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Please stop recommending your favorite brands. They could be exactly the wrong shoe for someone else! Get properly fitted at a running store!
At the very least look what goes into picking the right shoe for YOU!
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I come from a parent who was always overweight and blamed it on having babies. I had a baby and feared getting fat. I am now thinner than i ever was. My fear of weight gain escalated to an eating disorder. I have always wondered how people let themselves get so far overweight. Like if my pants feel tight i panic! Some people just go buy new pants. Why do people let themselves go so far? I beg that nobody be offended by me. Its just an honest question that i have always wanted to ask.
Dear Dumbass,
I "beg" that what I'm about to type doesn't "offend" you. I am in recovery from an eating disorder. Two years ago I was in the icu being intravenously fed.
People asked me all the time "How did I let myself get so thin?" It goes both ways. After I was medically stabilized they put me on this unit for other people with eating disorders, I wasn't allowed to go home till I gained 22 pounds. Telling an anorexic they are trapped in an enclosed space with strangers till they gain 22 pounds is what panic feels like, knowing you have ****ed up so bad that you are no longer capable of making decisions for yourself...that is panic. Not your "pants feeling tight". The unit also housed people with other easting disorders. One patient in particular comes to mind...She literally would eat until she threw up. Her stomach was damaged from how much food she would eat at a time. Panic is eating an eating and not being able to stop. Also, "fear of gaining weight' alone does not turn into an eating disorder.;
You are a tool. Kiss my *kitten*.
Love,
Jamie
Pwned.
So much for please don't be offended.0 -
I come from a parent who was always overweight and blamed it on having babies. I had a baby and feared getting fat. I am now thinner than i ever was. My fear of weight gain escalated to an eating disorder. I have always wondered how people let themselves get so far overweight. Like if my pants feel tight i panic! Some people just go buy new pants. Why do people let themselves go so far? I beg that nobody be offended by me. Its just an honest question that i have always wanted to ask.
Dear Dumbass,
I "beg" that what I'm about to type doesn't "offend" you. I am in recovery from an eating disorder. Two years ago I was in the icu being intravenously fed.
People asked me all the time "How did I let myself get so thin?" It goes both ways. After I was medically stabilized they put me on this unit for other people with eating disorders, I wasn't allowed to go home till I gained 22 pounds. Telling an anorexic they are trapped in an enclosed space with strangers till they gain 22 pounds is what panic feels like, knowing you have ****ed up so bad that you are no longer capable of making decisions for yourself...that is panic. Not your "pants feeling tight". The unit also housed people with other easting disorders. One patient in particular comes to mind...She literally would eat until she threw up. Her stomach was damaged from how much food she would eat at a time. Panic is eating an eating and not being able to stop. Also, "fear of gaining weight' alone does not turn into an eating disorder.;
You are a tool. Kiss my *kitten*.
Love,
Jamie
Sweet. Thanks for your honest and open experience, which gives me a glimpse into the life of someone who is struggling with that extreme. Most of us truly have no clue what that is like. Nightmare, is the word that comes to mind. So glad that you survived and are continuing to get help. You also seem to have a lot of empathy for those on both ends of the spectrum. Wishing you a long and healthy life.0 -
Please stop recommending your favorite brands. They could be exactly the wrong shoe for someone else! Get properly fitted at a running store!
At the very least look what goes into picking the right shoe for YOU!
http://www.runnersworld.com/shoeadvisor0 -
I come from a parent who was always overweight and blamed it on having babies. I had a baby and feared getting fat. I am now thinner than i ever was. My fear of weight gain escalated to an eating disorder. I have always wondered how people let themselves get so far overweight. Like if my pants feel tight i panic! Some people just go buy new pants. Why do people let themselves go so far? I beg that nobody be offended by me. Its just an honest question that i have always wanted to ask.
First, Congratulations to all who've posted pics!! You all are truly inspirational and very brave, I bow to you.
To respond to the quoted post, yes, it's an offensive post, but I'm not offended. But there is no easy answer to your question of why people "let themselves go" Some answers are that it's a control issue. Their weight is one thing they actually can control, when everything else in their lives seems out of their control. Others subconsciously make themselves overweight as a shield, a protection against love or closeness... the answers are as varied as the individuals. Depression, fear, anger, hopelessness, emotions to strong to handle, etc, etc,
To judge someone is always the wrong approach and you will NEVER get someone to change by judging them. It may make you feel better about yourself to do so, but it harms the other person, and it even harms you truth be told. So ease up on people. Learn that you are flawed, the person next to you is flawed, we are all not perfect, if you expect someone to accept you, flaws and all, and be a friend, lover etc, then give the same first.
I strongly suspect your judgmental attitude comes from your own self worth issues and that is where you need to focus and fix. You are very brave for admitting you have an eating disorder, ask yourself all the reasons for that, and fix those. Just be a friend to others and support them in their own struggles, don't judge.0 -
In 9 months I have lost 85 pounds and dropped 65 inches. That is at 1500 calories a day, but I eat more if I'm hungry (truly hungry) after a big workout. I have been at this for 38 weeks. That is 266 days. I lost at a rate of 2.25 pounds a week and 1.7 inches a week. I ALMOST didn't post this picture after reading the comment of the girl who doesn't understand how someone could "let themselves go." I don't have a response for that. I just have this picture. This picture... my before picture... is a picture of a girl who stepped up and did something about her weight. I am strong! I am brave! I have my life and weight under control, and I'll show it proudly.0 -
That's what I'm talking about mama!
Muah sweetness!
Tell you what, if I get to 165 will you date me?0 -
"I ALMOST didn't post this picture after reading the comment of the girl who doesn't understand how someone could "let themselves go." I don't have a response for that. I just have this picture. This picture... my before picture... is a picture of a girl who stepped up and did something about her weight. I am strong! I am brave! I have my life and weight under control, and I'll show it proudly"
Now see this is why you don't judge people!! mandylgibbs almost didn't post her pics because of judgment... And wow!!! You are doing so very well and need to be extremely proud! Not only that, but posting your success so far gives the rest of us hope and more determination! Way to go!0 -
I ALMOST didn't post this picture after reading the comment of the girl who doesn't understand how someone could "let themselves go." I don't have a response for that. I just have this picture. This picture... my before picture... is a picture of a girl who stepped up and did something about her weight. I am strong! I am brave! I have my life and weight under control, and I'll show it proudly.
You are AWESOME! I'm glad you posted.0 -
I come from a parent who was always overweight and blamed it on having babies. I had a baby and feared getting fat. I am now thinner than i ever was. My fear of weight gain escalated to an eating disorder. I have always wondered how people let themselves get so far overweight. Like if my pants feel tight i panic! Some people just go buy new pants. Why do people let themselves go so far? I beg that nobody be offended by me. Its just an honest question that i have always wanted to ask.
Dear Dumbass,
I "beg" that what I'm about to type doesn't "offend" you. I am in recovery from an eating disorder. Two years ago I was in the icu being intravenously fed.
People asked me all the time "How did I let myself get so thin?" It goes both ways. After I was medically stabilized they put me on this unit for other people with eating disorders, I wasn't allowed to go home till I gained 22 pounds. Telling an anorexic they are trapped in an enclosed space with strangers till they gain 22 pounds is what panic feels like, knowing you have ****ed up so bad that you are no longer capable of making decisions for yourself...that is panic. Not your "pants feeling tight". The unit also housed people with other easting disorders. One patient in particular comes to mind...She literally would eat until she threw up. Her stomach was damaged from how much food she would eat at a time. Panic is eating an eating and not being able to stop. Also, "fear of gaining weight' alone does not turn into an eating disorder.;
You are a tool. Kiss my *kitten*.
Love,
Jamie
......and to the people who posted pictures
you all look fabulous and are very inspirational to me!0 -
I ALMOST didn't post this picture after reading the comment of the girl who doesn't understand how someone could "let themselves go." I don't have a response for that. I just have this picture. This picture... my before picture... is a picture of a girl who stepped up and did something about her weight. I am strong! I am brave! I have my life and weight under control, and I'll show it proudly.
I'm glad you posted your pictures chick. You've done fab! Seriously well done. Ignore the other guy. xx0 -
I come from a parent who was always overweight and blamed it on having babies. I had a baby and feared getting fat. I am now thinner than i ever was. My fear of weight gain escalated to an eating disorder. I have always wondered how people let themselves get so far overweight. Like if my pants feel tight i panic! Some people just go buy new pants. Why do people let themselves go so far? I beg that nobody be offended by me. Its just an honest question that i have always wanted to ask.
Wow.... rude much?0 -
After a week of doing Cardi0 Blitz
Yes, I said a WEEK!!0 -
I come from a parent who was always overweight and blamed it on having babies. I had a baby and feared getting fat. I am now thinner than i ever was. My fear of weight gain escalated to an eating disorder. I have always wondered how people let themselves get so far overweight. Like if my pants feel tight i panic! Some people just go buy new pants. Why do people let themselves go so far? I beg that nobody be offended by me. Its just an honest question that i have always wanted to ask.
WOW, sorry about your eating disorder, that sucks, but I guess I don't understand why you choose this thread to voice your dislike about people who have the opposite eating disorder? If you really wanted to know you should have posted a new thread (not that I think that would have went over any better) but these people have worked hard to get where are now, and I find it offensive (as most do) that you would try to take their moment in the spotlight away from them. **SMH**
AS FOR THOSE WHO HAVE WON THE BATTLE, CONGRATS TO YOU ~ JOB WELL DONE!!0 -
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This is not me at my heaviest. I've lost around 60 lbs total and have been able to keep it off.
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I come from a parent who was always overweight and blamed it on having babies. I had a baby and feared getting fat. I am now thinner than i ever was. My fear of weight gain escalated to an eating disorder. I have always wondered how people let themselves get so far overweight. Like if my pants feel tight i panic! Some people just go buy new pants. Why do people let themselves go so far? I beg that nobody be offended by me. Its just an honest question that i have always wanted to ask.
For me I always was told I needed to finish everything on my plate regardless because of the starving children in *insert country here* and also we didn't have a lot of money so there was going to be no wasted food. Just as you have a negative relationship with food, so do I. We just go in opposite directions. I have honestly never understood how people could starve themselves but I always loved food. Now I'm working on gaining a healthy relationship with food and learning that it is there to fuel my body not feed my indulgences.0
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