Why all the negativity???Where is the Motivation?
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I got noth'n....
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If you're going to use energy to reply to a post, don't waste it with negativity or sarcasm.
... Amuses meBe kind!
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arguing others into submission is normal primate behaviour. Humans do this verbally, while other primates beat their chests, make a lot of noise and stamp on things. Humans are inclined to do that too, if the argument escalates sufficiently.
Bonobos actually do this by having sex with each other.
they use sex for conflict resolution and appeasement... arguing/displaying is conflict. they don't have sex as part of actual conflicts, it's more like the bonobo equivalent of "hey, lets agree to disagree"
This was the point.
I was talking about displaying and actual conflict though (chest beating, arguing) conflict resolution is kind of the opposite... sorry to be pedantic!!! lets agree to disagree :flowerforyou:0 -
I've only read the first page of this topic, but all I know is this(well, it's not all I know :P):
There are ways to treat people, and there are ways not to treat people.
Sarcasm, even though everyone 'speaks' it(a ton of friends on Facebook have 'Sarcasm' as a language), is literally used to try to make a person feel stupid and then makes the person using sarcasm feel all giddy on the inside. Basically, the person using sarcasm is getting pleasure from someone else's pain. I don't know about you, but that sounds like sadism, to me. Of course, sadism without physical pain and -sexual- pleasure. But to me, it's very sadistic-like.
I'm Pagan, and the thing I've learned in life, and the thing that most of the books I've read say:
If it doesn't help you or someone else positively, don't waste the energy.
If someone posts a fad diet, instead of saying things like 'Oh yeah that'll work! Good luck' (sarcasm) or just saying 'fad diets are dumb', you could instead be telling them points as to why this wouldn't work, in a kind manner that actually makes it look like you care about this person's health, even if you could care less. Why use your energy to type up a message that is unkind and sarcastic, when you could fill it with actual information and tips?
If you're going to use energy to reply to a post, don't waste it with negativity or sarcasm.
Be kind!
So . . . . you're Pagan?0 -
arguing others into submission is normal primate behaviour. Humans do this verbally, while other primates beat their chests, make a lot of noise and stamp on things. Humans are inclined to do that too, if the argument escalates sufficiently.
Bonobos actually do this by having sex with each other.
they use sex for conflict resolution and appeasement... arguing/displaying is conflict. they don't have sex as part of actual conflicts, it's more like the bonobo equivalent of "hey, lets agree to disagree"
This was the point.
I was talking about displaying and actual conflict though (chest beating, arguing) conflict resolution is kind of the opposite... sorry to be pedantic!!! lets agree to disagree :flowerforyou:
I don't think you're getting what I'm laying down. Emphasis on "lay."0 -
I'm sending some encouragement your way! You are doing great; keep it up.0
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I see a lot of joking around on the forums. I think you're way too sensitive. Lighten up and let it roll off your back. It's all good!0
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i am happy to be friends with nice modivating people with no negavity....add me if u want
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*gives everyone the silent treatment*
*insert silent treatment here*
There. My cyber-bullying is done for today.
*stares at you*
Why you bully me, Contrarian?!?! :sad:
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I don't think you're getting what I'm laying down. Emphasis on "lay."
Uhm. Can I argue with you? Because I frikkin get it. We are in conflict about how much I get it, and that conflict needs to be resolved. Also bonobo is my favorite U2.0 -
When a message is negative it could be you are taking it too personal you have the option not to read and move on0
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I don't think you're getting what I'm laying down. Emphasis on "lay."
Uhm. Can I argue with you? Because I frikkin get it. We are in conflict about how much I get it, and that conflict needs to be resolved. Also bonobo is my favorite U2.
Well, I guess I'll just beat my chest at you. Things could have gone so differently.0 -
arguing others into submission is normal primate behaviour. Humans do this verbally, while other primates beat their chests, make a lot of noise and stamp on things. Humans are inclined to do that too, if the argument escalates sufficiently.
And to my silent treatment givers:
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I've noticed this too. But the bigger problem is the fact that it completely strays from the main subject. Arguing, sarcasm and gif filled threads make it really hard to try to research and Learn. Which is why I'm here, not to watch people rip apart the OP for asking a question.0
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I've noticed this too. But the bigger problem is the fact that it completely strays from the main subject. Arguing, sarcasm and gif filled threads make it really hard to try to research and Learn. Which is why I'm here, not to watch people rip apart the OP for asking a question.
Do you have a question? What would you like to learn?
People get ripped apart on threads like this, on threads about how good "cleanses" are and how someone's aunt nellie really got great results with green tea extract.
I've never seen someone get anything other than support for simply asking a question.
Give me an example if you have one. Oh and welcome.0 -
I've noticed this too. But the bigger problem is the fact that it completely strays from the main subject. Arguing, sarcasm and gif filled threads make it really hard to try to research and Learn. Which is why I'm here, not to watch people rip apart the OP for asking a question.
Do you have a question? What would you like to learn?
People get ripped apart on threads like this, on threads about how good "cleanses" are and how someone's aunt nellie really got great results with green tea extract.
I've never seen someone get anything other than support for simply asking a question.
Give me an example if you have one. Oh and welcome.
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