Do you get hit on?

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  • Noogynoogs
    Noogynoogs Posts: 1,028 Member
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    There selling that special brew here - ten quid a bottle
  • KatieMusselwhite92113
    KatieMusselwhite92113 Posts: 98 Member
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    Your profile says that you specifically don't want to be hit on, on here at least. If that is your attitude about it, maybe you're repelling people? Also, and I can't emphasize this enough, you're married so it REALLY shouldn't matter to you. The fact that it does is a little unsettling to me.
  • donnysoule
    donnysoule Posts: 1,185 Member
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    I agree that if you say you don't want to be hit on, you're probably sending a "vibe". But, married or not, people want the validation that goes along with being admired by someone other than their significant other....
  • Noogynoogs
    Noogynoogs Posts: 1,028 Member
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    We all like a boost for the day.
  • TheDoughnutTheif
    TheDoughnutTheif Posts: 349 Member
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    My wife tells me I am hit on quite a bit; I always take it as just people being friendly. I agree with @donnysoule, I don't care if I am hit on, but it is nice to know that others notice the hard work that we put in day in and day out.
  • nerdburglar13
    nerdburglar13 Posts: 221
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    Sometimes! But my dorky sarcastic wit usually makes short work of it and leaves them scratching their heads. (Or straight up stalking me after that.)
  • Darkhawk1969
    Darkhawk1969 Posts: 1,419 Member
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    nerdburglar13 wrote: »
    Sometimes! But my dorky sarcastic wit usually makes short work of it and leaves them scratching their heads. (Or straight up stalking me after that.)

    I can live with stalking
  • JessicaJVRadcliffe
    JessicaJVRadcliffe Posts: 201 Member
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    It is directly related to my mood. When I am smiley and cheerful, frequently. When I shut down, no.
  • BlueEyedRedhead
    BlueEyedRedhead Posts: 5,169 Member
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    donnysoule wrote: »
    married or not, people want the validation that goes along with being admired by someone other than their significant other....

    Absolutely!!

  • 530roman
    530roman Posts: 1,819 Member
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    KatieMusselwhite92113 wrote: »
    Your profile says that you specifically don't want to be hit on, on here at least. If that is your attitude about it, maybe you're repelling people? Also, and I can't emphasize this enough, you're married so it REALLY shouldn't matter to you. The fact that it does is a little unsettling to me.

    Who invited her? Sheesh, you just killed my whole vibe for the day.
  • JessicaJVRadcliffe
    JessicaJVRadcliffe Posts: 201 Member
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    Married or not, no one can deny that it is nice to know you are appreciated.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
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    JessicaJVRadcliffe wrote: »
    Married or not, no one can deny that it is nice to know you are appreciated.

    Human nature.

  • siport
    siport Posts: 7,429 Member
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    JessicaJVRadcliffe wrote: »
    Married or not, no one can deny that it is nice to know you are appreciated.

    and you are appreciated :heart_eyes:
  • Sweetsluv
    Sweetsluv Posts: 2,260 Member
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    JessicaJVRadcliffe wrote: »
    Married or not, no one can deny that it is nice to know you are appreciated.

    Exactly!!!! Especially if your husband isn't one for compliments.
  • LilRedRooster
    LilRedRooster Posts: 1,421 Member
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    Most of time it happens from patients I work with. And then I offer them a bowel prep or have to empty their drain, so it really never goes anywhere good after that..

    Does that count?
  • Darkhawk1969
    Darkhawk1969 Posts: 1,419 Member
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    LilRedRooster wrote: »
    Most of time it happens from patients I work with. And then I offer them a bowel prep or have to empty their drain, so it really never goes anywhere good after that..

    Does that count?
    I bet you have their undivided attention though lol
  • TheDoughnutTheif
    TheDoughnutTheif Posts: 349 Member
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    nerdburglar13 wrote: »
    Sometimes! But my dorky sarcastic wit usually makes short work of it and leaves them scratching their heads. (Or straight up stalking me after that.)

    10/10 would stalk again
  • Tantaluss
    Tantaluss Posts: 69
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    I can safely say I have never been hit on, be it online or in real life haha.
  • cmoorofum
    cmoorofum Posts: 187 Member
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    No, I dont either maybe ocassionaly on facebook but never in person. Its pretty sad :neutral_face:

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