Girls do you like a nice guy? You just friendzoned him

You have to not be too nice and too friend like. You want them to be sexually attracted to you and not see you as an adorable puppy. There has to be some type of animal attraction there. You cant be thought of as like a brother. They already have friends and are looking for a balance and not just another friend. Also trying too hard, too agreeable, and being too easy is a turn off to many women.

Be confident, assertive, funny, fun, a little dangerous, not always playing it safe, not boring, outgoing, not a pushover, spontaneous, and don't ever be scared to go for it. The end of the day, the guy who goes after what he wants gets the woman. If you are getting the "awwwwe, you are the sweetest, adorable, and cutest nicest guy ever", be careful because you are about to get friend zoned.

By the way, not saying you are any of these things or generalizing men or women.

Nice guys are generally boring just my opinion.

But but I have an excellent stamp collection

Haha not that kind of boring, too nice is a yawn fest, too mean is obviously not where it's at either. You can't be dating someone who can't even stand up for themselves. Too nice is a walk over... Seen it too many times.

Yeah doormats get boring after a while

Haha see, you just got to be not too nice but not nasty.

Friendzone isn't a bad place to be...you don't have to pay for *kitten* that way..

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

DING DING DING, we have a winner!

have a crush on a girl too that pass my standards and my dream girl,, and now he is my girlfriend now,, but even we are in

Quite sure you mean she (not he) is my girlfriend now.

However, in your broken English - I quite understand and commend you for speaking out. This proves that even guys have the same troubles as females when they are somewhat attractive. They get unwanted advances too (the morally good guys) and try to be nice but where does nice stop and you just tell someone leave me alone.

Thanks for posting.

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

Not true - that is the definition of a fake guy.

Calories in VS calories out!!!

In the end some of us wise up and end up with the nice guy we had friend zoned. True story, 25 years and counting. :bigsmile:

I don't even understand where this "chicks love jerks" myth comes from. Is it that American stereotype of college girls falling for the quarterback or something?

i think it just comes from guys like me an the OP whining lol

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

This exactly!

As a "recovering nice guy", I was exactly this type of manipulative, self-serving loser...all while saying things like "nice guys finish last" and using terms like "friendzone". Once I shed my expectations on what I felt I was entitled to in my interactions with women, I got way more confident and way more successful. I view "nice guy" as an insult these days...and I'm never going back there.

i have to admit that the first post there did cause me to self examine a bit lol. i think she was saying 'entitled' in general tho, not just feeling entitled with women

I don't even understand where this "chicks love jerks" myth comes from. Is it that American stereotype of college girls falling for the quarterback or something?

Yeah this. My husband is the nicest guy I know.

Right?? I think just like to make *kitten* up

IMO men who have to point out that they are nice guys usually don't seem that nice. A truly nice guy will not have to blow his own trumpet, he just let's his personality show without thinking about it. Then girls will fall in love with him and want to bring out his wicked side (in a good way LOL)
Most women are not attracted to peacock type men. Look at me, look at me! Ah you looked (tail comes up) I just got even better!
Only attractive in actual peacocks.

I Agree! So True! And usually the "nice Guys" Feel like because they are "nice" that Females HAVE to like them! not the case! Usually there are self Esteem issues and the "All I want is a girlfriend" factor shows VERY clearly! The "nice Guy" factor has to be chased with a dose of confidence! JS....

Usually there are self Esteem issues and the "All I want is a girlfriend" factor shows VERY clearly!

i think i have that problem lol. what are your really saying tho?

My husband is a "nice guy" and I never friendzoned him. We were introduced by mutual friends who just thought I needed to go out and have some fun. I had just gotten out of a 9 year abusive marriage and "nice", "patient", and "kind" were just what I was looking for. I fell for him immediately.

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

*wild applause*