Your Thoughts of Big Girls in Bikinis ?

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  • KatieBee8
    KatieBee8 Posts: 61
    I admire women who have the confidence to do this.
  • Maidofmer
    Maidofmer Posts: 908 Member
    good for her. has way more confidence that I do. rock it woman! the only issue I do have, and this is with any size. tube tops are NOT roller-coaster appropriate. looks like this

    calm-your-tits_fb_856691_zpsa5a5f727.jpg

    yea, happy anniversary to me :noway:
  • IslandRider
    IslandRider Posts: 244
    I have been and still kinda am that girl, and I don't really give crap what people think. Oh yeah, and I'm over 50. I wear what I feel comfortable in and think everyone should.
  • IslandRider
    IslandRider Posts: 244
    good for her. has way more confidence that I do. rock it woman! the only issue I do have, and this is with any size. tube tops are NOT roller-coaster appropriate. looks like this

    calm-your-tits_fb_856691_zpsa5a5f727.jpg

    yea, happy anniversary to me :noway:

    LMAO!
  • FirecrackerJess
    FirecrackerJess Posts: 276 Member
    I'd say more power to her.

    I myself have never worn one, and the issue came up 2 days ago for me. I went to my schools gym for the first time. I go to ASU so a lot of girls there, and I wanted to do the water aerobics they were going to do, but they would not let me in the pool with shorts and a t-shirt. Said it had to be a swimsuit or some sort of boys water shorts and some sort of shirt, like the kind surfers wear or something (no idea what the hell they meant). So for now, no pool for me because I will not wear a bikini, just can't. Maybe one day, but not now.

    Why not get some board shorts and a tankini top?

    I won't look good in a tankini top. Would not want to show my arms either. Board shorts I believe I will get, but I still cannot find a shirt that they will allow in the pool. At this point I am thinking I am just not gonna use the pool.
  • Monkey_Business
    Monkey_Business Posts: 1,800 Member
    You're at the beach / amusement park and you notice a fairly large girl in a bikini. Would you be totally grossed out, or commend her on the amount of courage and self-respect she has ?

    oh wow.... I do not really get the question so, lets try a different situation:

    I am overweight (very)
    I do not man-scape and have a VERY hairy body.
    I am starting to bald.
    My chest, back and crotch hairs are gray.

    I am at a beach or amusement park in teeny speedos, would you commend me on my courage and self-respect?

    I think not......

    There are just some things that some folks should not wear in public, that is the reason we have different styles because one style DOES NOT fit all.

    Just saying..
  • MFPRat
    MFPRat Posts: 201 Member
    This v v v v
    haters gonna hate
    *kitten* the haters
    what do I think about a fat chick in a bikini? Not a damn thing. I don't worry about what other people have on or don't have on.
  • IslandRider
    IslandRider Posts: 244
    You're at the beach / amusement park and you notice a fairly large girl in a bikini. Would you be totally grossed out, or commend her on the amount of courage and self-respect she has ?

    oh wow.... I do not really get the question so, lets try a different situation:

    I am overweight (very)
    I do not man-scape and have a VERY hairy body.
    I am starting to bald.
    My chest, back and crotch hairs are gray.

    I am at a beach or amusement park in teeny speedos, would you commend me on my courage and self-respect?

    I think not......

    There are just some things that some folks should not wear in public, that is the reason we have different styles because one style DOES NOT fit all.

    Just saying..

    I wouldn't really care what you had on. If you're comfy rockin a speedo thong, go for it.
  • Monkey_Business
    Monkey_Business Posts: 1,800 Member
    I likes the way you think!

    Still not going to try it.....

    Board shorts and Columbia fishing shirt is all I 'rock' on the public beach now-a-days :-)

    You're at the beach / amusement park and you notice a fairly large girl in a bikini. Would you be totally grossed out, or commend her on the amount of courage and self-respect she has ?

    oh wow.... I do not really get the question so, lets try a different situation:

    I am overweight (very)
    I do not man-scape and have a VERY hairy body.
    I am starting to bald.
    My chest, back and crotch hairs are gray.

    I am at a beach or amusement park in teeny speedos, would you commend me on my courage and self-respect?

    I think not......

    There are just some things that some folks should not wear in public, that is the reason we have different styles because one style DOES NOT fit all.

    Just saying..

    I wouldn't really care what you had on. If you're comfy rockin a speedo thong, go for it.
  • KarlaH9801
    KarlaH9801 Posts: 362 Member
    I have a few mottos in life. Such as "Don't care what others think", aka "My self-worth has nothing to do with strangers opinions", and -my fave- "Don't like it-don't look". Myself, would never wear a bikini. But my mottos have helped my girls rock the skin they're in. And THAT'S beautiful!
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Depends on the confidence of the wearer.
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  • perseverance14
    perseverance14 Posts: 1,364 Member
    I can only decide what is best for me to wear, if I didn't like what somebody else had on, I would just look the other way...no problem.
  • surfinbird_1981
    surfinbird_1981 Posts: 946 Member
    I guess it depends on how "big" we are talking...

    I'll probably get abuse for this but I shall answer honestly...

    If there's a massive woman with everything hanging over/hanging out I'd probably think to myself "just look at the state of that".

    Each to their own though, the woman in question probably gives the same amount of a **** about what I think of her as I do to what she thinks of me.

    Haha this was my original post with my old username...yep, I'm sticking with my original answer.
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    Neither... I would mind my own business and not say anything.
  • Platform_Heels
    Platform_Heels Posts: 388 Member
    No
  • karl39x
    karl39x Posts: 586 Member
    eeeewwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!
  • Strokingdiction
    Strokingdiction Posts: 1,164 Member
    Depends on the confidence of the wearer.

    Why you necro thread?
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
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  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Depends on the confidence of the wearer.

    Why you necro thread?
    shhhh :3 lol
  • salladeve
    salladeve Posts: 1,053 Member
    I am truly fascinated by what some people wear, which is neither in a good or bad way. It is just really interesting to me the difference in people, shapes, sizes and style. to answer the OPs question I would probably think "you go girl", confidence can be a very attractive quality in men and women.
  • 33Freya
    33Freya Posts: 468 Member
    I would never say anything- but depending on how she rocked the bikini (10lbs of potatoes into a 5lb bikini? Flattering? not flattering?) these thoughts would roll through my head, but that happens when ever I'm people watching and does not discriminate between large, small, young, old etc. I just love people and seeing how they present themselves :) If she's happy with it, I'm happy for her!
  • neandermagnon
    neandermagnon Posts: 7,436 Member
    I don't have thoughts about big girls in bikinis.

    re the beach scenario, I probably wouldn't even notice as I'd be too busy with my own life.
  • Slendermike
    Slendermike Posts: 1,776 Member
    every woman is hot in their own skin, confidence is KEY
  • 32sami
    32sami Posts: 380 Member
    Who cares?
  • QuietBloom
    QuietBloom Posts: 5,413 Member
    My thoughts? There is a girl in a bikini.

    I live right next to the beach, so they are everywhere and come in all shapes and sizes.
  • RunnerStephe
    RunnerStephe Posts: 2,195
    Why not?
  • _Lovely77_
    _Lovely77_ Posts: 993 Member
    Hmmm. Being a "big" girl myself, I'd think wow she got some b***s.. because I know I wouldn't have the courage to wear one myself and I understand the feeling of all eyes on me and not always in a good way. Even when I was skinny, well average, I always wore the boy short bikini bottoms because I was always terrified of my thighs and bum being public knowledge lol
  • amg120
    amg120 Posts: 80 Member
    I think the real question is why is this asking about bigger women in bikinis? Why not bigger *people* in bikinis/speedos/not covering much?

    I have a bigger issue with the focus just on what women wear. Why do we point a huge spotlight on women and what they wear and their size?
  • FlaxMilk
    FlaxMilk Posts: 3,452 Member
    I think the real question is why is this asking about bigger women in bikinis? Why not bigger *people* in bikinis/speedos/not covering much?

    I have a bigger issue with the focus just on what women wear. Why do we point a huge spotlight on women and what they wear and their size?

    +1

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