Cuddling when sleeping....

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  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    NO
  • CamilleJackie350
    CamilleJackie350 Posts: 124
    nah bro im sweet
  • zorbaru
    zorbaru Posts: 1,077 Member
    nope. my arm falls asleep. plus we work on 2 completely different temperatures and i just get too hot.

    thats why we got a king size bed
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    nope. my arm falls asleep. plus we work on 2 completely different temperatures and i just get too hot.

    thats why we got a king size bed

    Exactly! Get too hot and always something falls asleep. Girls, it is the leg
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Sometimes it happens we fall asleep in a cuddle, but I agree that once I am going to sleep I usually like to get into my own comfortable position, but I do sleep better when he is near me, and I have my foot and/or my hand touching him.
  • Keepcalmanddontblink
    Keepcalmanddontblink Posts: 718 Member
    http://theoatmeal.com/comics/cuddling How to cuddle like you mean it.
  • EatingAndKnitting
    EatingAndKnitting Posts: 531 Member
    I hate cuddling when I'm trying to get to sleep. I can't do it. I have to be free to roll over and move while I'm falling. MAYBE if my husband came and cuddled me after I fell asleep, but not before. Like the OP, he says he wants to sleep with me and wake up with me in his arms. NOPE.

    I can't even sleep when my cats are cuddled up next to me.
  • leggup
    leggup Posts: 2,942 Member
    Get wasted and you'll fall asleep in his arms, no problem.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,242 Member
    I could never sleep cuddling until I started sleeping with my husband. Now we spoon all night, when one rolls over, the other does, so we swap big spoon/little spoon all night. We start off with me being the little spoon, but as we hit the edge of sleep, we always roll over.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    No, no, no. And luckily, I'm married to a woman who wants her space while sleeping too. :bigsmile:
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    No one can touch me when I sleep. NO ONE!
  • sw33tp3a11
    sw33tp3a11 Posts: 4,646 Member
    My husband sucks lol He only did that when we first meet and he was trying to get into my pants. After that happened never again

    Thanks for the reminder...
  • stuart160
    stuart160 Posts: 1,628 Member
    Spooning is the best sleep position of all and gives me the deepest most content sleep and slowly waking up while spooning puts you quickly into the mood for a great start to the day : )
  • kittykat11111
    kittykat11111 Posts: 233
    Spooning is the best sleep position of all and gives me the deepest most content sleep and slowly waking up while spooning puts you quickly into the mood for a great start to the day : )

    Yes! This!!!
  • StarsAreMyOcean
    StarsAreMyOcean Posts: 61
    I can't either. I need the dude to scoot over so I can sprawl out.
    See I just sprawl out all over him.

    Not the most romantic cuddle in the world but it's effective.
  • sw33tp3a11
    sw33tp3a11 Posts: 4,646 Member
    Spooning is the best sleep position of all and gives me the deepest most content sleep and slowly waking up while spooning puts you quickly into the mood for a great start to the day : )

    Can I divorce and marry you? Lol
  • pandabear_
    pandabear_ Posts: 487 Member
    I tried it once with an ex-boyfriend. He was French so I guess 'spooning' didn't translate.

    We tried for 30 seconds and he just said: "your hair is my mouth. What am I supposed to do with my arm?" and then we never did it again...
  • Me2FitMe
    Me2FitMe Posts: 1,285 Member
    I'm the same way!
  • CharlieMurtagh
    CharlieMurtagh Posts: 1,742 Member
    I have the whole kingsize bed to myself and I sleep like a baby lol.. no arms round me no snoring in my ear.... its pure heaven lol
  • Jennkies
    Jennkies Posts: 382 Member
    Oh oh oh, I am totally with you on this one.. I can't stand being smothered to sleep.. ugh. Awful feeling.
  • TerinnaAdams
    TerinnaAdams Posts: 9 Member
    Not weird! I cant sleep touching my husband either...but what is weird is I sleep on the outside, and i cannot no matter how hard i try sleep with my back facing the door...I feel like if i sleep with my back towards my husband than i can clearly see if someones going to try to come in and kill me when im sleeping?...lol I feel vulnerable when i cant see what can be coming in. And if my husbands not in the bed i sleep on my back so i can see whats coming at me from down by my feet. LoL I must have been traumatized as a kid?? =)
  • Luke_I_am_your_spotter
    Luke_I_am_your_spotter Posts: 4,179 Member
    can't do it. cuddling/spooning makes me horny every, single time. lol
  • MikeCrazy
    MikeCrazy Posts: 2,716 Member
    Sometimes we can't always cuddle. Real life isn't always a fantasy, but I would say that spooning, or being spooned, or cuddled, or even being gently woken up to a cuddle is just about the best feeling in life. It brings contentment in the feeling that you are needed, wanted, or just plain loved. Even if you can't sleep that way you should be that way before you have to get up.
    My 2 cents.
  • ZOOpergal
    ZOOpergal Posts: 176 Member
    Sometimes it happens we fall asleep in a cuddle, but I agree that once I am going to sleep I usually like to get into my own comfortable position, but I do sleep better when he is near me, and I have my foot and/or my hand touching him.

    Yup this. Even when we're in our own positions, my hand is usually on their back/stomach/anywhere so I know they are there.
  • vanillacoffee
    vanillacoffee Posts: 1,024 Member
    Ever since I've had allergies I feel like I need to be NOT cuddled if sleeping- I have a weird fear of not being able to breathe.
  • IMissSports
    IMissSports Posts: 26
    Oh no, we definitely don't do that either! Although in the night it's not uncommon for him to hug me from behind for like a minute, and then just roll over and go back to sleep. Weird man.
  • TKhamvongsa
    TKhamvongsa Posts: 287
    I cuddle for a bit then move away. I like my space.
  • Dogwalkingirl
    Dogwalkingirl Posts: 320 Member
    Nope! too hot and like my space...we can cuddle a bit after sex, cuddle while we talk but when it comes to serious sleep time he need to move over to 'his' side!
  • navygrrl
    navygrrl Posts: 517 Member
    I get too hot and need my own space.
  • EdR55
    EdR55 Posts: 174 Member
    Definitely start with cuddle---less than an hr unless it's cool to cold and even then normally drift away in the middle of the night and back in the am...

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