Soooo....I Have Cancer

You'll be alright.

It's one of the most easily treatable cancers when caught early, like this has been. And well done for seeing people as soon as you noticed changes; many people don't, which is when you get the poorer outcomes.

A friend had a second biopsy on his tongue today, and that is what his consultant told him.

Stay Strong, and know that you are surrounded by love and support. I hope you beat the h@!! out of cancer, and push it so far into remission that it won't dare to rear it's ugly head again in your body!

Things are going to be surreal for a while. You will float through these upcoming weeks, but you will never forget a moment. Get a notebook and take it to every appt to take notes. You will remember your dr's garlic breath, but you won't remember a thing s/he said.

Ditto.
My thoughts are with you and it sounds like you have a good doctor with a good plan! I still remember when I was first diagnosed with cancer and the feeling of uncertainty and that things were out of my control were very hard but it does get better! And I know it helped me to share in some online communities, sometimes it was easier to talk about my feelings there then to family and friends.

You will be okay, you are in the best shape of your life, and that truly helps. I'm a cancer survivor, my 10 year anniversary of being cancer free is in 8 days. Stay positive, and fight. You can and will beat this!

Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

WOW... My heart goes out to you.... It is real... I'm sitting at my desk at work reading this post and the first thing i do is cry.... Sorry... I'm sappy like that... just can understand what your going through... All Prayers in the world are with you...

I know how you feel, sort of. I just had a ridiculously huge lump in my breast, like the size of a golf ball. It scared the crap outta me because it popped up basically overnight, and although for two months doctors were telling me it was probably just a cyst or an abcess, the unknown was driving me a bit nuts. Thank God it was confirmed yesterday that it was simply a cyst that could be taken care of with antibiotics. The odd thing is that I smoked like a chimney and drank like a fish for 12 years, so I was pretty sure it was cancer and had just accepted the fact that I had done this to myself or at least contributed to it. It doesn't seem fair seeing as how you didn't smoke or seem to abuse your body much at all.

What bothered me the most was not the possible end of my own mortality. I was more stressed out about what it would do to my parents to lose their only child. I kept telling myself that it's better to know when you're going to die so that you can do everything you wanted to do, say your goodbyes, etc. as opposed to being hit by a bus suddenly or dying in a plane crash. This rationale helped prepare me for being ok with the results if the worst happened.

All of that being said, there have been major advancements in cancer treatments, and it is great that you have been keeping up with your doctors and caught it early. I know it's scary. I have lost several relatives to cancer, but the most important thing is to keep as positive of an attitude as you can. It can work wonders. And don't be afraid to ask about educational seminars on treatments, side effects, etc. of this process. It will make you feel better to be informed. I will keep you in my prayers.

One thing is certain: I'm ready to put up the fight of my life and come out on the other side as a stronger person.

Wow. Heavy news, and lots to digest for you, I'm sure. I can't even imagine the range of emotions you're going through. I don't even know you, but can tell that you're going to persevere. This is the right attitude. One day at a time. You will beat this.

I can't even imagine the shell shock that you encountered, but your attitude is the way to go. Wishing you the best on your fight! You can beat this!

Fight hard, pray, have faith!!
Best advice I can give.
I'm a two time breast cancer survivor.
Hang tough!! lots of prayers for you!

Prayers for you. This was hard to read, can't even imagine how you're feeling. Fight this with everything you got!!

You can get through this...I have...the news is like worst then a cold shower...you sort of enter a dark tunnel when you get told 'you have cancer'...no, it is not a forgettable experience but you are lucky the doctor said 'you will be ok' as mine had said to me and this was 25 years ago...

Hugs and good thoughts going your way....

You're in my prayers! My cousin had oral cancer (stage 3) a few years back, went through essentially what you described. She made it through and is doing great! Keep positive thoughts and have faith! We're all pulling for you!

I'm so sorry to hear this news for you. My cousin had this type of cancer & is doing good. It is not going to be easy, but you can do this. Prayers being sent up right this minute.

best of luck

You are going into this with a positive attitude (which is imperative) and you have your doctor telling you that you'll be fine... I can't say that I understand the level of fear and anxiety you are dealing with, but I'd bet you're going to come out this hell a stronger version of yourself. For what it's worth, I know someone that went through this and they're doing great 3 yrs later.
Sending positive vibes your way.

Good Morning. I am glad you shared your challenge in life right now - Thank you for trusting your fellow fitness seekers.
I am an RN and have taken care of lots of folks with cancer - I think you know it is not an easy road, but the personal growth and insights you will find will make it a remarkable journey. There is a God and He does know of your struggles and he has a plan just for you. Sometimes we do not understand, but He is all knowing and His ways are perfect. He will be with you through every step. I know this - I have seen this. I know from my patients this is true. Hold on to Hope and take confort in knowing you will come to understand better than most what is REALLY important in this life. My thougths and prayers are with you.