55-65 year old women's success?

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  • candicer
    candicer Posts: 25 Member

    jules92761 wrote: »
    candicer wrote: »
    jules92761 wrote: »
    Canndicer I am also on 50,000 iu prescription vitamin d. My endocrinologist said I'd probably be on it forever.

    Oh my goodness! Forever!? Any explanation as to why your body needs it so much more than usual?

    Sorry for the late reply, Canndicer, I just saw this. I am hypothyroid and I think that contributes to low vitamin D. Living in Michigan's climate doesn't help either. LOL My parathyroid was enlarged because it was compensating for the low vitamin D and went back to normal after going on the prescription level - so he doesn't see me coming off of it. I am lucky to have found a great and very thorough endocrinologist. I was having terrible joint pain, migraines, all sorts of problems and he got me straighted out quickly. But I had spent nearly a year before that with various doctors being checked for every ailment under the sun. The rhumatologist finally is the one that referred me to the endo.

    Jules - I wondered, too, if I might have a thyroid issue, but the tests came back negative. I have discoid lupus; which I don't know if it has anything to do with the VitD issue or not, but it can be a pain. I also have Raynaud's, and the cold affects my hands and feet. Fortunately I think I have been mostly in remission for the last couple years. No serious flare ups. But with the lupus I'm not supposed to go in the sun, but now I am VitD deficient because I don't get enough sun! And I really really miss the sun! I've not always been very good about staying out of it. I've found that the tanning bed will cause flare ups much faster/easier than the real thing.
  • candicer
    candicer Posts: 25 Member
    helma62 wrote: »
    this post is fantastic. I'm 52 post menopausal. Plus a thyroid issue for over 15 years. I gained 25lb the last 3 years. I have been working out including weights and cardio 5-6 days a week. Nothing is coming off. My biggest problem is consistency. I need to see some results fast. I have been back and forth between ww and mfp. I eat 80-90 % healthy. I don't really know how much calories I should be around. I can burn between 300 -500 calories a workout, eating 1200-1300 cal. Now I hear about marco's. Any advise is welcome. I need to read this post everyday. It is giving me the strength to not give up. I know I am not alone.

    Helma, you and I are cut from the same cloth! Except for me being a couple years older, our story is pretty much identical! I started out at 1500 cal pr day, and gradually worked down to 900-1000 before I saw a weight loss. If I eat more than about 1100, I will gain. I work out 5 - 6 days a week, about 5 hours of cardio a week, and probably 4 hours with weights pr week. I've lost 3 pounds in about 10 weeks. It's very discouraging. I have my bad days but I keep coming back here for encouragement!
  • lovesretirement
    lovesretirement Posts: 2,661 Member
    edited March 2015
    Candicer.. with that much exercise, you need to eat way more than what you are eating. You need adequate amounts of protein, especially with the weight training you are doing. Have you used an online calculator to determine how many calories you actually need for your age, weight, and activity level?

    Helma.. Macros are macronutrients... Carb, protein, fat. MFP sets them for you when you set up your goals or you can customize them. They make up your daily nutrition. I'm not sure what MFP makes them, but I have mine set at 40% carb, 30% protein, and 30% fat. You can adjust to fit your needs.
  • trina1049
    trina1049 Posts: 593 Member
    Candicer.. with that much exercise, you need to eat way more than what you are eating. You need adequate amounts of protein, especially with the weight training you are doing. Have you used an online calculator to determine how many calories you actually need for your age, weight, and activity level?

    Helma.. Macros are macronutrients... Carb, protein, fat. MFP sets them for you when you set up your goals or you can customize them. They make up your daily nutrition. I'm not sure what MFP makes them, but I have mine set at 40% carb, 30% protein, and 30% fat. You can adjust to fit your needs.

    I agree; you're not eating enough. You'd probably lose weight faster if you ate more to fuel your exercise. Just a thought.
  • helma62
    helma62 Posts: 24 Member
    what is a good pre and post workout snack? I workout after work. I have to eat something before. I'll never make it through a workout. I eat dinner after. I usually eat a protein and veggie.
  • Jewels211
    Jewels211 Posts: 184 Member
    Snooozie wrote: »
    lmao Jewels... absolutely!! I also think its only fair we get to claim a few cals burned for every hot flash LOL!! :o

    Oh, amen! Generating that level of heat HAS to burn serious calories! The stupid things are coming more often for me suddenly & exercise is one of the triggers for me. I guess that might mean I burn even more calories afterward, right?
  • Jewels211
    Jewels211 Posts: 184 Member
    helma62 wrote: »
    I have been working out including weights and cardio 5-6 days a week. Nothing is coming off. My biggest problem is consistency. I need to see some results fast. I have been back and forth between ww and mfp. I eat 80-90 % healthy. I don't really know how much calories I should be around. I can burn between 300 -500 calories a workout, eating 1200-1300 cal. Now I hear about marco's. Any advise is welcome. I need to read this post everyday. It is giving me the strength to not give up. I know I am not alone.

    Helma, this site & its 2 calculators might help give you an idea of what you need calorie wise:
    http://dailyburn.com/life/health/how-to-calculate-bmr/
  • Jewels211
    Jewels211 Posts: 184 Member
    jules92761 wrote: »
    Inspiring thread. Got a question for those of you who have battled arthritis... How did you get started exercising again? I have my joint pain mostly under control through diet (mostly by eliminating nightshades -- my body reacts severely to them -- and keeping my carbs low because I've found carbs inflammatory) and supplements (glucosamine, vitamin C, magnesium citrate, and collagen). My joints are still somewhat stiff, and my ability to catch my balance when pulled off balance is not where I'd like it to be. I can walk up to two miles in an hour without pain.

    Anyhow, how does someone with stiff knees start exercising and regaining flexibility? Is it even possible?

    I struggle with arthritis too - mostly in my spine and hips. For me yoga has been a tremendous help. If you can, what worked well for me was a private one-on-one session with a yoga instructor (from a yoga studio, not a fitness center) who can customize a program for you based on your needs. I also found the elliptical is good for me because there is no impact.

    How about water aerobics? Do you have that available in your area? It's supposed to really help ease joint pain while exercising.
  • Sandyloveschampagne
    Sandyloveschampagne Posts: 21 Member
    I like this thread, I need the accountability MFP gives us, even though we are all strangers.....heck, I won't even tell my husband how much I weigh!!
  • sodakat
    sodakat Posts: 1,126 Member
    Hah, hah Sandy, I am excited that pretty soon I'll weigh LESS than my husband!

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  • cathy120861
    cathy120861 Posts: 265 Member
    Oh Sodakat -- i just a couple of months ago finally weighed less than my husband, so i am totally with you on how good that feels.

    my favorite on the go snack is nuts -- almonds and macademia nuts were recommended to me as the healthiest. I have to measure out an ounce or two, though, cause it is easy to eat too many and they do have a lot of calories. i eat them anyway because they seem to be the best for getting some energy that lasts a long time.

    i have been struggling to stay with my healthy eating for the last week. i have been anxious, and having trouble sleeping. Those midnight emotional binges are my downfall.
  • sodakat
    sodakat Posts: 1,126 Member
    I'm so grateful I don't wake up overnight, Cathy.

    I know if I fall asleep watching TV in the living room, then wake up to go to bed, I feel like I need to eat. If I go to bed when I'm tired instead of nodding off in a chair or on the couch, I don't have the urge to grab a snack and I'm never hungry after waking in the morning. I wonder what it is about waking up after a short time of sleeping, that increases my urge to eat?

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  • urloved33
    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
    I love this thread...good for us! I am 55 and have been in the gym since i was 20 but very seriously since i was 35. In my 50;s things changed and I need to warm up for a much longer time to perform like I did when I was younger. I added a stretched and balanced class to my weekly schedule and a yoga class. I still life weights twice weekly and do one hour of uphill cardio five days a week!
  • urloved33
    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
    I am 5'1" and was always fit and within a healthy weight range. My weight gain started in 2001 at age 50 (5 years after menopause) due to heart problems and RA. I hurt and felt like my heart would explode at very little exertion. I gained 100 pounds in 8 months and it became even harder to move. My RA was usually controlled, but my heart continued to get worse and by 2007, I was pretty much told I shouldn't do stairs, exercise, etc. as it was feared I would suffer sudden death. Medications helped, but would not get my heart functioning well enough. I continued to gain. In 2010, I was given a pacemaker/CRT/defibrillator implant and I could tell a difference almost immediately. The CRT (cardiac resychronization therapy) portion has that effect on some people. My RA was flaring up again though, so I was still pretty limited in what I could do.

    But by January 2014, my heart function was near normal and my RA was in remission. I could finally move without problems. I was looking into bariatric surgery as I had reached 238 (BMI 45). I started doing all the things I needed to do to prepare for surgery like seeing that I could stick to a 1200-calorie a day diet and walk every day. I was determined that if I went through the surgery, I would do what it took to be successful. Instead, I started to lose weight! I joined MFP a couple weeks later. By the time I would have jumped through all the hoops to have the surgery, I no longer qualified for surgery!

    I am now at 148.5. (I've dropped 89.5 pounds total, 81.5 since joining MFP). I have gone from a size 22 WP pants to a 10P (just this week). I have gone from XXL tops to MP. I am walking everyday. Doing a cardio workout usually at least 60 minutes and 6 days a week (mostly 7 because I love it). I try to do strength training twice a week (but I must admit I hate it). I have started Tai Chi this year and go twice a week to that!

    I'm still not sure where to stop. My ticker goal says 115 as that is where I was most of my life. The science says after 60 we should weigh a little into the "overweight BMI range" and my doctor agrees with that thinking and says 135-140. I would like to get at least to 130 (which would get me into the high end of "healthy" BMI, but lower than my dr. advises) I'll be 64 in April. My question is: How did you decide where to maintain? Science or vanity? I seem to be aiming at vanity.

    The progress photo below was taken last month about 6 pounds more than now and one size larger.
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    This is an absolutely incredible experience that you shared with us. It speaks to the ability of our body and spirit to heal. You are an amazing and strong woman. Congratulations to you.
  • Jewels211
    Jewels211 Posts: 184 Member
    sodakat wrote: »
    Hah, hah Sandy, I am excited that pretty soon I'll weigh LESS than my husband!

    I'd have to truly get all the way down to my goal to weigh less than my husband does most of the time. 6' tall 160-165 lb string bean. The dream of him carrying me will never happen again. :-/
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    Jewels211 wrote: »
    Snooozie wrote: »
    lmao Jewels... absolutely!! I also think its only fair we get to claim a few cals burned for every hot flash LOL!! :o

    Oh, amen! Generating that level of heat HAS to burn serious calories! The stupid things are coming more often for me suddenly & exercise is one of the triggers for me. I guess that might mean I burn even more calories afterward, right?

    Exercise triggers hot flashes for me too. I feel like I'm being punished for doing something good.

    I came across an article not long ago about a study finding that exercise diminished the frequency of hot flashes... for the women in the study, apparently... lucky them. My experience has been the opposite.
  • Notreadytoquit
    Notreadytoquit Posts: 234 Member
    @SbetaK I've been a member 10 months and only rerecently did I discover member blogs. I had no idea over 1,000 members contribute a WORLD of advice. On the website version of MFP go to the Community tab. On second bar is Blogs option. I've been exploring for a month (snowed in) and while a newbie to the world of blogs I find we have fascinating, experienced members willing to motivate and support. You can have your own blog if you like to write and have insight to share. That option is on your home page.

    I find website is better experience than apps which don't allow access to all features of site. Perhaps someone who uses apps can offer access advice for blogs.

  • Snooozie
    Snooozie Posts: 3,464 Member
    edited March 2015
    I love the app for logging my food; it's way easier than the website for me, BUT i prefer the website for everything else - I've learned so much from all the wunnerful peeps at MFP who are willing to lend a hand and share their knowledge (altho like everything else, I've had to do my own research and weed out what works for me and what i think is a crock of poop LOL.. when i first came to MFP, i was jumping from one "do this" to another "do this" every week; it was a little overwhelming to be honest and i was desperate to see something happen NOW... but of course flipping every few days to something else just had the opposite effect! It took me a couple of months if i recall til my head stopped spinning!
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    I honestly believe one of the biggest contributors to my success at losing the weight this time came from the support of my group on MFP.. being around other women my age who were all at various levels of loss (so i had peeps at the same stage i was, and most importantly, others who had succeeded and were already well on their way) helped me begin to really believe it really was possible for me to do it too.. and it was a "safe" place for me to be honest... no judgements, no criticisms, just support and encouragement. And after a lifetime of stupid diets and the years of yo-yoing we are all familiar with, i think that was actually the biggest achievement for me.. learning to believing in myself and my ability to lose the weight once and for all. And being talked off the ledge a few times by my peeps here helped too LOL.. s0801.gif

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  • sodakat
    sodakat Posts: 1,126 Member
    @Snooozie your points about your Group are what I like about this thread -- because it's in the Success sub-forum, we are talking about successful weight loss and changes. Too bad the OP left us, but I appreciate her starting the thread, looking for women 55-65 who are successful!

    I particularly appreciate the members on maintenance who have commented in this thread, showing us that the results can be long-lasting!!

    I am positive, in my personal situation, that logging everything I eat, and in particular accurate logging which includes using a food scale and finding the RIGHT entry in the database, is the biggest contributor to my weight loss. This would be closely followed by the hours of reading I've done in the forums and articles members link to, which has educated me about the science of weight loss.

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  • nandern
    nandern Posts: 5 Member
    Hope I can join in here. I'm 54 and need to lose about 70 pounds. I'm 5' 8" (or at least I used to be) :) I've started logging my food and weight daily. I know it's easy to pretend I don't weigh as much or eat as much as I do when I'm not logging.

    I've been successful in the past, but gradually the weight creeps back. Has anyone lost by just going down to their maintenance calories of the weight that they would like to be and then maintain from that? Apparently, I'll never be able to maintain without very close attention to details. I just hope I can get to that point again.

    I probably should mention I'm post-menopause, thyroid issues, and insulin dependent for the last 25 years. Yes, some strikes against weight loss but I know others have done it. It's just a bit tougher I suppose.

    Happy Saturday!

    Nancy
    Muskegon, MI
  • Snooozie
    Snooozie Posts: 3,464 Member
    edited March 2015
    Sodakat.. couldn't agree more with your thoughs, well said! :D

    Nanderm - welcome! I'm 53, post menopausal and Type 2 diabetes for a few years (the diagnosis of which brought me here initially). I hit my goal weight last year, but regained 18lbs when i hit maintenance; so i personally have no experience with going down to where i'll be at maintenance and staying at the cal level there now. sowwy!

    I know NOW however, that I will always have to continue being consistent with my calorie intake and "moving my parts" once I get back to my goal weight, to STAY healthy for the rest of my life.

    And yup... at this stage of our lives, there are a couple of more challenges that we all have in our lives; but everyone's got something; and you're absolutely right, we absolutely can accomplish whatever we want for ourselves! and sometimes just having somebody else who's been there, done that and got the t shirt to commiserate with, encourage or share a laugh along the way can help a lot.. and while I totally support an admire the young uns here in their goals, i don't have much in common with a 19 yr old trying to lose 10 lbs lol.. so finding others who are at a similar life stage really helped me along the way. You've already taken the hardest step - making the decision to get what you want for yourself, so well done you (and every one else who's done the same!) s0819.gif

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  • Notreadytoquit
    Notreadytoquit Posts: 234 Member
    edited March 2015
    Hope to launch my blog ... An Accidental Chicken Farmer or Real Life Fitness for those Dealing With Chronic Illness. Something like that. Have to master inserting photos first.

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    Some of our winter babies. Winter bounty of eggs ... free range & quail.

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    Thanks for letting me practice.

  • cathy120861
    cathy120861 Posts: 265 Member
    NotReady -- please practice on us as much as you would like to -- your pictures are spectacular.

    I spent the last four days with my children and new grandson. Now i am visiting my parents, who have not seen me since the beginning of January. They notice a real change in my appearance, which makes me feel terrific. I dont think i had realized how much my family worried about my health during the years when my weight was going up and up and up. I am still 25 pounds from my goal weight, but everyone sees that i am determined to take good care of myself and i feel like that is a burden lifted for my parents, my kids and my husband.

    I am so grateful that we are keeping up this discussion. It is a major support for me.
  • Skyweigh
    Skyweigh Posts: 113 Member
    I'm the OP, and I had deleted my original account for several reasons, one being that I am not able to keep up with the social networking aspects of MFP. This thread -- the way it has developed -- belongs more on the Motivation and Support page, IMO. I was specifically looking for women post-menopausal and in my age bracket (I am 60) who had successfully lost the weight they wished. That is why I had posted in Success Stories. I do love before and after pics and the stories that go with them. However, there did not seem to be any threads on the Success Stories page that I could aspire to identify with. Most are about younger women, or men -- and they're great to read about, too. Of course, there is overlap, but some of the challenges and the reasons for wanting to lose the excess weight are quite different for women like me. Anyway, you wonderful women have provided a wealth of material, much more all-encompassing that I would have thought. Kudos to you all for your continued efforts, and sharing your journeys here.
  • sodakat
    sodakat Posts: 1,126 Member
    @Skyweigh I think as the OP you can ask the Mods to move this to a different sub-forum if you wish. Our bookmarks won't get mucked up if you do this, btw, from what I recall when another thread was moved (I was still able to link to it using the bookmark).

    Also, so glad you are still here!!!

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  • anniebelle26
    anniebelle26 Posts: 43 Member
    Hi..My name is Annie and Im 56. Ive lost 50 lbs so far and am attempting to lose another 50 to get to my goal weight. Can I join this group!? Everyone sounds soo nice on here. :D
  • snowflake930
    snowflake930 Posts: 2,188 Member
    @Skyweigh I had to delete my original account in June 2014 for several reasons also. Yesterday (3/12/15) was my 3 year anniversary on MFP. I have lost over half of my bodyweight (160+ pounds), and have been on maintenance for a little over 16 months. I am 63 and am in better shape than I have been since I was in my 20's. The success stories here are what kept me going. For me, it is sometimes hard to relate to the younger people here, but I always read the success story topics, they are so inspirational and motivate me to keep focused.

    I am not a big contributor to this topic, but I do have it bookmarked and read all of the comments. It is important to me to be able to relate to my peers. Sometimes, there is more understanding from someone who has been there.

    Continued success to everyone.
  • Skyweigh
    Skyweigh Posts: 113 Member
    edited March 2015
    @sodakat ---Thanks for pointing that out, but I don't wish to move it --- who am I to interfere with success? Glad to be back, too, thank you.


    Snowflake: Now, that's what I'm talkin' bout! Thank you so much for this post.
    @Skyweigh I had to delete my original account in June 2014 for several reasons also. Yesterday (3/12/15) was my 3 year anniversary on MFP. I have lost over half of my bodyweight (160+ pounds), and have been on maintenance for a little over 16 months. I am 63 and am in better shape than I have been since I was in my 20's. The success stories here are what kept me going. For me, it is sometimes hard to relate to the younger people here, but I always read the success story topics, they are so inspirational and motivate me to keep focused.

    I am not a big contributor to this topic, but I do have it bookmarked and read all of the comments. It is important to me to be able to relate to my peers. Sometimes, there is more understanding from someone who has been there.

    Continued success to everyone.

    Annie -- So glad to hear about the 50 lbs, and this is not a group where you need any kind of permission at all. Glad to "meet" you.
  • Notreadytoquit
    Notreadytoquit Posts: 234 Member
    @‌ Skyweigh

    You have facilitated several fulfilling friendships for me with this thread ... so thanks.
  • cathy120861
    cathy120861 Posts: 265 Member
    I have been peeking at this discussion for the last few days, unsure of whether to post or not. i believe that i am one of hte people who inadvertently moved this discussion from its intended purpose. I am "only" 53, am peri (not post) and am in the process of losing weight, so i guess not a success story in that way that phrase was originally intended.

    selfishly, though, this forum has been a huge support and inspiration to me. this past friday i did official measurements for the first time since Jan 5, and the results were thrilling. I have lost 5.5 inches from my waist, 4.7 from my hips and proportionate amounts from every place else. Since i first started focusing on my health, back at the end of last may, i have lost 39.5 pounds. This despite my COPD and messed up right calf.

    I really wanted to tell you guys how well things are going -- there are not many places that i can go to brag, and this was one of them. I am so grateful, Skyweigh, that you started this forum. But i am also very sad that it has not turned out to be the sort of support group for which you were looking.

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