Do u like getting flirted with?
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Only if it is someone I am mutually interested in...otherwise no. But I'm married so that's out of the question now, I just feel awkward if someone tries to now.0
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jennismagic wrote: »If the person is attractive and has a good personality, then I'm generally okay with it. Otherwise, it's a complete waste of my time, and depending on the situation, am capslock pissed off that it even happened.
I'm at that point in my weight loss that old men and sleaze bags are taking notice of me. They seem to think, "Oh, hey, that girl is big, but she's shapely, and probably has LOADS of self-esteem issues. Easy prey."
What they don't realize is that 1. I prefer to be alone and not date anyone; 2. am only attracted to a certain type of man; and 3. am intelligent and mature enough to know what they're up to.
My grandmother didn't raise no fool. Maybe there are loads of girls who just give it away to unworthy men, but I'm not one of them.
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Yes! What I don't understand - why do men flirt and then not follow through with asking for a date. A gentleman, friend flirted hot & heavy for an extended period of time then didn't ask me out. We are both single, age compatible and have similar interests. When he didn't ask, I shifted gears and decided not to waste my time. He is still a good friend, but he will stay in the friend zone. My position, step up or step off.0
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My grandmother didn't raise no fool. Maybe there are loads of girls who just give it away to unworthy men, but I'm not one of them.
Hahahaha.......
As Mama used to say.... With one of these I can have as many of "those" as I want.
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= Maybe there are loads of girls who just give it away to unworthy men, but I'm not one of them.[/quote]
I didn't know flirting = giving anything away.... I thought it was just fun.0 -
Personally, I love flirting, both giving and receiving.0
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MonkeyMel21 wrote: »[quote==
= Maybe there are loads of girls who just give it away to unworthy men, but I'm not one of them.
I didn't know flirting = giving anything away.... I thought it was just fun. [/quote]
Exactly. I think people confuse flirting with something else. It can be totally innocent and fun.0 -
Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.
You gals are a lot more subtle (to us) than you probably think you are. As a general rule, I think most guys PERCEIVE the female sex as being "nicer"....so we aren't sure whether to interpret your continued conversation with us as you just being generally friendly or you being interested.
So ladies...if you're trying to tell us "I'm interested"..be kind of obvious.
And to answer the OP...even if you're happily married, I think it's always an ego boost to know to know that there's more than one person on the planet that finds you attractive.0 -
I think I must be one of those dense guys who completely misses all of the signals. A friend asked me if I had gotten a ladies number the other night as I was talking to her for a ages. When I said no he told me she was pretty much full on flirting with me while I just thought she was being friendly. When will I ever learn :-)
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Yeah why not? I think that's part of MFP and hidden benefits. Keeps me motivated. Especially on days when you don't feel so hot.0
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sure flirting is fun0
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Charlie would love to flirt with you0
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Ehhh
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GBrady43068 wrote: »Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.
You gals are a lot more subtle (to us) than you probably think you are. As a general rule, I think most guys PERCEIVE the female sex as being "nicer"....so we aren't sure whether to interpret your continued conversation with us as you just being generally friendly or you being interested.
So ladies...if you're trying to tell us "I'm interested"..be kind of obvious.
And to answer the OP...even if you're happily married, I think it's always an ego boost to know to know that there's more than one person on the planet that finds you attractive.
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flirt with people on this website? no,no thank you
flirt with people i find hot and interesting irl? yes sure if i feel like it0 -
Yes! What I don't understand - why do men flirt and then not follow through with asking for a date. A gentleman, friend flirted hot & heavy for an extended period of time then didn't ask me out. We are both single, age compatible and have similar interests. When he didn't ask, I shifted gears and decided not to waste my time. He is still a good friend, but he will stay in the friend zone. My position, step up or step off.
Not to pick on you, but this is something that drives me a little nutty. Why the heck didn't YOU just ask him out if you were interested? He likely could have felt the same... Just sayin'.
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It hasn't happened in so long, I don't even know what it would be like. I'm not sure I could identify the activity if it were happening to me. When I was much younger, my wife said I was oblivious to it. Maybe she was just being kind to me.0
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Who doesn't - only dead people lol0
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