Why do people hide their food diaries on here?
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I've been on the internet long enough to know that you rarely regret maintaining your privacy.0
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Mine is private because I don't have any friends on here, I use it for my own personal use and I get any advice/answers I may need from what other people post.
If I had any MFP friends then it would be open to them. There is some criticism on these boards and I come here for support not for strangers who think they're experts to judge me or tell me what i'm 'doing wrong'.
This is a journey for me so i'm not going to be perfect and i'm trying my best so i'd rather people are supportive in a positive way.
I don't stuff my face or overeat which seems to be the main assumption. My issue is probably that I struggle to meet my calories as i'm still learning.
Don't be so quick to judge people. There are so many reasons why people may have their diaries private.0 -
Why do you care?
What is the frickin animosity about? This is a forum, I posted a question, IF YOU DONT LIKE WHAT I ASKED DO NOT RESPOND...Furthermore, Why do you care? is not an answer. Please start your own forum and ask that question...
You do realize you just threw back attitude (animosity) right back at the questionee asking the questioner, right? 2 wrongs do not make a right. If you don't like the answer, ignore it and move on.
Thanks, your majesty. I am glad I have your approval. Because I surely fall short of your perfected glory...0 -
Just like primary school :indifferent:0
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I think it's better for more people to have their diaries open. I understand that it is a personal thing and if there was less non-constructive criticism out there, I'm sure more people would. At least for me, it's definitely an accountability. I am much more conscious of what I put in my mouth knowing that everyone else will know too. This is the whole reason most of us signed up for MFP - our own, private, personal eating and self-accountability wasn't working. We need the constant support and motivation to make better choices. But, I can understand the other side.
What I find more helpful with those that have open diaries, regardless if we are friends or not, is help with my own eating. Particularly when I started this journey, I had no concept of portion sizes/calories and what I could eat that fit in my allotment. A lot of the beginning stages were trial and error. However, as I've gotten more savvy with the community aspect, I can see others diaries and maybe try different foods/recipes that others with successes are eating just to change things up a bit. It's comforting to know someone is consistently losing weight and staying in their calorie goals while having a chocolate ice cream bar. It reinforces that not everything needs to be fruits, vegetables and brown rice and keeps me from "falling off".
I feel the same way...I don't have time to look at my friends' diaries but when I do it is to compliment something that they are eating, that I wish I could be eating right now. But that's how me and my friends do, so I don't know why these people on here are getting all hostile at me for just asking a question. People ask questions all the time on here and they act like I have asked the worst question EVER...0 -
So very true, I agree 100%!I ask that same question when I first joined MFP. And, I received some of the same answers. My diary has always been open and public since day 1. I have nothing to hide. How can the MFP community support you when you hide your diaries?
Not everyone is on the site for community support. Some people are using it as a tool to keep track of their intake, not for everyone else to keep track of it as well.0 -
When I first signed up it was set as a default on private. Now, I look at it as a personal thing for me. It is an option for everyone. I don't think people should be ridiculed if they wanted to keep it as a personal thing or if they want to have it viewable for everyone to see. I personally don't think it should be that big of a deal.
I am conscious of what I put in my mouth and have nothing to hide but I didn't join for the approval of others regarding what I eat. I joined for the tools on here to help keep track of everything. Therefore, I keep it viewable for me only. There might be others who DO need that extra boost of encouragement from others and that option of having their diaries open is there for them. Which goes back to what I said...It is an OPTION and not that big of a deal.0 -
Because it's none of your business what I eat.
My friends.....I don't care if they see.
The problem is I don't care what you eat...I was just wondering...I have an autistic child to care for, so my time is limited...so you can quit directing the attitude at me now...Thanks.0 -
I guess cause diet is very personal?
I keep mine open because I like to show off and hopefully disgust people.
BEHOLD THE DOZEN DUCK AND CHICKEN EGGS I EAT IN A WEEK!
Hee, awesome!0 -
Because I don't want people to see that I'm a cannibal.0
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So very true, I agree 100%!I ask that same question when I first joined MFP. And, I received some of the same answers. My diary has always been open and public since day 1. I have nothing to hide. How can the MFP community support you when you hide your diaries?
Not everyone is on the site for community support. Some people are using it as a tool to keep track of their intake, not for everyone else to keep track of it as well.
That's me as well. If I wanted feedback on what I am eating from the forums, I would likely open my food diary up, though. For now MFP mostly serves as a place to track my food and exercise for me alone.0 -
I share mine, and would love to friend others who also share theirs as I find it very helpful to get ideas of what others eat to give me new ideas and stay on track without getting bored of the same ol' things add me if you want to share diaries :-)0
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Because I don't want other peoples opinions on what I eat. One will say too much carb, another will say too much fat... and I have done my own research and am doing my own thing. Others opinions are neither wanted nor appreciated.
Also, I don't always put everything in. I know calorie content for most of the things I eat, but not all. So at the moment I don't log everything. I use it to check on things. So people would think I'm starving myself. But as it turns out, it is quite possible to eat more than I log...0 -
:huh:I have an autistic child to care for, so my time is limited...so you can quit directing the attitude at me now...Thanks.0 -
I don't log calories anymore, but when I did my diary was closed. I have had experience with disordered eating and don't find it remotely helpful to have my food choices scrutinized.0
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it does?? no *kitten*.....no wonder I am not losing...Mine is closed because cocaine has calories.0 -
Because it's none of your business what I eat.
My friends.....I don't care if they see.
The problem is I don't care what you eat...I was just wondering...I have an autistic child to care for, so my time is limited...so you can quit directing the attitude at me now...Thanks.
Unfortunately, a lot of animosity seems to be coming from you. Many are simply responding to your question-you seem to take someone disagreeing with you as a personal attack towards you.0 -
it does?? no *kitten*.....no wonder I am not losing...Mine is closed because cocaine has calories.
Puh-lease...everyone in the know has discovered that coke is the best diet ever-especially when combined with a daily pack of Marlboro menthols.0 -
Why do you keep your age a secret? Why do you keep your location a secret?0
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Hi!0
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Mine is closed cuz i know colonel sanders recipe, and its listed in my notes;)
That's fine, as long as you don't have the Busch's Baked Beans recipes then I don't care.
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i know this wasn't/isn't true for me and i don't know that it'll be true for most.This is the whole reason most of us signed up for MFP - our own, private, personal eating and self-accountability wasn't working.
the tool itself is a HUGE draw for me. i imagine it is for others too.
you just tap in your meals and *CLICK* you instantly know how much protein you're eating, whether you get enough fibre or (in my case), with the 'reports' function, what impact hormones have on appetite during the month.
the message boards are full of all manner of interesting things, problems, pictures, funnies.
i think you're making a leap too far there.
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I see this question pop up every now and then and it just cracks me up that people get so offended and put out if someone else has their food diary closed. I just don't get it. Mine is closed because 1. what I'm doing is working for me and I'm not looking for any advice, 2. I only quick add calories so it's of no help to anyone to look at it anyway. I can understand someone struggling asking people to look for help, or someone doing awesome showing off their recipes for inspiration, but some of us are not looking to be a role model or looking for your opinion, so really, what does it matter?0
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Your time is limited, yet you have enough bandwidth to wonder about others' diaries?0
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So very true, I agree 100%!I ask that same question when I first joined MFP. And, I received some of the same answers. My diary has always been open and public since day 1. I have nothing to hide. How can the MFP community support you when you hide your diaries?
Unfortunately, you're assuming that the entire MFP community is supportive. In my short time here I've seen a lot of support but equally as many trolls and vindictive, rude people that could care less about other members and are only here for their own entertainment. Even if people "have nothing to hide", most of us are here because we have issues when it comes to food and/or exercise. We don't need the trolls to counteract the changes we're trying to make.0 -
When I started on here I had no clue about an open diary until someone said something to me...then I changed it. so maybe they don't even know it's closed.... I personally think it should be open it helps other people who need help to lose the weight see what the people are eating that are doing well.....but either way it doesn't bother me!0
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Noticed all the pot smokers are always so skinny too... even though they eat a ton.
If only alcohol had no calories
it does?? no *kitten*.....no wonder I am not losing...Mine is closed because cocaine has calories.
Puh-lease...everyone in the know has discovered that coke is the best diet ever-especially when combined with a daily pack of Marlboro menthols.0 -
Because if you aren't on my friends list, why are you checking my diary? Mine is open if you are a friend, otherwise, it's closed.
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Because it's my business and I want to. I don't need anyone criticizing my choices or telling me I shouldn't eat things based on their opinions. The only person I would be hurting by not being honest is me. It's my responsibility to myself. I have had friends that would put things in that weren't true just to impress other people and that was ridiculous. I finally closed mine after getting tired of people telling me: "Oh you really shouldn't eat that."0
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Cos it's none of your beeswax? Why do you care what peeps is eating, unless they specifically ask "what's wrong with my diet?"
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