Cougar or MILF?

Not a mom or old so I'll have to say neither.

Man, I really wish that I could get all kinds of offended and join the party.

33 is old. Sorry. :laugh:

Glad I'm not a woman, otherwise I'd be ancient.

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

Ummm...no he didn't. You may want to revisit and actually read her profile. Last line states her preference for the word MILF. (She doesn't use cougar at all.) So maybe a little due diligence is needed before another type of tear down takes place, yes?

I prefer MILF, myself, thanks. :drinker:

No, you need to read what it says "Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic. "

She did not say she wanted to be one. She stated the opposite. She has a sensible goal, not be an obesity statistic. She is not looking for every guys eye or to be viewed as a sex object.

And - for those who think it is ok to shame her for wearing a bikini, you are being ridiculous as you are being snide.

Which one makes better sandwiches?

Now you've gone and done it. :laugh:

As a woman happily married to a slightly older man, MILF is my only option. I am flattered when men find me to be fu¢kable even though I am older and am often covered in snot and other toddler bodily fluids.

You are "older"??:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Dang I am screwed then.

This whole thread is a prime example of why people think women are catty b*tches.

Like the word, don't like the word- At the end of the day no one should really give a flying *kitten* as to others opinions, only their own.

You allow someone as much power as you give them. So if you believe a word to be "bad" or "derogatory" you're just giving those who use it more power.

OR you could realize that some things in life aren't that serious, grab on to your inner Mrs. Robinson, and give a big middle finger to the world.

Personally- MILF, Cougar, GILF, DILF = people you find sexually attractive. So who doesn't want to be seen as that? :drinker: Objectify me all ya want- at the end of the day I know I have brains to back up dat *kitten*

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

Ummm...no he didn't. You may want to revisit and actually read her profile. Last line states her preference for the word MILF. (She doesn't use cougar at all.) So maybe a little due diligence is needed before another type of tear down takes place, yes?

I prefer MILF, myself, thanks. :drinker:

No, you need to read what it says "Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic. "

She did not say she wanted to be one. She stated the opposite. She has a sensible goal, not be an obesity statistic. She is not looking for every guys eye or to be viewed as a sex object.

And - for those who think it is ok to shame her for wearing a bikini, you are being ridiculous as you are being snide.

So tell me again how I lied? She does use it in her profile.

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

Sorry no, I didn't lie.

Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic.

Rest of your post - um, I've got nothing.

I'm confused... I can't see her profile... She says that she doesn't want to be called that.

That excerpt says she is NOT trying to be one - that she is here for something OTHER than achieving milf status.

I'm not sure how that excerpt warrants a leap to implying she likes the label?

But it's early... I try not to think too hard when it's early.

this ^^^

..... Wallet?

I am guessing that

To the poster who finds both of these words offensive...and only wants to look good for her BF...

Lighten up...
You can NOT expect not to be sexualized if you make your profile pic
of you from the shoulders down, in a tiny bikini. That's the definition of sexualizing yourself...just sayin.

I don't think either one is offensive. Men will be men, from the beginning of time...It just is what it is.

So tell me again how I lied? She does use it in her profile.

And if you really want to get down to it, saying something like, "Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there", is not the same as saying, "I don't like the word". It's basically saying "...I'm trying to be a milf/hardbody, jut not the youngest hottest one..."