge a book by it's cover
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    Nowadays it used to be because I was cute...now it's because the fellas think I'm a nice old lady.
    A nice old lady checking out your butt tight enough to bounce a quarter off of, but still....
  • joycebug
    joycebug Posts: 309
    One of the buff guys I was attracted to at the gym just asked me out the other day and it was totally flattering. After working out as hard as I've been, I realize the dedication it takes to have that kind of a body. Maybe he's slightly narcissistic, but I respect him for his hard work.
  • rockangel8907
    rockangel8907 Posts: 429 Member
    Well....a couple of the guys who I have dated who were really fit and into body building left a bad taste in my mouth by telling me that they were the best I would ever get. And then treating me like crap.
  • SerenaFisher
    SerenaFisher Posts: 2,170 Member
    you see a fit/muscular guy, or get hit on by a guy like that do you instantly think he is narcissistic or shallow cuz he's buff? or do you just think, cool that guy has a nice body?
    I would compare our muscle, if he found this odd I would beat him up.
  • bleedingdesu
    bleedingdesu Posts: 63 Member
    I just think he's barking up the wrong tree.
  • melb_alex
    melb_alex Posts: 1,154 Member
    you see a fit/muscular guy, or get hit on by a guy like that do you instantly think he is narcissistic or shallow cuz he's buff? or do you just think, cool that guy has a nice body?


    It usually takes about 10 seconds to differentiate a conceited cocky guy from a genuine self assured guy :)

    Being overly hot, people generally tend to swing with the first one as they are intimidated but I always give people a chance :)
  • katy_trail
    katy_trail Posts: 1,992 Member
    There are a lot of things to consider-- the situation, how he comes across, if there is a sincere smile, body language....Also, as much as I hate to admit it, it also depends on who he surrounds himself with. If it is a lot of muscular guys, a red flag would probably be raised in my mind. However, all in all, it just depends on the person. I really try not to judge a book by it's cover

    where is the red flag with a guy who is muscular and has muscular friends?
    who is he supposed to be friends with?
    guys with no muscle?
  • squatsandlipgloss
    squatsandlipgloss Posts: 595 Member
    I don't think "hey he has a nice body" because I just don't think so (opinions are opinions, yeah?). But I also don't think "wow he is arrogant" or anything. Depends on how he brings it across. And very honestly, the way you bring it across "do you think he is narcissistic or shallow or do you just think, that guy has a nice body?" is very, incredibly shallow.
  • yoyofighter
    yoyofighter Posts: 323 Member
    I think man he is going to be great in bed and I love his body:wink:
  • misssexybelt
    misssexybelt Posts: 19
    it depends. i hope he is good in bed and had a rockinbody lol
  • Minerva624
    Minerva624 Posts: 577 Member
    It's hard to say. I appreciate a good body but most (not all) of the guys I've known with a great muscular body were jerks. I always give them a chance though.
  • pseudomuffin
    pseudomuffin Posts: 1,058 Member
    "ARE YOU MY SPIRIT ANIMAL?"
  • kath2810
    kath2810 Posts: 93
    a good looking man is intimidating, I'm not gonna lie. I never would have approached my husband had we not met online. I have always considered him "one of the beautiful people" and me, not so much. I have realized that not all good looking men are shallow and conceited. There are men out there that want a real woman with a real personality. That is why I said that is depends on the approach of the man. Besides, at the end of the day we all get old and looks fade. That isn't really what is important in life.

    yep to this
  • MizPassion
    MizPassion Posts: 245 Member
    I don't assume anything until I get to know the person. It depends on their personality and the vibe/energy they send. I've met gentle giants and cocky toothpicks. It can go both ways.
  • _EmmaStrong_
    _EmmaStrong_ Posts: 647 Member
    I just think "He must need glasses!"
  • Cindy873
    Cindy873 Posts: 1,165
    I don't get hit on. However, if I see a guy with a nice physique I have no problem admiring the eye candy. It really wouldn't occur to me that someone would automatically be narcissistic just because he takes care of his body.
  • LMT2012
    LMT2012 Posts: 697 Member
    At my age I think "MILF hunter" and "probably still has the training wheels on"
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    If women are anything like us their personality is the last thing on their minds.

    but are they like us?


    No. Nothing is more important than personality. Looks aren't very important, though for me personally, I like men with meat on their bones. The super buff kind of body that looks like a doctor's muscle chart (sorry, OP) is a HUGE TURN-OFF for me. Kind of like trying to ride a bike over ten miles of rough, bumpy bad road.
  • spidey11186
    spidey11186 Posts: 141 Member
    I don't really have experience with that.

    Depends on the situation



    Would you be walking up to me with your shirt off?

    Jules, I will always walk up to you with my shirt off.
  • tonyanoemy
    tonyanoemy Posts: 15
    if you are worrying about intimidating the poor girl, maybe you are hitting on the wrong girl
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    "Brah"...
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