Cuddling when sleeping....

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  • TerinnaAdams
    TerinnaAdams Posts: 9 Member
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    Not weird! I cant sleep touching my husband either...but what is weird is I sleep on the outside, and i cannot no matter how hard i try sleep with my back facing the door...I feel like if i sleep with my back towards my husband than i can clearly see if someones going to try to come in and kill me when im sleeping?...lol I feel vulnerable when i cant see what can be coming in. And if my husbands not in the bed i sleep on my back so i can see whats coming at me from down by my feet. LoL I must have been traumatized as a kid?? =)
  • Luke_I_am_your_spotter
    Luke_I_am_your_spotter Posts: 4,179 Member
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    can't do it. cuddling/spooning makes me horny every, single time. lol
  • MikeCrazy
    MikeCrazy Posts: 2,716 Member
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    Sometimes we can't always cuddle. Real life isn't always a fantasy, but I would say that spooning, or being spooned, or cuddled, or even being gently woken up to a cuddle is just about the best feeling in life. It brings contentment in the feeling that you are needed, wanted, or just plain loved. Even if you can't sleep that way you should be that way before you have to get up.
    My 2 cents.
  • ZOOpergal
    ZOOpergal Posts: 176 Member
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    Sometimes it happens we fall asleep in a cuddle, but I agree that once I am going to sleep I usually like to get into my own comfortable position, but I do sleep better when he is near me, and I have my foot and/or my hand touching him.

    Yup this. Even when we're in our own positions, my hand is usually on their back/stomach/anywhere so I know they are there.
  • vanillacoffee
    vanillacoffee Posts: 1,024 Member
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    Ever since I've had allergies I feel like I need to be NOT cuddled if sleeping- I have a weird fear of not being able to breathe.
  • IMissSports
    IMissSports Posts: 26
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    Oh no, we definitely don't do that either! Although in the night it's not uncommon for him to hug me from behind for like a minute, and then just roll over and go back to sleep. Weird man.
  • TKhamvongsa
    TKhamvongsa Posts: 287
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    I cuddle for a bit then move away. I like my space.
  • Dogwalkingirl
    Dogwalkingirl Posts: 320 Member
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    Nope! too hot and like my space...we can cuddle a bit after sex, cuddle while we talk but when it comes to serious sleep time he need to move over to 'his' side!
  • navygrrl
    navygrrl Posts: 517 Member
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    I get too hot and need my own space.
  • EdR55
    EdR55 Posts: 174 Member
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    Definitely start with cuddle---less than an hr unless it's cool to cold and even then normally drift away in the middle of the night and back in the am...
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,296 Member
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    Not if it's too hot, but I love to spoon a man. Much more than I like them spooning me (which is also good). Plus if I'm being spooned it makes me horny...I mean it's like, "While you're back there all pressed up..."
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,065 Member
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    Nope, can't sleep while cuddling. Give me my space.
  • MyTurn2BHappy
    MyTurn2BHappy Posts: 475 Member
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    Love cuddling!
  • gettinthere
    gettinthere Posts: 529 Member
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    love it!!
  • detox_pixie
    detox_pixie Posts: 166
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  • FeraFilia
    FeraFilia Posts: 4,664 Member
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    I love to snuggle up to my hubby at bedtime (or any time, really)... but yeah, I can't fall asleep that way. Neither can he. We're both stomach sleepers and I can't stand having someone touching me when I sleep, it keeps me awake.
  • CynthiaT60
    CynthiaT60 Posts: 1,280 Member
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    He's the big spoon, I'm the middle spoon, and the extra pillow is the small spoon. Ahhhh. After falling asleep we both apparently do our own thing.
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
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    Depends. I like to spoon him...or when he spoons me.
    I also like cuddling up in my little "nook" (that dent between his neck and shoulder)...I always fall asleep cuddling with him. We may not end up staying cuddling all night...but I fall asleep that way.
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
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    I'm a bed hog because I just want to cuddle :cry:
  • AllOutof_Bubblegum
    AllOutof_Bubblegum Posts: 3,646 Member
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    Nope. Can't stand it. I love my husband to pieces, but please honey, for the love, don't fricking touch me while I'm sleeping. I'm a hot sleeper, as well as a thrasher, and I get overheated almost instantly, and end up elbowing him in the ribs every twenty minutes.

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