Sexting in a relationship

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  • BattleTaxi
    BattleTaxi Posts: 752 Member
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    With my partner, DEFINITELY! It is a fun way to keep things fresh and flirt with your new squeeze.

    With others if I'm not in a relationship with them, not interested.

    If I'm dating someone, and they are sexting someone else? Not ok, in regards to myself. With the changes in technology and ways in which we communicate with others; this is just a new form of cheating imo. Then again, there seems to be a trend with open relationships being more or less an accepted 'norm' among a lot of couples I know. I'm not saying this is good OR bad, I'm just making a generalized observation; this is definitely not a cultural thing I will ever be inclined to tolerate in any relationships I am involved in though.

    Also, to anyone new to e-dating or the like, BE CAREFUL!!!!! Not everyone is as genuine as they may SEEM! <3<3<3
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
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    for me, if I was in a relationship, I'd consider that cheating, but that's just me. I' old fashioned that way.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    If there are more than 14 pubes present in the photo or a mention of more than 14 pubes in the body of the sext, then yes. It is cheating.
  • DashDeV
    DashDeV Posts: 545 Member
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    I send Tyler pictures of my Poutine all the time :heart:
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
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    If there are more than 14 pubes present in the photo or a mention of more than 14 pubes in the body of the sext, then yes. It is cheating.

    the photo that is being sent or the photo that is being viewed?
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,611 Member
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    If there are more than 14 pubes present in the photo or a mention of more than 14 pubes in the body of the sext, then yes. It is cheating.

    So hardwood floor is fair game?
  • just_Jennie1
    just_Jennie1 Posts: 1,233
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    My husband actually encourages it...of course, that's also because I get paid to do it.

    So exactly what line of 'business' are you in? :huh:

    And how does this sit with running for office?
    I work nights as a phone "companion". It helps keep a roof over our heads and food on the table as well as an emergency fund for when the car breaks down or the pipes freeze.

    As for running for office, apparently my constituents don't think that my little side job affects my ability to help run a town.

    Fascinating. I guess people have quite low expectations from their local politicians...

    Fascinating.

    I never quite understood how something that someone does in their personal lives is directly related to their professional lives. You're probably the same person who thinks that a teacher who flashes her boobs in a drunken episode in Cancun and the picture is found that she should be fired for it. Or that someones sex life is directly related to how they run a business or what they do for a living too.

    I'd have more respect for a politician who owned up to past indiscretions and gave a heads up about what they do on the side and the possibility that there could be questionable photos out there than one who blatantly lies about their affairs and sexting their junk to interns. But then I guess this means I have "low expectations" because I don't see the correlation between the two. :flowerforyou:
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    If there are more than 14 pubes present in the photo or a mention of more than 14 pubes in the body of the sext, then yes. It is cheating.

    the photo that is being sent or the photo that is being viewed?

    The viewer is innocent until proven hoor.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
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    If there are more than 14 pubes present in the photo or a mention of more than 14 pubes in the body of the sext, then yes. It is cheating.

    Not if they have paid good money and got them permed!
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,375 Member
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    any married women want to sext?

    Every time I see your name, I miss the 2nd "n". That is all. Carry on.
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
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    I believe if you're doing something you wouldnt do in front of your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it

    ^This

    TOTALLY AGREE.
    Correct. Your partner has a certain expectation of behavior from you. If you don't know it, then you should ask. If you know it and can't live by it, then you should tell her/him.
  • gr8pillock
    gr8pillock Posts: 374 Member
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    I think, if your relationship is mutually satisfying, both emotionally and physically (sexually), the need for the attention outside the relationship goes away. Unless you have an agreement and enjoyment of flirting/swinging that way.

    I personally send my tit shots to just the honey pants... unless I'm single. :)
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
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    In my relationship, it's perfectly fine. Half the time, we're sexting the same people. Or we're in the same room sexting others. It works for us.

    I honestly am shocked that someone compared this to abusing children. After 2 years, I thought I'd seen it all. Well done, mfp. Well done. :flowerforyou:

    WHat. Milo never sexts me.

    OH wait. My phone doesn't get texts.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,841 Member
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    It's 2013 and obviously there is alot of technology out there, which means new ways to connect with people. My question to you is how do you feel about people sexting, sending pictures, or flirting via internet with other people outside their relationship?

    I won't judge anyone. I have a pretty strong character, but I've been guilty of things over the years. It is easy to get drawn up in the attention and physical aspect of it all, as well as the emotional side. This is true even in a very satisfying relationship. The 'detached' nature of fooling around online is a huge draw and justification.

    Then again, access to porn and other physical type addictions are even more commonplace with technology now too, but that's a whole other side of it.
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
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    Personally, if I am in a relationship, anything and everything sexual is going to be confined strictly to the relationship. If either of us have to have interaction with another person for sexual fulfillment, then there are problems between us that need to be addressed to determine if the relationship will continue. Ymmv.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,793 Member
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    1-800-ROADDOG. Sext me.
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,472 Member
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    of course it is great
    everyone does it
    makes a relationship much better,
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,841 Member
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    1-800-ROADDOG. Sext me.

    Sent. With p3n0r pics.

    Cheers.
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
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    1-800-ROADDOG. Sext me.

    Sent. With p3n0r pics.

    Cheers.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,375 Member
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    for me, if I was in a relationship, I'd consider that cheating, but that's just me. I' old fashioned that way.

    I feel the same way. I wouldn't want anyone else seeing my guy's goods. I'm selfish.

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