Cougar or MILF?

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

Ummm...no he didn't. You may want to revisit and actually read her profile. Last line states her preference for the word MILF. (She doesn't use cougar at all.) So maybe a little due diligence is needed before another type of tear down takes place, yes?

I prefer MILF, myself, thanks. :drinker:

No, you need to read what it says "Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic. "

She did not say she wanted to be one. She stated the opposite. She has a sensible goal, not be an obesity statistic. She is not looking for every guys eye or to be viewed as a sex object.

And - for those who think it is ok to shame her for wearing a bikini, you are being ridiculous as you are being snide.

So tell me again how I lied? She does use it in her profile.

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

Sorry no, I didn't lie.

Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic.

Rest of your post - um, I've got nothing.

I'm confused... I can't see her profile... She says that she doesn't want to be called that.

That excerpt says she is NOT trying to be one - that she is here for something OTHER than achieving milf status.

I'm not sure how that excerpt warrants a leap to implying she likes the label?

But it's early... I try not to think too hard when it's early.

this ^^^

..... Wallet?

I am guessing that

To the poster who finds both of these words offensive...and only wants to look good for her BF...

Lighten up...
You can NOT expect not to be sexualized if you make your profile pic
of you from the shoulders down, in a tiny bikini. That's the definition of sexualizing yourself...just sayin.

I don't think either one is offensive. Men will be men, from the beginning of time...It just is what it is.

So tell me again how I lied? She does use it in her profile.

And if you really want to get down to it, saying something like, "Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there", is not the same as saying, "I don't like the word". It's basically saying "...I'm trying to be a milf/hardbody, jut not the youngest hottest one..."

I dunno which is better but I do think it's funny when younger women call themselves MILFs. If you're 20 and you have a baby you're not a MILF. You're just some chick with a baby.

Haha sooooo true!

I think MILF but it is not a term you can apply to yourself. Someone else must think that. As for cougar, well...they pray on their victims.

Actually, it's more than praying. There's a serious big ritual... there's dancing, chanting, incense. Sometimes blood sacrifice (don't worry it's just menstrual blood). Just depends on how desperate we are before the hunt.

*digs out religious relics again*

I think both are disgusting and would prefer not to be reffered to as any one.

If you want to compliment me than open doors for me, pull out my chair, notice my eyes....... I dont like being hooted at or reffered to as sexualized nicknames due to my age and gender.

I just want my BF to think I am pretty, this here isnt for anyone else but him

Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.

srsly? tl;dr

He lied and you fell for it, - hook , line and sinker.

How you want to describe yourself is fine but if someone disagrees and prefer not to be looked at like trash, that is there right. Do you want people to tear down you and take away your right to opinions or living your life the way you want to live your life?

Who lied? From the users' profile who claims that both terms are disgusting:

Why I want to get in shape
.............
Not trying to be the youngest hottest milf/hardbody out there, I just dont want to be another obesity statistic.

Another one who did not distinguish between what the profiles says and what the OP and original poster trying to make it sound like. She used the word but as in the opposite manner. Don't put words in her mouth.

And the other poster didn't say she used it to describe herself, he just said, "Doesn't like the word, uses it in her profile.", and you called him a liar. Did she not use it in her profile? If someone claimed the didn't like the word c**t, yet used the word in their profile such as, "...not trying to be a c**t...", would you be this obtuse?

This retort is dumb as it gets. What you are trying to defend is far beyond apples and oranges. But it does not matter. My pay check comes on time and this coversation is getting further off course by the minute.

I am defending her because it is the right thing to do. She made a simple statement and I agreed with it. And to confuse the matter by pointing out the word from her profile, without discussing what she meant by it is even worse.

As for people calling themselves either is fine by me because it does not effect me. What I did not like is people ganging upon her and making it look like she has no right to wear a bikini or disparage the word for herself. She did not say you don't have a right to be called it. She gave her opinion as I did mine.

Call it what you want but this is taking to much energy to argue/debate with a stone wall.

This retort is dumb as it gets. What you are trying to defend is far beyond apples and oranges. But it does not matter. My pay check comes on time and this coversation is getting further off course by the minute.

I am defending her because it is the right thing to do. She made a simple statement and I agreed with it. And to confuse the matter by pointing out the word from her profile, without discussing what she meant by it is even worse.

As for people calling themselves either is fine by me because it does not effect me. What I did not like is people ganging upon her and making it look like she has no right to wear a bikini or disparage the word for herself. She did not say you don't have a right to be called it. She gave her opinion as I did mine.

Call it what you want but this is taking to much energy to argue/debate with a stone wall.

Nice to meet you, kettle.

Which one makes better sandwiches?

Now you've gone and done it. :laugh:

I have a gif for this but I suspect it would be a strike so ....it's like I tell my younger husband...if I can walk to the kitchen when your done you don't deserve a sammich...............

The image I have for sammiches will be a strike.....as it was a strike when I posted it quite a while ago. :laugh:

I think the male version of a cougar is a Panther

Most people would just use the term "pervert".

These terms have been thrown around and abused so much over the years that people don't seem to understand them anymore.

Cougar implies a grown, mature woman who is interested in pursuing younger males. It's a self-applied title. People who call women cougars are being disrespectful and derogatory, but a woman calling herself a cougar is supposed to be a personally-empowering thing. You're announcing that you're not some young teenage brat anymore, but you still like to have fun and have the skills and looks to bag a hot young guy.

MILF is an acronym for "Mom I'd Like to F**k". If anything, this is more offensive because it's used by others to describe the attractiveness of mature women. This is NOT a self-applied title, but a sexually-objectifying description. This term, by definition, should be used to describe attractive mothers, but people abuse the term so much that it's being applied to any mature woman nowadays. I laugh when women call themselves MILFs because it tells me they don't even understand what it means. You're a mother you'd like to bang? Uh-huh.

I don't use either term to describe women and I don't take offense to either term being used, as long as no one else is offended. But strictly by definition, MILF is the more derogatory term.

I think the male version of a cougar is a Panther

Most people would just use the term "pervert".

These terms have been thrown around and abused so much over the years that people don't seem to understand them anymore.

Cougar implies a grown, mature woman who is interested in pursuing younger males. It's a self-applied title. People who call women cougars are being disrespectful and derogatory, but a woman calling herself a cougar is supposed to be a personally-empowering thing. You're announcing that you're not some young teenage brat anymore, but you still like to have fun and have the skills and looks to bag a hot young guy.

MILF is an acronym for "Mom I'd Like to F**k". If anything, this is more offensive because it's used by others to describe the attractiveness of mature women. This is NOT a self-applied title, but a sexually-objectifying description. This term, by definition, should be used to describe attractive mothers, but people abuse the term so much that it's being applied to any mature woman nowadays. I laugh when women call themselves MILFs because it tells me they don't even understand what it means. You're a mother you'd like to bang? Uh-huh.

I don't use either term to describe women and I don't take offense to either term being used, as long as no one else is offended. But strictly by definition, MILF is the more derogatory term.

If I had kids I'd be a MILF. Damn right I want to bang myself and I doubt having kids would change my opinion in that matter.

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I was gonna respond now I don't have to....*two thumbs up*

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If you hook up with a MILF (or any mother, for that matter), doesn't that make you a Mother F*cker?

If that's the case, why is that phrase insulting? I'd personally find it as a compliment.

Heck every single father is technically a "MoFo".