FWB ignored me at bar ...

Move on, it was FWB. Neither of you need to explain anything to each other.

Surprised no one has said the obvious, but probably because he considers you a HO!!!

:huh:

1. Why did you want him to talk to you ( I honestly would be pissed off if he DID talk to me after I was treated like that)


2. You are too easy. I don't say that to be rude but men only appreciate what it takes work to get and keep.

Rules to follow:

1. NEVER allow yourself to be treated with less than respect ( bedroom games don't count)
2. If you have to compromise yourself or break your heart - break your heart
3. Don't settle for less than what makes you happy ( that means if you want FWB do it, but don't confuse it with a relationship, if you want a relationship don't engage in FWB)

If you are not in a relationship and it sounds like you had already moved on what is the big deal? FWB does not mean bound for life, in fact any FWB relationship I have been in means I get sex but am free to do as I please with who I please when I please. I have been with my current FWB for almost 4 years, we have seen each other in public and don't always talk... if you were not ready for that you shouldn't have remained physical with it.

I thought my two years was long! I guess I expected too much from a situation he obviously didn't think twice about. Just a simple HI would've been nice whether he felt I ended everything between us ... just common courtesy.

First time ever w/ this fwb and def NEVER AGAIN!!!

Also concerned that you seem to think this guy has somehow wronged you...

Not wronged me in the sense that he made empty promises or lead me on ... I ultimately made my choices w/ him and I honestly have no regrets cause he did put a smile on my face!

I feel like he wronged me as a friend, a true friend that I was to him and would never "ignore" him!

Or, you know, he didn't see you.

I'm going to be different than everyone else. Respect yourself and you'll find a man that'll respect you. FWB always leaves someone hurt.

Never mind. I didn't' realize this was a 5 page post and someone already made my joke. Damn it.

If you are not in a relationship and it sounds like you had already moved on what is the big deal? FWB does not mean bound for life, in fact any FWB relationship I have been in means I get sex but am free to do as I please with who I please when I please. I have been with my current FWB for almost 4 years, we have seen each other in public and don't always talk... if you were not ready for that you shouldn't have remained physical with it.

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I had a FWB for a while and if we saw each other in public it was CASUAL. We were FRIENDS that liked to **** every once in a while.. We weren't dating.. but I did make him buy me lunch and dinner a lot too. bahha

He was not a friends with benefits. You were a little fleshlight that he pulled out when ever he wanted to get off and nothing more.

I just googled "fleshlight".... :frown:

Friends with benefits only works if both parties want it to work. You wanted a relationship. We all screw up and do things like this from time to time. Don't beat yourself up over it, but stop wasting all your mental bandwidth about it now. He didn't want what you want. He either saw you or didn't. It doesn't matter. If you connect as friends and want to be friends, then be friends.

I am in a long-term relationship that evolved from a FWB one - but I went into it with my eyes wide open, knowing that we were both free to do whatever. When I realized I would be jealous if he hooked up with someone else, I realized I was no longer in the FWB stage, and that any emotional distress I felt was entirely my doing, not his fault, and not his issue to deal with. I decided to continue with the FWB portion of our relationship, knowing I might get my heart broken, for a variety of reasons (not the least of which was that I love banging and we banged well <g>). For us, it turned out that he felt the same way, we wound up in a committed relationship, and voila. But had it turned out the other way, I would have kept my hurt to myself because *I did it to myeslf* by continuing a physical connection when what I wanted was a life connection

If he's ignoring you, then you've probably made it uncomfortable. So again, nothing wrong with FWB, sleeping around, doing whatever, but your emotional pain is not his fault. It hurts and we can't make that go away. Just learn from this, let it go, and don't make the same mistake again!

Don't knock POF...met my bf on there. Been dating almost 2yrs, he's FANTASTIC!

OP is nuts...FWB ain't a relationship...get over it already.

^^ this

I met my DH on PF and have been married 5yr in 1mo

Surprised no one has said the obvious, but probably because he considers you a HO!!!

please. hookers get their men to shower them with re$pect. that has nothing to do with this.

He was not a friends with benefits. You were a little fleshlight that he pulled out when ever he wanted to get off and nothing more.

I just googled "fleshlight".... :frown:

ahhh curiosity is killing me now........must go google fleshlight

He was not a friends with benefits. You were a little fleshlight that he pulled out when ever he wanted to get off and nothing more.

I just googled "fleshlight".... :frown:

ahhh curiosity is killing me now........must go google fleshlight

LOLOLOL

He was not a friends with benefits. You were a little fleshlight that he pulled out when ever he wanted to get off and nothing more.

I just googled "fleshlight".... :frown:

ahhh curiosity is killing me now........must go google fleshlight

Hope you're not at work!