girls who like bad boys.

minmatt
minmatt Posts: 62
edited September 27 in Chit-Chat
Why do we like bad boys? Do we like the sweet, cute boy down the street that would do anything for us? No. We like the boy that has the tattoos, a motocycle, and checks out other girls. He doesn’t call for a week, but then when he does… woah, that’s all we need, and we drop the nice, clean-cut boy who's waiting on you hand and foot. You know the one I’m talking about. The one that you have a hot, sexy 3 month, rendezvous with and then all of a sudden he’s dating his ex-girlfriend stripper? Maybe it’s all about attraction. Why cant we be attracted to the nice guy who’s good for us?

No, seriously I want an answer, not a rhetorical question.
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  • koosdel
    koosdel Posts: 3,317 Member
    A lot of reasons. He makes you feel special, at first..

    Then he starts treating you the same way he treats everyone else, but your stuck with the special feeling you once had.
  • b00b0084
    b00b0084 Posts: 729 Member
    I have gotten to the point where I dont want the bad boy,. I am looking for the good guy. I want the nice clean cut guy.
  • fatboypup
    fatboypup Posts: 1,873 Member
    <rubs the sleep out of his eyes> I thought it said girls who like fat boys
  • BamBam1113
    BamBam1113 Posts: 542 Member
    I love girls like you...lol It has always given me a chance! lmao Thank God i dumped all those thousands of dollars into tattoos!!!
  • snowflakelaia
    snowflakelaia Posts: 214
    I know the combination of the bad boy with the "would do everything for you", cute good boy.
  • n0pants3ver
    n0pants3ver Posts: 175
    I have never liked the bad boys. I like the sweet caring, charming gentlemen :] & thats what I have! We've been dating 7 months today
  • Tomhusker
    Tomhusker Posts: 346 Member
    <rubs the sleep out of his eyes> I thought it said girls who like fat boys
    :laugh:
  • running_mom
    running_mom Posts: 204 Member
    Because when you get a bad boy to actually commit it's a total high. Even though it probably destroys us mentally and emotionally it gives us an ego boost. We finally got him to settle down.
  • wsheaf82
    wsheaf82 Posts: 248 Member
    Cause your stupid. :wink:

    Women want to be that special woman that was able to tame the bad guy. That bad guy that would go from woman to woman and not feel a thing of for any of them but all of sudden can't keep their minds of you. Then when it doesn't work that way it frustrates you into what is wrong with you that he can't stop thinking of you when all you want to do is jump his bones as soon as he shows the slightest hint of interest. When it does work, that man is now broken and no longer out of your league.

    Stupidity. :drinker:

    I'm just talking out my rear. :drinker:
  • UpEarly
    UpEarly Posts: 2,555 Member
    I liked bad boys in high school and college, but when I was 22 I started dating a 'nice boy'. I ended up sticking with him, marrying him and living blissfully the last 14 years of marriage together.

    Makes me wonder what I ever saw in the bad boys. :-)
  • Jade_Butterfly
    Jade_Butterfly Posts: 2,963 Member
    <rubs the sleep out of his eyes> I thought it said girls who like fat boys

    LMTO. . . . . In that case we should have a thread. Men who like women with a BOOOOOOOTTTTTIIIIIEEE~~~~~~ Bootilicious baby~ lol:laugh:
  • minmatt
    minmatt Posts: 62
    Cause your stupid. :wink:

    Women want to be that special woman that was able to tame the bad guy. That bad guy that would go from woman to woman and not feel a thing of for any of them but all of sudden can't keep their minds of you. Then when it doesn't work that way it frustrates you into what is wrong with you that he can't stop thinking of you when all you want to do is jump his bones as soon as he shows the slightest hint of interest. When it does work, that man is now broken and no longer out of your league.

    Stupidity. :drinker:

    I'm just talking out my rear. :drinker:

    Im well aware that this is stupidity on my part. lol, **** happens. :)
  • Jade_Butterfly
    Jade_Butterfly Posts: 2,963 Member
    I have never liked the bad boys. I like the sweet caring, charming gentlemen :] & thats what I have! We've been dating 7 months today


    Right on girl. That so rocks!
  • T_R_A_V
    T_R_A_V Posts: 1,629 Member
    cause nobody wants a pushover....you need a challenge
  • wsheaf82
    wsheaf82 Posts: 248 Member
    Cause your stupid. :wink:

    Women want to be that special woman that was able to tame the bad guy. That bad guy that would go from woman to woman and not feel a thing of for any of them but all of sudden can't keep their minds of you. Then when it doesn't work that way it frustrates you into what is wrong with you that he can't stop thinking of you when all you want to do is jump his bones as soon as he shows the slightest hint of interest. When it does work, that man is now broken and no longer out of your league.

    Stupidity. :drinker:

    I'm just talking out my rear. :drinker:

    Im well aware that this is stupidity on my part. lol, **** happens. :)

    The stupid part was more harmless poking fun of the topic then generally saying your stupid. :smile:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Never understood it either as being a nice guy has often not seemed to do me any good.
    Will never change and it does seem sad that so many ladies are attracted to what at first is fun and exciting but almost always is a hurtful disaster.
  • sillygoose1977
    sillygoose1977 Posts: 2,151 Member
    You like them because they are a challenge. You'll grow out of it when you are ready for someone to actually care about you.

    Nice guys are the best.
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    I don't like bad boys. I can't stand arrogant men.
  • Buca412
    Buca412 Posts: 301 Member
    :tongue:
  • RobertaG
    RobertaG Posts: 205 Member
    This isn't answering your question but I don't really like punk *kitten* jerks . I rather have a nice respectful understanding guy . I'm actually really good at identifying the "players" from the "good" guys . Girl , step away from the bad guys . As soon as their initial mystery / thrill wears off , they just eff with your mind . X
  • SabrinaJL
    SabrinaJL Posts: 1,579 Member
    Do we like the sweet, cute boy down the street that would do anything for us?

    Yes. I've always liked nice guys who treat me the way I want to be treated. I found one like that when I was 15 and have been with him ever since.
  • cjjones007
    cjjones007 Posts: 602
    I'm interested in the answer too! LOL as the quintessential "Nice Guy" I often wonder why the bad boy gets the proverbial girl as well - so I think I'll have to monitor this post to find out!
  • JenniferH81
    JenniferH81 Posts: 285 Member
    I like the guy that LOOKS like a bad boy, but secretly is a nice guy. <3
  • streko3a
    streko3a Posts: 16 Member
    Yep, forbidden fruit situation. I am exactly the same. There should be a way to twist your mind and change that, autosuggestion or other psychological tricks?
  • RoadDog
    RoadDog Posts: 2,946 Member
    When you figure it out, let me know. I've loved more than one woman, who dumped me for some guy that treated her like *kitten*. Never understood it. Must be a self-esteem problem.

    It's one of the reasons I treat my wife and daughters with such deference. I want my girls to see it, recognise it and expect it from the guys that they date.

    If you date my daughter, get used to opening her car door, coming to my house to ask my permission. Just generally treating them as if they are special, because they are. If a boy needs help making these choices, I am there to guide them, if neccessary. Courtesy 101.
  • minmatt
    minmatt Posts: 62
    Well, heeeelllloooo Minmatt! :bigsmile:

    bahaha, hi!
  • markomark
    markomark Posts: 22
    Wow...I have a motorcycle and several tattoos, I am also fiercely loyal have morals so I am not sure the choice of vehicle and tattoos necessarily correlates with character!

    Just had to throw my thought in.....

    ***grovels, places jacket over puddle and holds the door for ladies on the way out***

    :)
  • Chantelle160
    Chantelle160 Posts: 127
    Once you go through a few bad boys, it get exhausting. lol. You will eventually realize the nice guys are way better. Sure no tattoos or motor bike. But you dont get a broken heart either.
  • brewingaz
    brewingaz Posts: 1,136 Member
    HA HA I was always in the "friend zone" in high school and college because I was nice. Totally sucked.
  • littlemissanguissette
    littlemissanguissette Posts: 248 Member
    I am totally a bad boy girl. I just can't help it...there is something about them that draws me to them. Usually it's because they throw off the vibe of being dominate and aggressive, which I absolutely love because I am pretty domineering and I need someone to be able to push that down. [I am fiesty, I like to fight back!] :devil:

    However, they usually end up just using me and hurting me in the end, because well....they're bad boys. :( It's an evil cycle I am trying to break. I am starting to realize that just because someone doesn't look like "my" type, they very well may be if I get to know them...I don't have to go off first impressions. [I drool over tattoos, piercings, muscles, etc] I also am very, very drawn to military men because my ex-husband is a marine, and they're just HOT.

    My therapist says I need a good kick in the butt. :laugh:
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