Husband does not get it??
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I don't like how some people are being really rude or discouraging. Telling this woman to break up or being rude about her husband isn't gonna help her!! She's not saying it's the end of the world, she's just having a little conflict and she wants help.0
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thanks for some help and no thanks to the rude people on here attacking me!!
He doesn't do it every time, just when i go out running in a sports bra.. I think he doesn't want others to see me?? I only started running since new years.
Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!
Good men are a prize. Sounds like he cares. Also, put a shirt on if he doesnt like you running in a sports bra. Small sacrifice if you ask me.0 -
Is this thread serious? It was -40 and he said if you're gonna run to bundle up and you think he's scared you'll get too hot?
I can't tell either0 -
Cardio, just not necessary. Now if he ever tried to stop you lifting..... that would be a problem and you'd have to get a divorce.0
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Ask him to pay you. :laugh: :drinker:
HAHHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHA!!!0 -
thank you!! I've been on here a long time and go in so many threads where people are very nice like would bang and 10/10..
But I don't know why I'm getting such hurtful comments.. I'm NOT practically Canadian..0 -
Should we encourage her to remain in such a terrible marriage? We CARE about her!I don't like how some people are being really rude or discouraging. Telling this woman to break up or being rude about her husband isn't gonna help her!! She's not saying it's the end of the world, she's just having a little conflict and she wants help.0 -
You could leave him for me!?
I won't care at all about your well being as long as you do certain things....
This is SO not true....
he told me he didn't want me running that I would get too hot....
so he built me a nice little padded 8 by 8 cell....I told him I STILL needed to run...so he put in a little hamster wheel type thingy...
now I can do what he tells me to AND run...AND not get too hot...or too cold....
and he gives me a nice protein shake every morning with my eggs....
mmmmm mmmmmm good.0 -
It sounds like he is genuinely worried.. it really doesn't sound like sabotage0
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thank you!! I've been on here a long time and go in so many threads where people are very nice like would bang and 10/10..
But I don't know why I'm getting such hurtful comments.. I'm NOT practically Canadian..
Yes you are.
Stop denying it.0 -
I've never understood men who think it's okay to tell women what to do.
So, that's why I take Jiu Jitsu........ :laugh:0 -
Hypothermia sounds like the perfect revenge!! Strap on that sports bra and get out there!0
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A -40 wind chill is cause for concern for anyone doing anything outside. I would say that he was speaking from a point of caring about you. However, I will tell you what works in my house for anything, if you bring up a problem then offer a solution. Even if the solution is not accepted. At least it takes out the thought of sabotage.0
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This example looks like a legitimate concern to me. Dying on the wrong battlefield here. Some arguments are just not worth the energy or emotion,0
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Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!
What's the difference?0 -
Should we encourage her to remain in such a terrible marriage? We CARE about her!I don't like how some people are being really rude or discouraging. Telling this woman to break up or being rude about her husband isn't gonna help her!! She's not saying it's the end of the world, she's just having a little conflict and she wants help.
But how did you decide her marriage was terrible? I mean yeah a guy shouldn't be stopping his wife from doing what she loves (especially exercising) but from what I understood (maybe I got it wrong) he doesn't do it every time, and this incident it was -40 outside when she wanted to go running. How does this make her marriage terrible?0 -
Sounds like he wants a traditional sub/Dom thing with you. First he tells you what to wear on your runs, next thing you know, he'll hand you money at some point to buy him a beer or something.
Stand your ground, OP. Coat today, dungeon tomorrow.0 -
You could leave him for me!?
I won't care at all about your well being as long as you do certain things....
This is SO not true....
he told me he didn't want me running that I would get too hot....
so he built me a nice little padded 8 by 8 cell....I told him I STILL needed to run...so he put in a little hamster wheel type thingy...
now I can do what he tells me to AND run...AND not get too hot...or too cold....
and he gives me a nice protein shake every morning with my eggs....
mmmmm mmmmmm good.
HAHAHHAHAHAAHHA!!!! Sounds sweet. The protein shake handed to you with your eggs.0 -
Honestly.. It sounds to me like he was being genuine in his concern. However, if there is a history of your husband trying to talk you out of your workouts then yes, sabotage. Which sucks... Spouses, partners, family should all be on board with your journey. Oh, I imagine he gets it, he probably feels threatened by your success.. Is he fit and healthy or are you leaving him behind in that department?0
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Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!
yeah, that's basically Canada.
I was gonna say this!!
Sabotage!
I read your mind.0 -
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All I know is running in -40 is insane. I'd suggest a coat too.0
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I think Michigan is more miserable.Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!
What's the difference?0 -
thank you!! I've been on here a long time and go in so many threads where people are very nice like would bang and 10/10..
But I don't know why I'm getting such hurtful comments.. I'm NOT practically Canadian..
Yes you are.
Stop denying it.
Canadian are very nice apologetic people.........so I am sorry for someone calling you almost Canadian0 -
Did you not read? He told her to put on a coat! He doesn't want her to run in just a sports bra. This is only the beginning.
Should we encourage her to remain in such a terrible marriage? We CARE about her!I don't like how some people are being really rude or discouraging. Telling this woman to break up or being rude about her husband isn't gonna help her!! She's not saying it's the end of the world, she's just having a little conflict and she wants help.
But how did you decide her marriage was terrible? I mean yeah a guy shouldn't be stopping his wife from doing what she loves (especially exercising) but from what I understood (maybe I got it wrong) he doesn't do it every time, and this incident it was -40 outside when she wanted to go running. How does this make her marriage terrible?0 -
thank you!! I've been on here a long time and go in so many threads where people are very nice like would bang and 10/10..
But I don't know why I'm getting such hurtful comments.. I'm NOT practically Canadian..
Yes you are.
Stop denying it.
Canadian are very nice apologetic people.........so I am sorry for someone calling you almost Canadian
Since I'm only half Canadian, I'm only half sorry for calling you almost Canadian.0 -
Wellllll but they do have Tim Hortons...
I think Michigan is more miserable.Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!
What's the difference?0 -
My BF was the same way. It's too codl to run, you need a hat and gloves,you can't run barefoot in the snow, blah blah blah. Well, I showed him! After the doctor amputated my frostbitten feet and hands I hate definitely lost weight! SV!
Now if only I could convince him that we don't need to eat every.single.day. Ugh.0 -
I think Michigan is more miserable.Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!
What's the difference?
It is because there's no Tim Hortons.
Mmmm Timbits0 -
I think Michigan is more miserable.Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!
What's the difference?
People from Michigan are more meaner, and people from Canadia are more colder. And penguins and such.0
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