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  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
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    I'd be up front with him, shoving dollar bills down her g-string. And buy him a lap dance.

    Although I haven't been back to a strip club after being kicked out of one years ago...

    It was male amateur night. There was a small room (that looked like it was for private parties with a small stage and all) that the women were in. There was a ledge for drinks off the stage. My friend decided to embarrass me by waving a dollar bill over my head. The current dancer decided to come giggle his junk in my face. He squatted down, the straw from my friend's drink went up his butt, and he ran off the stage immediately with his butt cheeks clenched with a straw sticking out of his keester.

    Next thing I know, the DJ comes on the speaker "I don't know what kind of freaky **** you ladies are into... stirring the salad or blowing the salad, but touching the dancers is not allowed" Then a bouncer came and found me, asked me to leave the room. Long story short I was escorted out of the club not only for violating their dancer, but for having an alcoholic drink in front of me when I was underage because they thought it was mine.

    OMG, I CAN'T BREATHE. The mental image was too much!

    That is the funniest story I've heard in a while. I can't get the image of a tight muscular butt with a straw scurrying away out of my mind

    the straw looked like this... minus the mustache. but I figured a few people would get a kick out of imagining the mustache straw keester

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  • rebbylicious
    rebbylicious Posts: 621 Member
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    I think it has to do with how the guy treats the wife/girlfriend.
    If he pays attention to her, makes her feel respected, sexy, and beautiful, gives her lots of praise, she probably won't have a problem with him going. But if he doesn't make her feel like he finds her attractive, and doesn't show affection and act like he loves her... I am sure she wouldn't want him giving any attention or money to another woman.

    Edit- so poorly written I am not even going to bother editing it! LOL
  • Baby_sway86
    Baby_sway86 Posts: 62 Member
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    Iv never been jealous of stripper (sorry if anyone is one). Really don't see myself being left for on, is that stuck up? But my guy going to his mother hey mom, this is my gf she a stripper.
    We use to all go in groups back in my younger days - drink and get lap dance.

    But I think fair is fair and I'd live to go watch magic mike - I don't care how much it cost haha.
  • jeromykaplan
    jeromykaplan Posts: 205 Member
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    F**k that i wouldnt want someone spinning their junk in my girls face,,,if i had a girl haha
  • usernameMAMA
    usernameMAMA Posts: 681 Member
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    I think if a person is young and insecure it would bother them.

    As that person matures and becomes secure in their relationship they would realize its no big deal.

    I suppose the common reaction is jealousy, which is just another form of a tantrum saying "Pay attention to me!"

    false...I know lots of older people who wouldn't approve despite being married for decades...men and women.

    They got older, but they never matured and never felt secure in themselves or their relationship.

    Now if the question were "what do you think of strip clubs?"
    I've been in the past, but I've got a different outlook on them now. I wouldn't want my daughter, sister, or granddaughter to work in one, so it would be hypocritical for me to go. Not my cup of tea, but if others find them necessary I don't have a problem with them going.

    For me, it has nothing to do with being secure/insecure. It has everything to do with respect for me and our relationship. I honestly have a hard time buying that that many women are really okay with it and even go along. If a woman is going along it's for one of the following reasons (maybe all of thee above):

    1) Lesbian/Closet lesbian
    2) She wants to keep an eye on her man
    3) She wants to appear to be "one of the guys", which is the brightest shade of pathetic
    4) If she's going with her girl friends, it's to make fun of the strippers.

    Disclaimer: this is my truth, you're not going to change my mind.

    Or some of us are so secure with our sexuality that we have no problems checking out other women.

    I know that I am comfortable enough with my sexuality to know that I don't want another woman shaking her boobs in my face. I was under the impression that if you enjoyed having someone of the same sex grinding on your lap that makes you at the very least bisexual. If that's not something that gives you pleasure, then it stands to reason you are there for one of the other listed reasons. I'm not saying that being a lesbian is right or wrong, I'm saying that if a lap dance is enjoyed...well?

    Besides all that crazy logic, it doesn't really matter. It's how I view the situation; you view it differently. The world keeps on spinning. I highly doubt that society is going to crumble over my opinion.
  • darkguardian419
    darkguardian419 Posts: 1,302 Member
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    My wife made me go to the stripclub for my first time... so... yeah.
  • MNA76
    MNA76 Posts: 1,541
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    My husband and I have gone to a strip club together many times. I dig it.
  • 257_Lag
    257_Lag Posts: 1,249 Member
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    It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you go home for dinner.
  • fufi04
    fufi04 Posts: 471 Member
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    Depends on my mood at the time lol
  • 6spdeg
    6spdeg Posts: 394 Member
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    i dont care.. have a great time!
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
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    I wouldn't mind; I've actually offered to go together but he's never taken me up on my offer. :ohwell:
  • NeverGivesUp
    NeverGivesUp Posts: 960 Member
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    My hubby isn't into stuff like that. He is a consultant and had to work and help out a porn company for a while lol. He was so embarrassed and a year later all his co workers are still teasing him about it. Despite him not wanting to do it and having no interest in it, I wouldn't have married a man that did like it. We trust eachother a million percent and I like it that way.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 17,959 Member
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    I'd ask for details!! Though I'm probably more likely to drag him to one and get a dance for me! We meant to go to the strippers while we were in Vegas getting married and just never got around to it.
  • bethlaf
    bethlaf Posts: 954 Member
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    since they have no plus sized dancers at strip clubs, wouldn't bother me a bit..
    the one time he went he told me it was so gross and nasty, he didn't even want to be there, but it was a "guy" thing, his buddy wanted to go , and his friend paid for a lap dance, and the girl just kept putting her breasts in his face, needless to say , he claims it did nothing for him.. and , well, since ive been married to him for a decade, i know boobs do nothing...:glasses:
  • 257_Lag
    257_Lag Posts: 1,249 Member
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    Depends on my mood at the time lol

    Herein lies the problem for us men :laugh:
  • Shetchncn1
    Shetchncn1 Posts: 260 Member
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    If he can go to one for men then I get to go to one for women :) Then ABSOLUTELY!
  • patentguru
    patentguru Posts: 312 Member
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    All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".
  • Boogage
    Boogage Posts: 739 Member
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    I'm the one who drags my bf to strip clubs and he hates them. I did send him off to a stag party at a strip club and I told him he could get a lap dance but I don't think he stayed at the party for more than 20 minutes as he just thought it was grubby and dirty. If you trust your partner, I don't see what the problem is.
  • NeverGivesUp
    NeverGivesUp Posts: 960 Member
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    All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".


    You don't know my husband. There is a lot of history behind why he doesn't go to places or like places like that which I will not bother to get into. Speak for yourself please. He didn't even do it when he was single.

    To each his own, if you like it and are able to keep a loving and trusting relationship all the more power to you!. As long as no one is getting hurt or insecure, who cares.
  • MissFuchsia
    MissFuchsia Posts: 526 Member
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    My husband went to strip club on his stag night as most men do. I wouldn't have a problem if he wanted to go again. I'd join him if he asked me too.
    All heterosexual men like seeing naked women. So when I see posts like "my husband doesn't like strip clubs" or won't go with me, it is not because he does not like strange naked women. He is a lot smarter than you think. Going to a strip club with your girlfriend or wife is really stupid. There is no up side to this for the guy. Women love to test their man and there is no better place to find out what the man likes and how he acts around other women than a strip club. Thus, the smart answer for men is "no I only want to see you naked honey!".

    Very true

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