Cougar or MILF?

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Me too - hate being referred as either.

Give me a MILF anyday.:drinker:
Imagine at my age how old the cougar would have to be 60+ :sad:

bahahahaha..

Ok...you may use MILF freely and without judgement.

The only offensive thing about MILF is that it was made famous by American Pie, which is why I will never use that term. Otherwise it's no different in meaning than a guy seeing a mature woman and going "daaaammmmnnn."
Cougar, to my knowledge, just implies a woman dating a younger man and does not imply any level of attractiveness.

Indeed. MILF more so. When a woman says they're MILF I wonder if they've thought through what the letters stand for.

Because implying that women are too stupid to understand what MILF stands for isn't derogatory.

The hypocrisy in this thread is strong. :laugh:

Not really - it's possible that some people have forgotten what the letters actually stand for and just take it to mean "someone who is older and attractive".

Older and attractive is my Nanna.

Older and hot is a MILF.

Being older does not mean you suddenly don't want to be desired, or feel desirable.

Not said the opposite have I?

cougars are just old women trying to feel young by dating younger men

MILF's are just hot older women!

I wouldn't mind being referred to as a MILF, as long as it wouldn't turn me into a cougar!

Its all in how we act ladies. You can act with class or act like trash!

excuse me...wowsers...

I married my younger man thanks and I didn't date him because I was an "OLD WOMAN" trying to feel young, I dated/married him because he is a very loving caring man...who is more mature than most men my age..and actually had a job.

And I agree it's all in how we act and based on this above action I got a word for you......

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or refered to as sexualised nicknames due to my age and gender.

This ^^^

cougars are just old women trying to feel young by dating younger men

MILF's are just hot older women!

I wouldn't mind being referred to as a MILF, as long as it wouldn't turn me into a cougar!

Its all in how we act ladies. You can act with class or act like trash!

excuse me...wowsers...

I married my younger man thanks and I didn't date him because I was an "OLD WOMAN" trying to feel young, I dated/married him because he is a very loving caring man...who is more mature than most men my age..and actually had a job.

And I agree it's all in how we act and based on this above action I got a word for you......

I agreee. I don't date younger men because I want to feel young lol. I do because they're hot, and I can.

MILF beats cougar hands down.

Are you spelling milk incorrectly?

ah babe...

You must be hangry

I always thought a MILF was someone whose grown children's friends decided was hot enough to sleep with... Am I wrong here?

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

But...

if what she posts is only for her boyfriend etc and she wants to feel pretty and people notice her eyes then she would put a shirt on and not post her boobs for all and sundry to look at in a lustful and sexual way?

That profile pic doesn't exactly scream purity.

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

You seem to be doing a pretty good job of forcing your world view on others and taking away their right to their opinions. Perhaps you could stop and realize that words often have multiple connotations and that context matters. This belief that words always mean exactly what "you" say they mean is beyond ludicrous.

Both make me feel like a sex object.

I can only wish that there was a word women used to describe me that made me feel this way. :laugh: