Let's have an actual chat - no "would you date/*kitten*/marry/add the person below you" games

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  • alpha_515
    alpha_515 Posts: 230 Member
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    crssftlv wrote: »
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    crssftlv wrote: »
    riirii93_ wrote: »
    Hi, who and how are you? Tell me something interesting and let's get to know each other. Cause we all know no one is gaining anything from asking if the person below you is hot.

    man, you're such a party pooper... you know we need the constant validation from random people on the internet!

    hahahha ...wait..are you one of them ? o.O

    B) A cool cat like me? Pshhh


    WOOF WOOF !
  • alpha_515
    alpha_515 Posts: 230 Member
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    besee_2000 wrote: »
    Hi everyone! Trying to waste time and not think about food. This seems innocent enough! Currently reside it Wisconsin and have beautiful heat for once! Recently found a passion with crossfit and want to get certified in personal training and/or nutrition. Something about heath and fitness excite me. I never found anything to do with my Bachelor's and have no idea where to start with finding something I enjoy waking up to do. In my experience, a stamped piece of paper is worthless without connects and experience. Anyone their own boss? How did you make it work? Where did you start?


    1. Find a place which runs a successful business upon which you want to implement.
    2. Study their business model effectively , tailor to your specific needs and apply it
    3. The greatest Risk you can take in life is taking no risk at all :)
  • dfavela1988
    dfavela1988 Posts: 892 Member
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    Hi im Daniel 6'4 27 yrs old puerto rican born and raised in Chicago and currently living in AZ. No kids. Love sports and play basketball and work on cars on my free time.
  • besee_2000
    besee_2000 Posts: 365 Member
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    alpha_515 wrote: »
    3. The greatest Risk you can take in life is taking no risk at all :)
    Thank you for the thoughts. Sometimes I think I'm just better at following direction than I am at leading. I get overwhelmed with the thoughts of legal paper work and how to start that I just paralyze myself. In my own job I just do what I am told and good at it. It pays ok, too. I just don't have the energy for customer service being an introvert.
  • alpha_515
    alpha_515 Posts: 230 Member
    edited July 2015
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    besee_2000 wrote: »
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    3. The greatest Risk you can take in life is taking no risk at all :)
    Thank you for the thoughts. Sometimes I think I'm just better at following direction than I am at leading. I get overwhelmed with the thoughts of legal paper work and how to start that I just paralyze myself. In my own job I just do what I am told and good at it. It pays ok, too. I just don't have the energy for customer service being an introvert.

    Well, Instead of wasting time I'd suggest read books that improve your mental state of mind and induce positive thoughts.

    Some of the stuff I'd recommend :-1:


    1. Think and Grow Rich
    2. Mastery - Robert Greene
    3. How to win friends and influence people - Dale Carnegie
    4. Steve Jobs - Walter Isaacson
    5. Meditations - Marcus Aurelius ( Stoicism is soo soo ZEN)


    And I totally feel you, I used to be an Engineer earning 100K and was like *kitten* this rat race life where all these muppets are just living paycheck to paycheck , sad on a Monday and happy on a Friday.

    I figured in life you only get what you negotiate, not what you deserve ! :)
  • SunnyPacheco
    SunnyPacheco Posts: 142 Member
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    besee_2000 wrote: »
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    3. The greatest Risk you can take in life is taking no risk at all :)
    Thank you for the thoughts. Sometimes I think I'm just better at following direction than I am at leading. I get overwhelmed with the thoughts of legal paper work and how to start that I just paralyze myself. In my own job I just do what I am told and good at it. It pays ok, too. I just don't have the energy for customer service being an introvert.

    I'm an introvert as well. I'm not one for non-fiction books generally but I read Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain. If I remember correctly they do talk about how introverts become successful leaders and managers in a business world that's dominated by extroverts and how they adapt their naturally introverted qualities to become successful. It's also just a generally interesting read.
  • SunnyPacheco
    SunnyPacheco Posts: 142 Member
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    Hello. I like chatting too... but never enter the date/kiss/whatever threads. Not my style.

    I'm crazy exhausted. We've had such a crazy week. We're renovating our bathroom and laundry room in our basement, and my in-laws came yesterday. We tried to have it all done by the time they got here, but we were pretty close. Everything is installed, but not everything is plumbed. So that's fun. We're working on getting a "fish room" installed into the laundry room. We have a 260 gallon marine aquarium, and want to run our sump/filtration tanks in the laundry room, with our main tank in the TV/living room. It's been a challenge, but we're getting very close.

    Next weekend we're participating in a 24 hour endurance road race (car racing, closed track). Our race car (late 80's trans am) has been having overheating issues. The boys are in the garage with the car today, and we're taking it out to the country tonight to see if we can get it to overheat again, and to practice our driver changes. I'm really nervous about the race - I've only been on this track for lapping/limited passing events, which is really different than live racing. I've raced once at Las Vegas on a live track, which was a lot of fun. However, I was driving an Integra, which is a front wheel drive car with less horsepower. This car is a lot more to handle, and I'm worried about putting it into a wall, or another car.

    That's where I'm at today.

    This road race thing sounds really cool. You have to tell us how the race goes! I saw them do something similar on Top Gear and it looked really tough. I'm just hoping to learn how to drive before the end of the year. Haven't signed up for lessons yet though. :(
  • Katiebear_81
    Katiebear_81 Posts: 719 Member
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    Hello. I like chatting too... but never enter the date/kiss/whatever threads. Not my style.

    I'm crazy exhausted. We've had such a crazy week. We're renovating our bathroom and laundry room in our basement, and my in-laws came yesterday. We tried to have it all done by the time they got here, but we were pretty close. Everything is installed, but not everything is plumbed. So that's fun. We're working on getting a "fish room" installed into the laundry room. We have a 260 gallon marine aquarium, and want to run our sump/filtration tanks in the laundry room, with our main tank in the TV/living room. It's been a challenge, but we're getting very close.

    Next weekend we're participating in a 24 hour endurance road race (car racing, closed track). Our race car (late 80's trans am) has been having overheating issues. The boys are in the garage with the car today, and we're taking it out to the country tonight to see if we can get it to overheat again, and to practice our driver changes. I'm really nervous about the race - I've only been on this track for lapping/limited passing events, which is really different than live racing. I've raced once at Las Vegas on a live track, which was a lot of fun. However, I was driving an Integra, which is a front wheel drive car with less horsepower. This car is a lot more to handle, and I'm worried about putting it into a wall, or another car.

    That's where I'm at today.

    This road race thing sounds really cool. You have to tell us how the race goes! I saw them do something similar on Top Gear and it looked really tough. I'm just hoping to learn how to drive before the end of the year. Haven't signed up for lessons yet though. :(

    Oh Top Gear... I miss it. Driving is fun, although stressful when the other drivers aren't following the rules. I found lessons very helpful, and especially helpful in passing the tests!

    My throat is very sore, and I'm worried that I'm getting sick. :(
  • ladykate26
    ladykate26 Posts: 1,134 Member
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    I love the inbetweeners, reading, dancing, walking in the rain and laughing. Like a drain! Oh and peanut butter!!!
  • Cahgetsfit
    Cahgetsfit Posts: 1,912 Member
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    I actually found the comments on here pleasant and polite.

    I am in college for business. I know i am getting my BA but if i stay single than i will get PHD.

    I like your logic. I also wish you the best in your endeavor! Why does it seem like having a SO always gets in the way of what we want?

    I disagree! If you have goals you should go for them and your SO should support you. A friend of mine is working on his PhD right now and he got married last summer. They're also from NYC and she moved with him to Ohio for school. I don't think they have to be mutually exclusive.

    And I agree with the pursuing your goals regardless of SOs too. I know a few people who are married/have babies/etc and are doing PhDs and are fine :) I just finished my third degree and I also am married and have a child. You gotta do what you want to do :)
  • MerMandy17
    MerMandy17 Posts: 117 Member
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    I'm Mandy. 26. Not married. Live in Tampa. Don't like Tampa.
  • Cahgetsfit
    Cahgetsfit Posts: 1,912 Member
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    Good morning peeps. Here I am back at work. I actually need to Do some work too...

    Let's see.... so what do people like doing exercise-wise on here? Any favourites? Do you even like exercise or do you just do it because you need to lose weight?
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,338 Member
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    I'm Mel. Back on mfp for the 2nd time. So glad I'm back! Missed all the awesome people and support. Oh, I just got divorced...Friday actually. Single and soooo damn happy! :-)
  • MondayJune22nd2015
    MondayJune22nd2015 Posts: 876 Member
    edited July 2015
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    Good morning peeps. Here I am back at work. I actually need to Do some work too...

    Let's see.... so what do people like doing exercise-wise on here? Any favourites? Do you even like exercise or do you just do it because you need to lose weight?

    Pedal boating!
  • Dadof3bbg40
    Dadof3bbg40 Posts: 153 Member
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    melmelw03 wrote: »
    I'm Mel. Back on mfp for the 2nd time. So glad I'm back! Missed all the awesome people and support. Oh, I just got divorced...Friday actually. Single and soooo damn happy! :-)

    Wanna go to a baseball game?
    I make $8 an hour and drive a sexy rental car
    It. Out.
  • Allison1385
    Allison1385 Posts: 353 Member
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    Dull day at work....kind of lonely since I was the only one there....Bleh! Tomorrow will be the same lol but that's ok....Monday is over :) I'm in Michigan btw and I have been doing a lot of running lately which I am falling in love with <3
  • Building_Bulk
    Building_Bulk Posts: 20,596 Member
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    Dull day at work....kind of lonely since I was the only one there....Bleh! Tomorrow will be the same lol but that's ok....Monday is over :) I'm in Michigan btw and I have been doing a lot of running lately which I am falling in love with <3

    I work from home so it's always lonely.
  • Cahgetsfit
    Cahgetsfit Posts: 1,912 Member
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    melmelw03 wrote: »
    I'm Mel. Back on mfp for the 2nd time. So glad I'm back! Missed all the awesome people and support. Oh, I just got divorced...Friday actually. Single and soooo damn happy! :-)

    Good for you! It's important to be happy :smile: and look - you're getting offers already LOL!
  • Cahgetsfit
    Cahgetsfit Posts: 1,912 Member
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    @MondayJune22nd2015 - wow - haven't done that in YEARS - like since I was a kid. I remember it being fun though. Maybe should put it on my to-do list again for sometime in the near future.

    I like kayaking/canoeing but hardly ever do that too.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,296 Member
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    Went to Kansas to meet some guy off the internet about a week ago. On my way home to Cali now, but my original flight was delayed causing me to miss my connecting flights to Texas and Arizona. Now sitting in the Minnesota airport for my 3 hour layover before I finally get back to the golden state. *sigh* Needing my Advil to kick in and possibly a cup of coffee.