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  • megabyt23
    megabyt23 Posts: 580 Member
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    I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

    As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

    I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

    false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.
  • Cutting4life
    Cutting4life Posts: 505 Member
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    time to find a new wife/gf has nothing to do with insecure/secure
  • bookworm_847
    bookworm_847 Posts: 1,903 Member
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    I wouldn't care and told my husband that if he and his buddies wanted to go to a strip club, that's fine with me. As a good friend of his said, "I'm married, not dead."
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
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    I am all for it
  • nic_ci
    nic_ci Posts: 110 Member
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    I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

    As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

    I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

    false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.

    Age doesn't matter...insecurity is the key...if you know he's going home with you other girls shouldn't matter...it's just a job, strippers don't want your man!!!
  • mustang289
    mustang289 Posts: 299 Member
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    I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

    As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

    I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

    false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.

    They got older, but they never matured and never felt secure in themselves or their relationship.

    Now if the question were "what do you think of strip clubs?"
    I've been in the past, but I've got a different outlook on them now. I wouldn't want my daughter, sister, or granddaughter to work in one, so it would be hypocritical for me to go. Not my cup of tea, but if others find them necessary I don't have a problem with them going.
  • tequila09
    tequila09 Posts: 764 Member
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    Not up in here.
  • fShaw86
    fShaw86 Posts: 878 Member
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    I would definitely be upset, sad, and/or jealous!
  • Thena81
    Thena81 Posts: 1,265 Member
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    depends on if im going
    just sayin... then i can watch this supposed lap dance and see if i disapprove.
    ive been to male joints when i was younger, i get it..
  • thatonegirlwiththestuff
    thatonegirlwiththestuff Posts: 1,171 Member
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    My husband does go to strip clubs. Even the ones on business trips where the strippers allow him to cop a feel. But I couldn't care less. Better them than me.
  • kekeleeks
    kekeleeks Posts: 74 Member
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    I'd be mad ... because he didn't take me with!!! Stripping is an art form and I could watch all day. Strip Clubs don't bother me because it's all about fantasy. I'd be more concerned if he was lying about it/trying to hide it.
  • 1fitchick00
    1fitchick00 Posts: 155
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    I go to strip clubs with my hubby!! I think they are fun:)
  • Stump_Likker
    Stump_Likker Posts: 2,059 Member
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    My husband does go to strip clubs. Even the ones on business trips where the strippers allow him to cop a feel. But I couldn't care less. Better them than me.

    Alrighty then.
  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
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    I'd be up front with him, shoving dollar bills down her g-string. And buy him a lap dance.

    Although I haven't been back to a strip club after being kicked out of one years ago...

    It was male amateur night. There was a small room (that looked like it was for private parties with a small stage and all) that the women were in. There was a ledge for drinks off the stage. My friend decided to embarrass me by waving a dollar bill over my head. The current dancer decided to come giggle his junk in my face. He squatted down, the straw from my friend's drink went up his butt, and he ran off the stage immediately with his butt cheeks clenched with a straw sticking out of his keester.

    Next thing I know, the DJ comes on the speaker "I don't know what kind of freaky **** you ladies are into... stirring the salad or blowing the salad, but touching the dancers is not allowed" Then a bouncer came and found me, asked me to leave the room. Long story short I was escorted out of the club not only for violating their dancer, but for having an alcoholic drink in front of me when I was underage because they thought it was mine.
  • Fiercely_Me
    Fiercely_Me Posts: 481 Member
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    I went to strip clubs before with a boyfriend, and even got a stripper with 36 DDD breast to give him a lap dance and didn't think twice about it. If you are secure with your relationship then why worry? It's not as bad as I thought it would be and actually had a good time.
  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
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    She always spends too much money . . .
  • mrsriisky
    mrsriisky Posts: 129 Member
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    I really enjoy them once in a while. Made my husband buy me a lap dance (ok, two) for my birthday last year. He got a couple too. It is all in good fun for us. I trust him, he trusts me. Plus boobs are fantastic to look at :)
  • IndigoFlowers
    IndigoFlowers Posts: 221 Member
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    You mean... my boyfriend wouldn't rather see my version of a twerk instead?!?

    I don't know why on earth he would need a strip club when he has this girl right here (I got the chicken dance down pat!). Maybe I could get him to pay me, cause he sure as hell isn't paying someone else :drinker: :laugh:
  • MsEndomorph
    MsEndomorph Posts: 604 Member
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    We go together every once in a while. I don't mind him going without me if it's something like a bachelor party, but if he list randomly wanted to spend an evening alone at a club...eh, no.
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
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    I'd be up front with him, shoving dollar bills down her g-string. And buy him a lap dance.

    Although I haven't been back to a strip club after being kicked out of one years ago...

    It was male amateur night. There was a small room (that looked like it was for private parties with a small stage and all) that the women were in. There was a ledge for drinks off the stage. My friend decided to embarrass me by waving a dollar bill over my head. The current dancer decided to come giggle his junk in my face. He squatted down, the straw from my friend's drink went up his butt, and he ran off the stage immediately with his butt cheeks clenched with a straw sticking out of his keester.

    Next thing I know, the DJ comes on the speaker "I don't know what kind of freaky **** you ladies are into... stirring the salad or blowing the salad, but touching the dancers is not allowed" Then a bouncer came and found me, asked me to leave the room. Long story short I was escorted out of the club not only for violating their dancer, but for having an alcoholic drink in front of me when I was underage because they thought it was mine.

    OMG, I CAN'T BREATHE. The mental image was too much!

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