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are looks important to you?
gunshowgreg
Posts: 169 Member
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Are looks important to you? I'll be honest they are to me I wouldn't want to be with someone that I was not physically attracted to you and nor would I want to be with someone that was not physically attracted to me. I want to be desired and seen as hot. If I wasn't seen that way it be upsetting and rather hurtful. Personality is important just the same. But I like the combination of the two.
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Same. I can't be with someone I'm not attracted to physically. It just won't work out in the long run.0
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Yes.
Anyone that says different is lying.0 -
Ditto...
I want the "full package"!!!0 -
Are they important? Yes.
Are they the most important? No.0 -
Ditto...
I want the "full package"!!!
Yup! Never settle for less than you want.0 -
Yes... To a certain extent...0
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Nope. I know what that's like to have someone judge you from the outside appearance and it sucks. Also with time, the outside changes as you get older, and the inside will be what really matters after all. That's what I focus on, to me someone who is kind etc... will be the most beautiful person in my eyes whether they are ugly to some. Which means that the guy who I will be attracted to in all ways will be because of his inside values and not because of his looks. He'll radiate far more because of the values and not because of something he was born with. That's my opinion though0
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Anyone who says otherwise is lying. You can be open minded, but everyone has a limit. When I was heavier, I went out with this guy a few times that I was crazyyyyyyy about. The feeling was not mutual and deep down, I knew it was because I was too heavy.
Flash forward 2 years and about 40 pounds of weight loss. I wound up reconnecting with that guy. Guess what? Now we are together. I have been head over heels in love with him for over 2 years. I asked him what was so off putting about me before. His response? "I always knew you were the one. You were just too big." Brutally honest. I went from being too fat for him once and now he tells me I am the love of his life.0 -
Absolutely!
Physical attraction is the the thing that draws me in . . . but it's gonna take more then that to keep me interested and wanting to stick around.0 -
When I was younger it was very important, as I've gotten older my scale has changed, but overall I still am some what shallow.... Just being honest.0
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Flash forward 2 years and about 40 pounds of weight loss. I wound up reconnecting with that guy. Guess what? Now we are together. I have been head over heels in love with him for over 2 years. I asked him what was so off putting about me before. His response? "I always knew you were the one. You were just too big." Brutally honest. I went from being too fat for him once and now he tells me I am the love of his life.
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Before "OMG WHAT DOUCHE"0 -
I didn't marry for looks. So I have to say no, looks aren't important.0
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Are they important? Yes.
Are they the most important? No.
This. Looks fade over time so you better enjoy the company of the person you are with. But yes, I have to be physically attracted to her in order to be willing to date her.0 -
i'd buy a yugo with a 540 big block under the hood..so not really, as long as they make up for it in other areas0
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yes but they have to have the full package, looks and personality are both as important as eachother for me.0
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Perhaps for initial attraction with some people.0
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Are they important? Yes.
Are they the most important? No.
This. Looks fade over time so you better enjoy the company of the person you are with. But yes, I have to be physically attracted to her in order to be willing to date her.
Yeah, I agree with this.0 -
When I was younger it was very important, as I've gotten older my scale has changed, but overall I still am some what shallow.... Just being honest.
Not shallow what you desire in someone is what you're attracted to and can't help it lol0 -
Nope. I know what that's like to have someone judge you from the outside appearance and it sucks. Also with time, the outside changes as you get older, and the inside will be what really matters after all. That's what I focus on, to me someone who is kind etc... will be the most beautiful person in my eyes whether they are ugly to some. Which means that the guy who I will be attracted to in all ways will be because of his inside values and not because of his looks. He'll radiate far more because of the values and not because of something he was born with. That's my opinion though
I think that was very well put0 -
I guess I'm weird. I'm attracted to good conversation -shrug- LOL0
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