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    girls who like bad boys.

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      Need to learn to ride a motorcycle.

      Oh no, you really are a nice guy and that's a VERY GOOD THING.
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      Because I want a man who acts like more of a man than me...not even lyin
    • Posts: 9,307 Member
      We'll join the Black Widows Carl.

      Sha na na na na na....

      :laugh:

      Our own version of wildhogsos.jpg

      :laugh:
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      Oh no, you really are a nice guy and that's a VERY GOOD THING.

      :smokin: :flowerforyou:
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      I like the guy that LOOKS like a bad boy, but secretly is a nice guy. <3



      i so agree with this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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      carl01.......yes a motorcycle rocks!!!!! i ride bike myself!!!
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      carl01.......yes a motorcycle rocks!!!!! i ride bike myself!!!

      Will a tractor work? :tongue:
    • Posts: 142
      I don't like bad boys. I've always been into "nerdy" nice guys. My b/f is the sweetest, nicest, NON bad boy.
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      Why are motorcycles associated with bad boys? I have been riding since I was 14 years old. I have never been confused for a bad boy. :) LOL.
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      Our own version of wildhogsos.jpg

      :laugh:

      Why do I picture you two on Knight Rider Big Wheels?
    • Posts: 90
      carl01.......i prefer bike, but thats cool too......faster speeds on bike, but then again grass surfing is a load of fun also!!!!!!
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      I like the guy that LOOKS like a bad boy, but secretly is a nice guy. <3

      :happy:
      that is the one that we all want!!
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      Their girlfriends probably appreciate that....

      .... just sayin'

      ;)


      LMFAO!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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      This is just my observations so take it with a grain of salt.

      I've experienced and witnessed this stage of dating that seems to take place mostly in the late teens early 20s crowd. In the extreme cases of the abusive knucklehead that everyone keeps descibing, the only women attracted to him are the disturbed and dysfunctional. Those women usually have too many issues to be taken seriously.

      My observation is that the "norm" is not nearly as dramatic, "bad boys" are typically more fun guys. Their first priority is to have fun and enjoy themselves. Its pretty easy to see why a woman would like them. The down side is that a personality like that is also one that shirks anything that is not "fun" i.e. responsible. The "nice guy" is usually just the opposite, he's responsible, level headed, and relaible. Unfortunatly, to your average 22 yo girl that is certainly not fun or exciting; although those are the traits that you want in your corner in the long run.

      Women usually outgrow their badboy phase only to replace it with baby-rabies or peer pressure to be married. For that reason I would warn my son about any woman that suddenly "woke up" and decided that she's outgrown bad boys out of concern that her motives aren't totally sincere.
    • Posts: 3,638 Member
      I like the guy that LOOKS like a bad boy, but secretly is a nice guy. <3

      that like a guy saying he wants an angel in the living room and a demon in the bedroom. And then being disappointed to find a mere mortal in the morning.

      (I stole that line from the movie Valmont)
    • Posts: 522 Member
      Because I want a man who acts like more of a man than me...not even lyin

      amen to that!
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      Oh sorry. Didn't mean to offend. Looking at your avatar pic you don't look like the type I am talking about. Unless you walk around in leathers and have bad skull pictures tattooed all over your back.
      And smoke. Smoking is a BIG turn off.

      No offense taken I am big and bald I have some tattoos no skulls and I don't smoke....me in leathers ha ha ha ha ha never
    • Posts: 3,278 Member
      Why do we like bad boys? Do we like the sweet, cute boy down the street that would do anything for us? No. We like the boy that has the tattoos, a motocycle, and checks out other girls. He doesn’t call for a week, but then when he does… woah, that’s all we need, and we drop the nice, clean-cut boy who's waiting on you hand and foot. You know the one I’m talking about. The one that you have a hot, sexy 3 month, rendezvous with and then all of a sudden he’s dating his ex-girlfriend stripper? Maybe it’s all about attraction. Why cant we be attracted to the nice guy who’s good for us?

      No, seriously I want an answer, not a rhetorical question.

      oh boy i wish i knew! i'll read the comments later cuz i would LOVE to know the answer to that question. UGH!
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      LOL i think you're RIGHT ACTUALLY! i just wasted 10 months trying to do exactly what u just said. glad to know i'm not the only stupid one. lol.
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      It pretty much has been proven that the womens subconcsious wants a Alpha male, a strong confident man, it has nothing really to do with changing the man as much as it does wanting a man that can be strong and protective, confident, a provider and a nurturer as well as a father that can provide you with children. Only in the last 30-40 years has the psychology shifted toward the idea of "changing or conquering the male and it's Alpha male ego or self worth"

      I said that as well, but as a woman and the reason I made the decisions I made in the past definitely had to do with my own ego. I thought I could be the one to change them. Definitely does not work =) and this particular 'bad boy' I am referring too- wasn't exactly bad in looks- it was his personality. In fact he was really skinny and in that sense was not biologically very masculine- so it definitely wasn't that. It was his complete jerk-off personality that truly swept me off my feet- LOL.
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      That is so UNTRUE. That is like say all women are the same; gold digging, cheating, *****y "c" words. I don't believe that for one second as there are good woman and good men out there. It is too bad that you did not find this but they are out there and there are plenty of them.

      Yeah harsh words! My boyfriend is a wonderful man, and I have met other wonderful men. It sucks to have such a jaded perspective. Sorry you have been hurt in the past, but try to not be so bitter and you'd see nice guys everywhere.
    • Posts: 78
      QUOTED BY milehighcritic:

      Why are motorcycles associated with bad boys? I have been riding since I was 14 years old. I have never been confused for a bad boy. :) LOL.

      I agree, why? And what is considered a bad boy motorcycle? Is it a Harley? Can other manufacturers like Honda, Suzuki, Yamaha, etc. be included in this? Is it just cruisers or can sport bikes be considered a bad boy bike? I ride a 2007 Yamaha YZF-R6; is that bad boy enough for the girls? LOL
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      Personally, all bikes are fine with me. I grew up with a father who restores motorcycles and even has rare ones that museums beg him for. I hate it when some refers him/herself as a biker but it's just harleys.....a true "biker" sees beauty in all bikes. JMHO
    • Posts: 74
      naughtyl not bad......and image of this can be best, gentlemen are necessary for long life
    • Posts: 177
      back in my single days..I like bad boys and I would challenge them, cause watching a bad boy chase after a girl is kinda funny..:laugh: throws off there whole world when a girl doesnt call them or pay attention to them..make the guy want the girl more :bigsmile:
    • Posts: 9,834 Member
      Same question as decu68. Why is it only Harley's get the "bad guy" stigma? I've got a Jap sportsbike that's pretty mean and one tattoo and I don't think I fit the "bad boy" image at all haha. Some people just like to actually turn on their bikes as well :P

      Oh and I think it works both ways too. Sometimes guys get attracted to the bad girls even when they know it's not the best in the long run. Some guys will just go with it though?
    • Posts: 770 Member
      according to the wife:

      she never wanted a bad boy, but didnt want a "super nice cute guy, who'll do anything anytime" kinda boy either...

      wound up with me...says i fall inbetween...hahahha. for the ultimate ego boost, she told me her friends all considered me to be a "real man"...lol. and they wished they could find someone like that...someone in between. not a bad guy, but not too soft either :)

      Man look at that post haha.

      Wife approves of it :p
    • Posts: 614 Member
      according to the wife:

      she never wanted a bad boy, but didnt want a "super nice cute guy, who'll do anything anytime" kinda boy either...

      wound up with me...says i fall inbetween...hahahha. for the ultimate ego boost, she told me her friends all considered me to be a "real man"...lol. and they wished they could find someone like that...someone in between. not a bad guy, but not too soft either :)

      Man look at that post haha.

      Wife approves of it :p

      Yep that is what we want. Masculine energy to balance out our feminine energy. At least generally speaking. Push overs are not at all sexy, but neither are extremely controlling. Balance is most desirable :)
    • Posts: 150
      Cause nice guys are so booooooooooooooooring

      Why do we like bad boys? Do we like the sweet, cute boy down the street that would do anything for us? No. We like the boy that has the tattoos, a motocycle, and checks out other girls. He doesn’t call for a week, but then when he does… woah, that’s all we need, and we drop the nice, clean-cut boy who's waiting on you hand and foot. You know the one I’m talking about. The one that you have a hot, sexy 3 month, rendezvous with and then all of a sudden he’s dating his ex-girlfriend stripper? Maybe it’s all about attraction. Why cant we be attracted to the nice guy who’s good for us?

      No, seriously I want an answer, not a rhetorical question.
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