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Would you date someone overweight?

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  • ValGogo
    ValGogo Posts: 2,168 Member
    Depends on the person.

    I could find myself attracted to someone who is big, like BIG, but when it comes down to physical "activities" well, it would be a tough call.

    So, I'd say maybe.

    I mean, if we're talking BIG. Regular overweight.....yeah, of course.
  • MissAnjy
    MissAnjy Posts: 2,480 Member
    Yes. My ex-bf is pushing 300 at 5'8.
  • DBoone85
    DBoone85 Posts: 916 Member
    Almost exclusively.

    Almost?

    A few thin ones have slipped in here and there, but for the most part...I have a type.

    Ahhhhhh.....I see. I thought you dated people (almost exclusively)...just in case you got a better offer.

    My bad, yo!
  • Mikkimeow
    Mikkimeow Posts: 1,282 Member
    Almost exclusively.

    Almost?

    A few thin ones have slipped in here and there, but for the most part...I have a type.

    I'm intrigued. lol
  • _BearNecessities_
    _BearNecessities_ Posts: 432 Member
    A few pounds overweight, sure. Morbidly obese, no. Perhaps that makes me shallow but that's my preference. I've gotten told that I was too skinny by a few women and I'm okay with that.

    ^^ This
  • Veil5577
    Veil5577 Posts: 868 Member
    I occasionally date someone who was rail thin 15 years ago but has now gotten a bit of a belly. It doesn't bother me much, but morbidly obese.. no, I'm just not attracted to it.
  • Eselte
    Eselte Posts: 49
    Yep. I dont discriminate :D
  • ValGogo
    ValGogo Posts: 2,168 Member
    I am attracted to tall men who are very thin with no muscle definition. I have never dated anyone overweight.

    I would date an overweight-to-a-point man if I saw the potential in him to be physically perfect with all the fat gone. He would have to be young enough to not end up with any loose skin, and not overweight enough to end up with loose skin.

    I am only attracted to young men anyway; I would NOT date anyone anywhere near as old as me, no matter how thin and tall he was.

    Oh jesus lord...
  • Menix8
    Menix8 Posts: 210 Member
    Yes. I've got a weakness for some powerlifters at my gym. Their BMI probably puts them in the "overweight" category.
  • BigT555
    BigT555 Posts: 2,067 Member
    Almost exclusively.

    Almost?

    A few thin ones have slipped in here and there, but for the most part...I have a type.
    pun intended?:wink:

    for me, i wouldnt have a problem with it as long as they were active. hell im still overweight so it'd be pretty damn hypocritical for me to say no
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    I am attracted to tall men who are very thin with no muscle definition. I have never dated anyone overweight.

    I would date an overweight-to-a-point man if I saw the potential in him to be physically perfect with all the fat gone. He would have to be young enough to not end up with any loose skin, and not overweight enough to end up with loose skin.

    I am only attracted to young men anyway; I would NOT date anyone anywhere near as old as me, no matter how thin and tall he was.

    Oh jesus lord...

    :huh: My thoughts exactly!
  • FrozenSongBird
    FrozenSongBird Posts: 3,892 Member
    I don't necessarily have a type, if I like you and i'm attracted to you then yes I would.
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    Of course! I'm in the obse catagory so if someone is willing to date me, I'm willing to date them. In fact I prefer it.
  • JulieGirl58
    JulieGirl58 Posts: 158 Member
    Definitely. I actually prefer a man with a little meat on his bones, not skinny. For me, it is all about the personality. I love a man who can make me laugh, and I adore a man who is honest.
  • Mikkimeow
    Mikkimeow Posts: 1,282 Member
    Almost exclusively.

    Almost?

    A few thin ones have slipped in here and there, but for the most part...I have a type.
    pun intended?:wink:

    for me, i wouldnt have a problem with it as long as they were active. hell im still overweight so it'd be pretty damn hypocritical for me to say no

    Same here, I'm not exactly a stick figure.
  • Autk79
    Autk79 Posts: 286 Member
    Ive done it before and Id prob do it again BUT if they have no goal to try to be healthier I dont think I could do it again. Nothing towards them but it would bring me down too if they didnt at least have goals to lose the weight or at least not gain more. When I date again Id prefer someone who workouts
  • mnwalkingqueen
    mnwalkingqueen Posts: 1,299 Member
    Yes I would and do....My current partner is 310lb 6ft tall. It's his personality that I was attracted to plus his smile. Ugly on the inside comes in all shapes and sizes. It is harder to change ugly on the inside than it is ugly on the outside.
  • ValGogo
    ValGogo Posts: 2,168 Member
    I am attracted to tall men who are very thin with no muscle definition. I have never dated anyone overweight.

    I would date an overweight-to-a-point man if I saw the potential in him to be physically perfect with all the fat gone. He would have to be young enough to not end up with any loose skin, and not overweight enough to end up with loose skin.

    I am only attracted to young men anyway; I would NOT date anyone anywhere near as old as me, no matter how thin and tall he was.

    Oh jesus lord...

    :huh: My thoughts exactly!

    (winks at kendall) :wink:
  • cosmiqrust
    cosmiqrust Posts: 214 Member
    absolutely. i've almost exclusively dated overweight girls tbh. the only place i draw the line is people with feeder/feeding fetishes. *skype vomit emoji*
  • 1HappyRedhead
    1HappyRedhead Posts: 413 Member
    I am attracted to tall men who are very thin with no muscle definition. I have never dated anyone overweight.

    I would date an overweight-to-a-point man if I saw the potential in him to be physically perfect with all the fat gone. He would have to be young enough to not end up with any loose skin, and not overweight enough to end up with loose skin.

    I am only attracted to young men anyway; I would NOT date anyone anywhere near as old as me, no matter how thin and tall he was.

    Oh jesus lord...

    :huh: My thoughts exactly!


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