tattoo argument with spouse
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But this comes from me being so dominant socially and having such a high level of chemistry and charm with women.
They get super horny at what I do to them. And the pleasure they get is actually DERIVED from being subservient.
Yes. You are quite charming. My panties are damp with your big words and your manliness.
if your husband ever forgets your anniversary cause he removed his ring and was questioned for something you cant mention ....call me0 -
I have 4. One of them I got when I was just 19/20 and it's the "tramp stamp." I loved it. Now i wish I had thought of a more comprehensive piece instead of some no meaning tribal.
One of them I got when I was 24. I wanted it on the back of my neck. I don't remember why. My husband has the same tattoo (he had it when we met) but his is lower between his shoulder blades. Back then I had a job where tatts didnt' matter so much.
Now i'm in a business environment and i've had to let my hair grow out and I wear a lot of scarves. I would do this tatt all over again, but I would have it placed lower.
My favorite is my son's name in chinese (I had it verified so I know what it says) and it's in a beige ink color on the inside of my left wrist. Easy to cover if I need to but no one ever really sees it. I've had it for a long time and need to get it redone since the wrist is a flexible area and it fades faster.
I would ask your husband what his biggest concern is. Is it that they are addictive? That he will be jealous? That he's scared you'll really regret it later? Sometimes men show concern by showing anger.0 -
lol so supposedly:::
the bitter, brittle, self-centered, insecure women get all the action.
And me the passionate 10/10 fitness model with a degree and fame status never gets any girls...
And big words are bad, snark wins. Lol at refusing to debate about things I got out of sociology books in college.
Who told you you were a 10/10? I'm not insecure, I've been married for 24 years, perfecty happy. I've got 2 degrees, and I took sociology in college also.
You aren't better than anyone here, and your continual use of big words you don't understand, and concepts you don't understand, and talking about your accomplishments, according to my psychology courses in college, prove your insecurity.
How is anything I said not perfectly congruent?
I think you are just confused by the depth implied in my comments, not that they are not true.
Again, if it was so wrong what I said, show me the parts where I said a word that meant something other than what I said.
Instead you just keep arguing like a child, scoffing at everything I say. The more I express depth, the more you try to run away with some cheap tactic.
If you consider my posts in this whole thread one big essay, it all make perfect sense.
If you disagree, name something that was incorrect then or back off with the immaturity.0 -
Sometimes men show concern by showing anger.
yikes. I'm glad my husband shows concern with a furrowed brow and kind comments0 -
lol so supposedly:::
the bitter, brittle, self-centered, insecure women get all the action.
And me the passionate 10/10 fitness model with a degree and fame status never gets any girls...
And big words are bad, snark wins. Lol at refusing to debate about things I got out of sociology books in college.
Who told you you were a 10/10? I'm not insecure, I've been married for 24 years, perfecty happy. I've got 2 degrees, and I took sociology in college also.
You aren't better than anyone here, and your continual use of big words you don't understand, and concepts you don't understand, and talking about your accomplishments, according to my psychology courses in college, prove your insecurity.
How is anything I said not perfectly congruent?
I think you are just confused by the depth implied in my comments, not that they are not true.
Again, if it was so wrong what I said, show me the parts where I said a word that meant something other than what I said.
Instead you just keep arguing like a child, scoffing at everything I say. The more I express depth, the more you try to run away with some cheap tactic.
If you consider my posts in this whole thread one big essay, it all make perfect sense.
Name something that was incorrect then or back off with the immaturity.
You are about as deep as a teaspoon of water.0 -
I've got to admit ... some mornings, the only thing I like about myself while looking in the mirror, is my tats!:glasses:
2nd ultra profound comment from an elderly person ITT!!
Epic!!0 -
Again, if it was so wrong what I said, show me the parts where I said a word that meant something other than what I said.
If we had any idea what you were on about we might be able to do that.
But when you use words that don't fit into the sentence in any way, shape or form, we really can't point out what's wrong because you don't make any kind of sense we can discern.0 -
At least career enders ... in most circles.0
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Agreed.Lol @ life changing! Nope, you get one and life carries on as usual.
I have 5 tattoos.
My first one was a yinyang on my shoulder, then lyrics from a song ("and hope will lead us on") wrapping around my left wrist, then an orange ribbon (leukemia awareness) on my right calf in memory of my dad. Then finally, the rebel alliance symbol and the galactic empire symbol from star wars. rebel alliance is settled between the lyrics on my left wrist, galactic empire is on my right wrist. I do not regret ANY of my tattoos.
As long as it's something you want, I don't see why you shouldn't get one.0 -
I say get it, flaunt it, and everyone else can get over it0
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lol so supposedly:::
the bitter, brittle, self-centered, insecure women get all the action.
And me the passionate 10/10 fitness model with a degree and fame status never gets any girls...
And big words are bad, snark wins. Lol at refusing to debate about things I got out of sociology books in college.
Who told you you were a 10/10? I'm not insecure, I've been married for 24 years, perfecty happy. I've got 2 degrees, and I took sociology in college also.
You aren't better than anyone here, and your continual use of big words you don't understand, and concepts you don't understand, and talking about your accomplishments, according to my psychology courses in college, prove your insecurity.
How is anything I said not perfectly congruent?
I think you are just confused by the depth implied in my comments, not that they are not true.
Again, if it was so wrong what I said, show me the parts where I said a word that meant something other than what I said.
Instead you just keep arguing like a child, scoffing at everything I say. The more I express depth, the more you try to run away with some cheap tactic.
If you consider my posts in this whole thread one big essay, it all make perfect sense.
If you disagree, name something that was incorrect then or back off with the immaturity.
Congruent:
The same shape and size.
Two shapes are congruent if you can Turn, Flip and/or Slide one so it fits exactly on the other.0 -
You certainly can do what you want. But it sounds like it will make you less attractive to your husband. You can judge that all you want, but that seems to be the fact of the matter, maybe think about that. Nobody really HAS to get a tattoo, yup its your body, your life, and you can put up all the "he has to respect me for me" statements but it doesn't change the fact it changes people's thinking about you, no matter what you think they *should* think.
Some people think tattoos do make you a "lower" person.
Some feel they make the person seem sleazy, unprofessional and easy.
Some feel they show some kind of strength.
Some feel they show weakness of character, mind and body.
They do show something about a person even to you or you wouldn't get one, right...?
You can like or dislike it, it doesn't matter, should/would/could, whatever, but people will judge you for it, many without thinking, some not even knowing how it changes how they feel. And there are risks. You can be like Cartman and do whatcha want though
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At least career enders ... in most circles.0
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At least career enders ... in most circles.
How? I've got two of them, my BA in Management, and a successful position in Administration.0 -
I have many...life changing? No, not really. All mine have meaning and I get a lot of compliments on them when they do show. I love them and have never regretted a single one. I'm a nurse. It hasn't affected or ended my career. If you want one, go for it!0
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Do what ya want .. it's your body...0
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Does anyone else remember the episode of Friends where Joey wanted to sound smart in his letter of recommendation for Chandler and Monica to adopt, so he used a thesaurus for every single word and the letter had all these huge, fancy words and it made no sense at all?lol so supposedly:::
the bitter, brittle, self-centered, insecure women get all the action.
And me the passionate 10/10 fitness model with a degree and fame status never gets any girls...
And big words are bad, snark wins. Lol at refusing to debate about things I got out of sociology books in college.
Who told you you were a 10/10? I'm not insecure, I've been married for 24 years, perfecty happy. I've got 2 degrees, and I took sociology in college also.
You aren't better than anyone here, and your continual use of big words you don't understand, and concepts you don't understand, and talking about your accomplishments, according to my psychology courses in college, prove your insecurity.
How is anything I said not perfectly congruent?
I think you are just confused by the depth implied in my comments, not that they are not true.
Again, if it was so wrong what I said, show me the parts where I said a word that meant something other than what I said.
Instead you just keep arguing like a child, scoffing at everything I say. The more I express depth, the more you try to run away with some cheap tactic.
If you consider my posts in this whole thread one big essay, it all make perfect sense.
If you disagree, name something that was incorrect then or back off with the immaturity.
Congruent:
The same shape and size.
Two shapes are congruent if you can Turn, Flip and/or Slide one so it fits exactly on the other.0 -
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Big words are fine when you use them correctly.lol so supposedly:::
the bitter, brittle, self-centered, insecure women get all the action.
And me the passionate 10/10 fitness model with a degree and fame status never gets any girls... Okkkkayyyy....
And big words are bad, snark wins. Lol at refusing to debate about concepts I got straight out of sociology books in college.
However, there is a well-known saying about people who use them.
I'm really not concerned about the amount of action I get. You seem to be, though.
Also, I am a purple unicorn. I said so on the Internet. It must be true.
I don't think you understand that if I were to use "smaller" words it would be 3 times the length of paragraphs that it already is.
I merely use the more loaded words so as to condense my statements in a way that lets you read it and comprehend the totality of what I am trying to express in a concise way.
When it is more efficient to use small words I absolutely do that.0 -
He specifically was talking about facial tattoos. I'm not sure why.At least career enders ... in most circles.
How? I've got two of them, my BA in Management, and a successful position in Administration.0 -
I don't think you understand that if I were to use "smaller" words it would be 3 times the length of paragraphs that it already is.
Then you need to go take a writing class because you are lousy at it.0 -
Well spouses sure have the right to say something about tattoos, I think!
I think tattoos age badly especially on women. So that's my opinion.0 -
lol so supposedly:::
the bitter, brittle, self-centered, insecure women get all the action.
And me the passionate 10/10 fitness model with a degree and fame status never gets any girls... Okkkkayyyy....
And big words are bad, snark wins. Lol at refusing to debate about concepts I got straight out of sociology books in college.
Just because you may have gotten a 10/10 would bang on the rate me threads, does not mean that you are 10/10.
Your consistent need to share how brilliant, wonderful, and amazingly intellectual you are, truly does highlight your insecurity.
You define narcissist.
And while you may feel intellectually justified in name calling... all of the "bitter, brittle, self-centered women" on here do seem to have one thing in common... they all think you do a discredit to your gender, and you are woefully mistaken when it comes to love.
I hope, for your sake, that you are just attempting to play troll games... but if you are indeed serious in all your posturing... I truly pity you.
I just hope you aren't nearly as bad as you portray yourself... because you appear to be quite the psychopath.0 -
You certainly can do what you want. But it sounds like it will make you less attractive to your husband. You can judge that all you want, but that seems to be the fact of the matter, maybe think about that. Nobody really HAS to get a tattoo, yup its your body, your life, and you can put up all the "he has to respect me for me" statements but it doesn't change the fact it changes people's thinking about you, no matter what you think they *should* think.
Some people think tattoos do make you a "lower" person.
Some feel they make the person seem sleazy, unprofessional and easy.
Some feel they show some kind of strength.
Some feel they show weakness of character, mind and body.
They do show something about a person even to you or you wouldn't get one, right...?
You can like or dislike it, it doesn't matter, should/would/could, whatever, but people will judge you for it, many without thinking, some not even knowing how it changes how they feel. And there are risks. You can be like Cartman and do whatcha want though
Please don't speak reason with them.
They will never understand.0 -
Big words are fine when you use them correctly.lol so supposedly:::
the bitter, brittle, self-centered, insecure women get all the action.
And me the passionate 10/10 fitness model with a degree and fame status never gets any girls... Okkkkayyyy....
And big words are bad, snark wins. Lol at refusing to debate about concepts I got straight out of sociology books in college.
However, there is a well-known saying about people who use them.
I'm really not concerned about the amount of action I get. You seem to be, though.
Also, I am a purple unicorn. I said so on the Internet. It must be true.
I don't think you understand that if I were to use "smaller" words it would be 3 times the length of paragraphs that it already is.
I merely use the more loaded words so as to condense my statements in a way that lets you read it and comprehend the totality of what I am trying to express in a concise way.
When it is more efficient to use small words I absolutely do that.
load·ed[ lṓdəd ]1.with full load: carrying a full load
2.containing ammunition: containing bullets or other ammunition and ready to fire
3.with hidden implication: having a hidden or secondary implication designed to trick somebody into making an admission or commitment0 -
there is so much wrong with here it isn't funny- but you are trying way to hard.
seriously.
way.
to.
hard.
Like what? lol. Have you been reading the whole thread? or just this paragraph out of context.
Im not sure many of you have the comprehensive abilities to remember what we were even talking about a couple pages ago and how it all ties in.
lol I guess you got bored when you realize you cannot defeat my logic with snark...
Nope- I have read all of your drivel. You clearly have a dictionary and a thesaurus next to you as you type this crap up.
I have a better education as an engineer from one of the country's top military colleges- trust me- I have excellent cognitive and comprehensive abilities- hence my ability to derive from your nonsense you are are completely incompetent and have NO clue what you are talking about.
You are trying to use big words to talk circles around people- and the jokes on you- because you really just sound ridiculously uneducated and completely desperate.
Any self respecting woman wouldn't cow to you. sorry- not sorry.
You are the kind of guy I would give two looks to at a bar because you clearly work on your body (worth noting) but then bury you because you couldn't keep up with me. shrug- it is what it is. don't' be mad son.0 -
lol so supposedly:::
the bitter, brittle, self-centered, insecure women get all the action.
And me the passionate 10/10 fitness model with a degree and fame status never gets any girls... Okkkkayyyy....
And big words are bad, snark wins. Lol at refusing to debate about concepts I got straight out of sociology books in college.
What's "fame status"? You are saying you are famous? How so?0 -
Tattoos are life changing! I got my first the day before I turned 18, the next day I could legally vote, boom CHANGE! I got two more at 23, including a huge one on my back and oh boy, I've had a lot of changes since then: I got married, had kids, my butt got bigger, bought a house, got some pets, studied biology, etc, etc. I'm 29 now, and you know, it think it's time for some more 'change' (read: tattoos, more tattoos).
(because forums are notoriously full of people without a humour gland, I'm just adding the note here, that I'm kidding, tattoos are not life-changing.)0 -
Listen to your husband and hopefully he will be your only one.
She said "listen" not "do exactly what he says".0 -
I think everyone is failing to recognize what is happening here. Nutella fella is a troll, nothing he says is real life. He seeks negative attention because as I stated earlier he has the same mentality of my 6 year old child. (Feels sad and insignificant because he isn't the center of attention so he seeks out negative attention) The more we engage him, the more he wins (because that is how 6 year olds define winning). If we all ignore him and do not engage in his shenannigans maybe, just maybe he will go away. Just a thought.0
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