Cougar or MILF?

lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Yet you use a pic like that. Let's not feign superiority in a half naked profile pic where people can look down your bathing top. LOL

I'm surprised people didn't jump on you for this response.
She said she thinks the term is disgusting and said that she prefers to be treated with respect, and yet you seem to imply that because she is wearing a bathing suit - she is "asking" to be treated otherwise?

I saw no "superiority" in her post, fringed or otherwise... Just a request that she not be hooted or hollered at, and that people not refer to her solely as a "mom I'd love to *kitten*" ..

[sarcasm] But... Hey... If she's gonna wear a bathing suit, and reveal the fact that her body looks great... I guess she deserved that...
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As for me... I prefer to keep my motherhood and sexuality distinct and separate. And I only focus on the fact that my boyfriend thinks I am both a wonderful mom AND a sexy lady.

Call yourself whatever you like.

Looking to be offended?? :laugh: I implied nothing than UTTER HYPOCRISY. I think 'I've been more than clear in all of my responses. You chose to go through life looking to be offended, then so be it. I'm enjoying life and not taking words too seriously.

Me? Offended? Ha! :laugh: :laugh:

You didn't offend me - and neither does the term.

And again... If someone doesn't like to be referred to as fu**able, how is it "UTTER HYPOCRISY" for them to wear a bathing suit pic?

You amuse me.

lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

I'm pretty sure there are laws against me in a bikini and/or a prom dress.

I am both!:bigsmile:

I always thought a MILF was someone whose grown children's friends decided was hot enough to sleep with... Am I wrong here?

Excerpt from Urban Dictionary: Mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physically attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them. A MILF is any mother that is sexually desirable.
There isn't an age stipulation on the children or the woman. Based upon this I fail to see why it would be derogatory but rather complementary.

Well, there is the whole most women don't want to be judged by their ****ability factor as they go about their daily lives. I mean, it's just not something we're looking to put on our Power Card, yet, a lot of the time, that's seems to be the only factor society thinks we have on our card.

But, hey, yeah, other than that... totally complimentary.

Nobody has ever called me a DILF but I would not take offense ..... lol

You know what rustles your jimmies not what rustles mine.

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

Sorry no, I didn't lie.

Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic.

Rest of your post - um, I've got nothing.

I'm confused... I can't see her profile... She says that she doesn't want to be called that.

That excerpt says she is NOT trying to be one - that she is here for something OTHER than achieving milf status.

I'm not sure how that excerpt warrants a leap to implying she likes the label?

But it's early... I try not to think too hard when it's early.

Mirey, I imagine if one doesn't like a word as a descriptor and consider it derogatory one wouldn't use it to describe what one or others might be.
Just me, perhaps, but one might skip words self-perceived as derogatory in their own profile.

Personally, I don't care if someone wants to use the term to describe themselves in the strict or derived "hottie" sense.

Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx

Oh ....I "preyed" on my now husband...good to know ...digs out religious artifacts for the praying.

Truthfully, don't all women prey on their husbands? No? It's just my wife? Damnit, I knew something wasn't right!

Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx

Milf by far cougar is a woman who prays on younger men MILF just a fit momma :-) xx

Oh those poor innocent young men... they need to be protected from the clutches of those evil, scheming older women who will entrap them and make them have sex... and steal their youth!

Those older women need to know their place! They don't belong hooking up with pretty, bright young things. They need to go back home, feed their cats and take up their knitting, and behave like proper middle-aged/old ladies.

Am I rite?

Oh, and I think you mean 'prey'.

You know what rustles your jimmies not what rustles mine.

I wanna rustle your jimmies... :flowerforyou:

lets see you guys pull off bikini, run a 5-K in 27:30 and fit into your 1987 prom dress at 45.

I'm pretty sure there are laws against me in a bikini and/or a prom dress.

Pretty sure there's not. You just have to have the courage to put up with the laughter, jeers, and taunting that will result is you do.

But it's not illegal (unless you are wearing one that is too small and doesn't provide adequate coverage).

Oh, so you're saying that I'm too fat to look good in a bikini? I see how it is. I thought this place was supposed to be for encouragement, but you're all just trying to keep me down! :laugh: