Cuddling when sleeping....

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  • trojan_bb
    trojan_bb Posts: 699 Member
    Nope. Cant fall asleep touching anything besides sheets.

    I am hot all day. My metabolism is a freakin furnace. Touching all night is too much.Thankfully, my body heat keeps all would-be cuddlers at a safe distance.

    My arm falls asleep in about 30 seconds of cuddling anyways.
  • HeidiCooksSupper
    HeidiCooksSupper Posts: 3,831 Member
    It's fine until somebody's arm goes to sleep. We try but usually end up wriggling away from each other.:blushing:
  • luv_lea
    luv_lea Posts: 1,094 Member
    It depends on my mood and temperature of the room. Sometimes I love it, sometimes I hate it. Boyfriend is the same way, so it works.
  • kempt_ken
    kempt_ken Posts: 96 Member
    My wife's like that too so I have to cuddle one of our pugs that likes to sleep between our pillows.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,031 Member
    Bought a California King bed for one reason.....................sleeping space. Cuddling is for the couch, movies, etc. Not for sleeping.

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  • I_need_moar_musclez
    I_need_moar_musclez Posts: 499 Member
    *sigh* I wish!
  • darkrose20
    darkrose20 Posts: 1,139 Member
    NOPE Give me my space - I'll lay next to him and cuddle for awhile when falling asleep - but to sleep comfortably we both need our space; we have a King Size bed and both of us take our sides. Ironically we both sleep on our right sides so we're back to back.

    Sometimes in the mornings if its cold I'll go over to his side and spoon him from behind and fall back asleep, but only when its cold. I can't sleep if I'm too hot.

    You both sleep on your right sides, so you're back to back...and...head to toe? WHA?
  • lewoldt
    lewoldt Posts: 630 Member
    When I was married we didn't even share the same room. Now I love spooning with my girlfriend till we fall asleep
  • canadjineh
    canadjineh Posts: 5,396 Member
    Married 32 years - Queen size bed - we touch feet, but I move around a lot from my back to my sides and switch pillows every time (don't ask - neck/back issues due to car accident) so cuddling/spooning is usually reserved for 15 minutes or so in the morning after the alarm goes off & we listen to the radio, then do stretches together, then get up.
  • ComradeTovarich
    ComradeTovarich Posts: 495 Member
    I like to cuddle. With my pillow. :laugh:

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  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    I wish I could do it without feeling like my arm is going to drop off.
  • TeachTheGirl
    TeachTheGirl Posts: 2,091 Member
    Nope. I need my own room. My husband 'foot cuddles' my legs and I have to kick him away. =B
  • Jelaan
    Jelaan Posts: 815 Member
    Love cuddling before sleep but then I need my own space. I never move more than a couple of inches away but actually touching wakes me up.
  • moondazed
    moondazed Posts: 73 Member
    Only if I'm the big spoon. It gets hot and uncomfortable usually but I love falling asleep with someone in my arms. ahh:love:
  • arainiday1
    arainiday1 Posts: 1,763 Member
    nope... no cuddling to sleep here.... i sleep on MY side, with my own blanket and everything....
  • blueboxgeek
    blueboxgeek Posts: 574 Member
    I'm really thrilled to read these replies, I thought I was a freak lol.
  • Shokubeni
    Shokubeni Posts: 5
    I like cuddling when I first get into bed but when it's time to sleep I need my own space!
  • islander_2013
    islander_2013 Posts: 13,378 Member
    same here
  • corgarian
    corgarian Posts: 366 Member
    I cant stand being touched when I'm sleeping. My boyfriend gets his feelings hurt on the regular when I shove him away from me at night. I need mah space.
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    I cant stand being touched when I'm sleeping. My boyfriend gets his feelings hurt on the regular when I shove him away from me at night. I need mah space.

    I am like a furnace when I sleep, so if you are cuddling with me while sleeping, you better be ice man. I need my own space!
  • fitmommy2012
    fitmommy2012 Posts: 451 Member
    I prefer to cuddle and fall asleep!! I love it!! I am always cold though so it makes me feel warmer and protected.
  • whovian67
    whovian67 Posts: 608 Member
    Nope...I have a king size bed for me..I dont like to be hot ...unless David Tennant fell into my bed with John Barrowman and Matt Smith :) Although John and Scott are happily married :)
  • mustgetmuscles1
    mustgetmuscles1 Posts: 3,346 Member
    No but we hold hands while sleeping sometimes.
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    Nope...I have a king size bed for me..I dont like to be hot ...unless David Tennant fell into my bed with John Barrowman and Matt Smith :) Although John and Scott are happily married :)

    I have dibs on David Tennant. Sorry.
  • DymonNdaRgh40
    DymonNdaRgh40 Posts: 661 Member
    I'm all over the place in bed so cuddling will only work for a little with me unless I'm really tired.

    I did fall asleep once cuddling and awoke the next morning the same way. It was nice. I woke up first and was like wow! I can't believe neither one of us moved:smile:
  • Beautiful_disaster40
    Beautiful_disaster40 Posts: 154
    If I like the person I'm falling asleep with then yes I love to cuddle and love touching throughout the night but my ex husband and I got to the point where I didn't even want to hear him breath so I guess it depends!
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    Cuddles for a minute then it's too hot, go away ! :angry:

    We touch feets, though. Sometimes butts.
  • Hrcules
    Hrcules Posts: 74 Member
    Cuddles for a minute then it's too hot, go away ! :angry:

    We touch feets, though. Sometimes butts.
    Same here, any closer and someone is getting poked!
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    I like to cuddle. With my pillow. :laugh:

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  • Hardnfast
    Hardnfast Posts: 463
    Love having the head of my lady resting on me chest and snuggled up tight. Eventually one will move but maintain some sort physical contact. Depending on whether any action has or has not occurred beforehand it can be "hard" to go to sleep. So big yes for snuggling.

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