Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))
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girldownsouth wrote: »
This is probably part of the reason he's spoiling you so much, makes him appreciate what he now has with you.
Though that's not to say even if he's not angling for it you shouldn't show your own appreciation...
Have a great trip!
I plan on it.
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Happy birthday @kelly_c_77 ! I hope you get your dessert and everything else you want today. Thanks for being you, and I hope you have a wonderful day. Congrats on your 1 year MFPversary too.
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Susieq_1994 wrote: »
He must be figuring out whether it's food or not. That sounds adorable! When Spikey figured out what fingers were, he was always extremely gentle when he would take food from my hands with his teeth. 
So I don't think all hamsters are bitey; his vet did nickname him "bitey Spikey" though, because he kept trying to bite her--he didn't like being examined at all!
I was very careful about hand-raising Spikey by the book--I did tons and tons of research. Gave him his space, didn't force him out of his hidey-holes or nest, started out stroking him with a toothbrush, then moved on to one finger, then started to handle him when he wasn't scared and gave him bits of food to tempt him.
The first bite was because I got over-excited when I first brought him home and poked my finger into his little house. Then he was all like "GET OUT OF HERE*CHOMP*" 
Haha awh bless him, I'd probably get pretty grumpy too if a stranger poked their hand into my home though haha.
Confession; I bought pop tarts today, and am seriously considering having one. My SO and I are in a bit of a predicament, as he is super skinny and doesn't eat nearly enough calories (works full time, doesnt get any time to eat while on shift, and burns a ton of calories as he's on his feet all day- he's a chef) and I'm trying to lose weight. Trying to balance this when we live together is pretty tricky, so we've come up with the approach that I'm going to keep cooking my 'healthy' dinners but sub in some less-healthy stuff on his/give him bigger portions.
Anyway, the point is this now means we have a TON of very sugary and/or tempting snacks in the house. Oh dear...0 -
I am planning on having Arby's for dinner tonight (we'll see) and if I do, even if I don't get a DP, I will be 53 calories over my goal for today and it will be the first time in a while, I've been over, so I'm kind of bummed, especially since I was hoping to have another serving of gelato tonight. It wouldn't be that big of a deal if I could work out, but my leg is still jacked up, so I can't do anything really strenuous.
I probably won't be on here much today because I have a lot of stuff to get done before I leave work, but I just wanted to tell you all that I really appreciate what we have here. Even though I've never met any of you, and some of you live on different continents, I feel that we're close friends and have been for a long time. You all make me want to be a better person and I appreciate all your support, and compliments more than you could ever know. I love you guys!0 -
Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday to you. Happy birday dear kelly_c_77, Happy birthday to you.
Yes! Happy Birthday @kelly_c_77!!!! Hope you have a super great day!!!0 -
Happy birthday @kelly_c_77 ! I hope you get your dessert and everything else you want today. Thanks for being you, and I hope you have a wonderful day. Congrats on your 1 year MFPversary too.
Co-signing on this ^^^. Congrats and happy bday.0 -
Thanks. When I was talking to Mr. Mo, he said that the way she's acting right now reminds him of the way her mom acted when they were together. Thanks for the hugs.
That really stinks! What are you going to do with the cat while you're gone?0 -
I am planning on having Arby's for dinner tonight (we'll see) and if I do, even if I don't get a DP, I will be 53 calories over my goal for today and it will be the first time in a while, I've been over, so I'm kind of bummed, especially since I was hoping to have another serving of gelato tonight. It wouldn't be that big of a deal if I could work out, but my leg is still jacked up, so I can't do anything really strenuous.
I probably won't be on here much today because I have a lot of stuff to get done before I leave work, but I just wanted to tell you all that I really appreciate what we have here. Even though I've never met any of you, and some of you live on different continents, I feel that we're close friends and have been for a long time. You all make me want to be a better person and I appreciate all your support, and compliments more than you could ever know. I love you guys!
Likewise!
Hope your vacation is super awesome (and of course it will be!), but I'm sorry that your leg is still bothering you... I figured it would have healed in plenty of time. If it's still bad when you get back home, see a doctor... I won't tell you the gruesome "woman I know with similar injury" story now.0 -
Me neither. And while the regulars most likely have it bookmarked and can always find it, we won't be getting any more newbies, which is sad. There are a lot of former newbies who have stuck around to become valued members of the "community".
@Lois_1989 the 5:2 cookbooks I was referring to are by CookNation, and the titles seem to start with "The Skinny...." plus a reference to either 5:2 or low calorie value.
And forgot to mention my other 500 day staple: a tin of tuna or salmon. They run around 120 cals with 26 grams protein. I'll throw in a ton of chopped veggies, mix it all up with a drizzle of salad dressing, and there's dinner. (have I mentioned that I HATE all aspects of food preparation? lol)
I wish I liked tuna and salmon cans but I must be really desperate to have some, lol.
I've heard of breakfast for dinner, but dinner for breakfast? lol
I do it a lot... lol.
So it's 10.30am and I'm at goal already. I was up at 5am with cramps and had that big breakfast, and I was starving by 10am. I did resist the baked goods at the farm market... then stopped at a bakery to get some bread and my kids asked for cupcakes and I couldn't resist an almond croissant... then my daughter didn't like her cupcake (I don't know why. It was delicious). And I was still hungry so I had a slice of bread with a bit of butter and a big omelette.
Crazy thing? I'm still not full. Ridiculous. I'm getting an apple... I guess it's my normal ovulation hungry day.0 -
My daughter is doing well overall. She is with her dad tonight. She called me, "mom, you were right, I started watching TV and I ate two waffles after dinner. I feel like a walrus." I talked her down and left her feeling better. We have noticed that TV seems to be an eating trigger with her so she took netflix off her phone (which is where she was watching so much, while eating.) She agreed that we'd go for a jog in the morning before work so she didn't have to stress over those calories. I added up what she ate today in my head and I think even with those calories she was at about 1300-1600 calories. That is about right for her especially as we didn't work out today. I told her that she may have eaten too much at one time and for the wrong reasons but that she didn't overeat today. She felt better about that too.
At work today, my daughter looked me over- daughter "Mom, I like those jeans do you think they come in my size?" Me "Yes, we can go look for them this weekend, I'd like another pair too." (Note - daughter is 1 inch taller and about 5 - 6 pounds lighter than me, she's one jean size smaller and I have more butt and hip, but I didn't want to point that out to her because although she does not think I need to lose weight she struggles with thinking she is fat and her logic seems to be that if I'm ok and she's wearing a smaller size than me then it is easier for her to accept herself.) The NSV was teen daughter liked the jeans I bought in Macy's petite section - Levi's.
Another side note - the ONLY person she judges for anything is herself, she has friends she adores of all shapes, sizes, genders, colors, and orientations. I am working on her not talking so negatively about herself. It is slow going.
Wow!! I think you are an amazing mom. I have a daughter and while I hope and pray that her life is perfect, I know it won't be and when she has trouble, I truly hope I can be half as supportive and understanding as you are for yours.0 -
@MoHousdon - have a super great vacation! We'll miss you while you are away. And we love you too!
Hope your leg gets better.0 -
I am planning on having Arby's for dinner tonight (we'll see) and if I do, even if I don't get a DP, I will be 53 calories over my goal for today and it will be the first time in a while, I've been over, so I'm kind of bummed, especially since I was hoping to have another serving of gelato tonight. It wouldn't be that big of a deal if I could work out, but my leg is still jacked up, so I can't do anything really strenuous.
I probably won't be on here much today because I have a lot of stuff to get done before I leave work, but I just wanted to tell you all that I really appreciate what we have here. Even though I've never met any of you, and some of you live on different continents, I feel that we're close friends and have been for a long time. You all make me want to be a better person and I appreciate all your support, and compliments more than you could ever know. I love you guys!
You're super great! I know you are going to have so much fun! We'll miss you while you're gone!
Helpful hint...don't try to "catch up", just jump back in! Seems like everyone that goes away for a week, tries to get caught back up and it never works so they get frustrated and stop posting. Almost happened to me when I was gone for two days and the thread was extra busy, so I decided that next time I'll just jump back in.0 -
I have done away with all prescription medication for my MS (except for a daily shot that is necessary). I absolutely LOVE having 1-2 ales before bed,,and not the light kind!lol the calorie full dark brown beer! I sip warm beer for hours before bed,,after dinner.
I don't have any food vices,,just this! I allot the extra caloric intake to be able to have it.0 -
Wow!! I think you are an amazing mom. I have a daughter and while I hope and pray that her life is perfect, I know it won't be and when she has trouble, I truly hope I can be half as supportive and understanding as you are for yours.
Aww thanks. I have a horrible relationship with my mom so I try to give my daughter what she needs. She's a good almost adult teen.0 -
kellienw335 wrote: »
You're super great! I know you are going to have so much fun! We'll miss you while you're gone!
Helpful hint...don't try to "catch up", just jump back in! Seems like everyone that goes away for a week, tries to get caught back up and it never works so they get frustrated and stop posting. Almost happened to me when I was gone for two days and the thread was extra busy, so I decided that next time I'll just jump back in.
Yes, have a great vacation!!!!!!!!!!!0 -
My kitchen is getting sealed off this afternoon as we're doing some messy, destructive work tomorrow. My confession: I'm having noodles for tea as they involve minimal implements, and the is clearly healthier and cheaper than takeaway fish and chips, so is in this context a good dietary choice. That's my reasoning and I'm sticking to it!0
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I am planning on having Arby's for dinner tonight (we'll see) and if I do, even if I don't get a DP, I will be 53 calories over my goal for today and it will be the first time in a while, I've been over, so I'm kind of bummed, especially since I was hoping to have another serving of gelato tonight. It wouldn't be that big of a deal if I could work out, but my leg is still jacked up, so I can't do anything really strenuous.
I probably won't be on here much today because I have a lot of stuff to get done before I leave work, but I just wanted to tell you all that I really appreciate what we have here. Even though I've never met any of you, and some of you live on different continents, I feel that we're close friends and have been for a long time. You all make me want to be a better person and I appreciate all your support, and compliments more than you could ever know. I love you guys!
Awww
<--- Happy tears. That was really nice! I feel the same way about everyone here too! Love for all! 0 -
Yes ma'am! We are twins. I do drink, but I'm very careful at weddings. Nothing like being unsteady on my high heels to completely ruin a whole look! Plus, if I am the designated driver I have more say over how long we stay.
All of this! Having people look at me and making conversation with people I don't know well, wedding food, etc etc...they're such terrible events for me. I'm also horrified by the expense and the wastefulness. The idea of spending $30,000 on one party makes me die a little inside. I just...you could do so much with that money! I don't care if that's judge-y (as it's not directed towards anyone in this thread...) I just don't get it.
And re: cake...you're all wonderful people and all, but wedding cake is definitely not sufficient compensation for having to attend an entire wedding reception, haha.
Most of the time it's not even good cake, just sickly sweet and covered in stale fondant. Such a sad dessert.
I do like the "dessert table" trend, though...but still. Definitely doesn't soothe my wedding pain.0 -
Susieq_1994 wrote: »@Lois_1989 I have a ton of recipes that come in at 350 calories and under that can be modified to be less, if you're interested. Off the top of my head, here's a short list:
- Half a serving of my cauliflower mixed fried "rice" - 190 calories, quite a large serving of food, very filling.
- Chicken hummus wrap - 340 calories, the tortilla wrap can be replaced with a low-carb wrap at only 60 calories apiece to bring it down to 270ish calories.
- Chicken pizza wrap - 350ish calories, you can replace the wrap and reduce the cheese or even use a lower-fat cheese.
- White beans in tomato sauce with turkey franks - 270 calories per serving, very filling
- Chickpea burgers in a 120 cal burger bun - 280 calories, also very filling--for less calories, the patty can be eaten over salad or in sandwich thins.
- Chili wrap - ~300 calories, depending on how much chili you put in. I stuff it with lettuce as well, to make it bigger. Again, calories can be reduced with a low-carb wrap.
Send me a private message if you want the recipes for any of them. As you can tell, I kind of eat a lot of sandwiches.
Awww thank you @Susieq_1994 ! I'm actually the opposite. I think after having sandwiches for every lunch growing up through school I kinda don't like them anymore. I avoid bread more than anything (I realise you have wraps in your receipes) Do you think any of them will go as a salad instead?0 -
All of this! Having people look at me and making conversation with people I don't know well, wedding food, etc etc...they're such terrible events for me. I'm also horrified by the expense and the wastefulness. The idea of spending $30,000 on one party makes me die a little inside. I just...you could do so much with that money! I don't care if that's judge-y (as it's not directed towards anyone in this thread...) I just don't get it.
And re: cake...you're all wonderful people and all, but wedding cake is definitely not sufficient compensation for having to attend an entire wedding reception, haha.
Most of the time it's not even good cake, just sickly sweet and covered in stale fondant. Such a sad dessert.
I do like the "dessert table" trend, though...but still. Definitely doesn't soothe my wedding pain.
Usually the free bar soothes my wedding pain!! 0 -
@MoHousdon sorry to hear about your step daughter I feel so bad for you and Mr. Mo BUT know you have an amazing trip coming up to celebrate your relationship woo hoo!!! Have a great time, relax, and just enjoy one another (and delicious food) We'll be waiting for you to get back and hear all the fun details!! Safe travels! 0
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All of this! Having people look at me and making conversation with people I don't know well, wedding food, etc etc...they're such terrible events for me. I'm also horrified by the expense and the wastefulness. The idea of spending $30,000 on one party makes me die a little inside. I just...you could do so much with that money! I don't care if that's judge-y (as it's not directed towards anyone in this thread...) I just don't get it.
And re: cake...you're all wonderful people and all, but wedding cake is definitely not sufficient compensation for having to attend an entire wedding reception, haha.
Most of the time it's not even good cake, just sickly sweet and covered in stale fondant. Such a sad dessert.
I do like the "dessert table" trend, though...but still. Definitely doesn't soothe my wedding pain.
You know, come to think of it, weddings are pretty tedious. The food can be meh. I hate buffets and I've been to a lot of weddings that have buffets. The cake usually isn't that good. And weddings are outrageously expensive. But...the dancing!! Sorry but I love the dancing and the cheesy music. I have to be on the dance floor for all the cheesiest songs: Shout, Electric Slide, Cha Cha Shuffle, Cupid Shuffle, I even watched a YouTube video to learn the Wobble. I also have to confess that I taught my daughter the Hokey Pokey for my SIL's wedding that we were all in and was pretty disappointed that they didn't even play it.0 -
Italian_Buju wrote: »
May I ask what happened? Like what kind of episode?
We suspect a stroke or heart attack, it was scary. He kinda of started seizing and then stopped moving all together for a minute. When he tried to move afterwards, his one side wouldn't move at all. Poor little guy
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Hey all . Visitors have left to head back to BC so I had time to catch up this morning yay!!
@MoHousdon there is so many things that I would like to say about your step daughter but out of respect for our girl @Susieq_1994 I won't say them Enjoy your fabulous holiday though
@kelly_c_77 Happy birthday. I will refrain from singing because quite frankly I can't and a one year logging!! Congrats that's huge!
@orangesmartie Saying a prayer that today will be better for you!!
@raelynnsmama52512 How's the potty training going. Anymore success?
ETA @Italian_Buju I haven't been over to the BB thread yet because I haven't been able to watch the episodes yet but planning on catching up tonight! Fingers crossed
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Aww thanks. I have a horrible relationship with my mom so I try to give my daughter what she needs. She's a good almost adult teen.
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Hi All!
@MoHousdon have a fantastic vacation! I cannot wait to hear all about it and see some pictures!
Confession: Yesterday I binged out on all the snacky foods because I was bored but they we're healthy so there's at least that? I was expecting to wake up feeling bloated and gross, today I feel fantastic actually. So I guess healthy food binges agree with my body? Lol0 -
Haha awh bless him, I'd probably get pretty grumpy too if a stranger poked their hand into my home though haha.
Confession; I bought pop tarts today, and am seriously considering having one. My SO and I are in a bit of a predicament, as he is super skinny and doesn't eat nearly enough calories (works full time, doesnt get any time to eat while on shift, and burns a ton of calories as he's on his feet all day- he's a chef) and I'm trying to lose weight. Trying to balance this when we live together is pretty tricky, so we've come up with the approach that I'm going to keep cooking my 'healthy' dinners but sub in some less-healthy stuff on his/give him bigger portions.
Anyway, the point is this now means we have a TON of very sugary and/or tempting snacks in the house. Oh dear...
I'm having a similar problem with my husband, although his calorie goal is not much bigger than mine--his appetite is just smaller. I've been trying to get more calories into him without resorting to buying different treats, because I've had to stop bringing them in the house recently. Let's just say he's getting VERY friendly with my beloved full-fat Wisconsin extra sharp cheddar cheese... 
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