WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2105
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The shrub is probably a berberi shrub. Does it have lots of thorns and red berries? They are a native of Japan, and are considered an invasive species in many areas. The birds poop the berry seed and they are taking over, killing off native species. They look very nice, but I have always hated them because they are covered with thorns! I don't do roses either. Life is thorny enough without planting things with thorns!0
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Thanks, Meg... I don't feel that way. Which, for all I know, may mean that I am. Of course, that sounds much like the old definition of insanity. If you're insane, you don't know you are, but if you think you might be, you're probably sane...Lisa: you sound very wise!!!
Of course the lovely and talented ex-employee escalated things...and my GM got a little het up. I just pointed out that she was actually being very careful in all her Facebook rants to make it plain that the restaurant was not to blame, she was pointing directly at me (by name). Told him the same thing I told y'all--not responding was the only possible response. He calmed down, told me he would trust my judgment, and I came to find out she's done this rant business against everyone at some point or another, even members of her own family, in public. Few believe her except others of her stripe.
And, because few things are without some silver lining, some of the best of the past employees who left because of all the drama are filtering back in to apply--because she got me a lot of publicity, mostly because I had sense enough to get rid of her quickly! I may finally be able to get this place back up to full staffing. I'm learning to believe three impossible things before breakfast every day. It's good practice.
Someone asked if Montana was a well-deserved vacation... and the answer is "Yes." It is both to see my best friend's youngest daughter get married (that's who the quilt was made for), to spend a few days with that friend, who I haven't seen in two years, and to see our son, John, who is stationed in Montana. Unfortunately, he couldn't get leave, and works as a chef out in the missile field, so we can't visit him when he's working. We will, however, at least get a few hours to spend with him the day we fly back to Texas... which is much, much better than nothing.
We leave a week from Friday.
Hoping for a wonderful Wednesday...
Lisa in VERY sunny West Texas0 -
This quote sums it up perfectly, Carol! Your brain is being pulled in two very different directions at once and it is exhausting. Often one evolves into the other and back again. Do not give up, it will get better if you can give yourself some space to breathe. Part of the trick is to care a little more about yourself enough to do something about it, and care a little less about everybody else as you cannot do anything about them anyway. Easier said than done, I know. I should follow my own advice, I guess. Hugs!Thanks for asking about me and a special thanks to Barbie for checking on me. I am in a really dark place right now. I've been reading posts but haven't had the gumption to write. PT is going well, I think. I discovered Monday that I can not lift my arm off the mat--that was a really yucky feeling. Nothing earth shattering is going on. Let me see if I can remember this quote...
"Depression is when you don't really care about anything.
Anxiety is when you care too much about everything.
Having both is just like hell."
Carol in NC
Betty WNY
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Whoo-hoo - good to learn that Shemer Moore is not gay ... if I was 'ever' going to cross that line that separates races it'd be because of him. LOL! Just kidding.0
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Glad to hear it was just a rumor about Shemer Moore being 'gay'. He is an absolute doll! I know that Penelope is 'gay'; but, unless the young MD is 'in the closet' . . . he is dating some big name star (the last I heard). Of course, he could swing both ways.
I give my husband 'fair warning' when I have to go pee; but, he usually has to go at the time himself. That is rarely a problem for us.0 -
Good morning! Well, the dogs are back home and happy, so I'm happy too. It's hilarious to watch them when they get home after we go on a trip. Running around like crazy idiots. Molly made a bee line to her wading pool, so she is soaking wet. The other two were racing around like nuts. Then they all came in and collapsed into panting heaps on the sofa. They all got a good brushing, which they love. People who think dogs can't smile are nuts.
Today my son turned 39. I just can't believe it. Boy, does that make me feel old. I still remember that soft, sweet little bundle I brought home from the hospital. And the tiny boy who brought me dandelion bouquets because he loved me. The kids are with their mother all week, so he's spending his birthday all alone. I'm going to take him to lunch, and I've ordered a raisin pie (his favorite). I got him a Green Bay tshirt and a gift card to Chili's, plus some money to pay for a cleaning service once a week. That'll be an ongoing thing. He is on the waiting list for home service assistance, but it's two years long and he needs help now!
I was afraid to get on the scale after the trip, because to be honest, I was not exactly a sterling example of self control. I have gained about 5 pounds in the last two months, but when I got on the scale this morning I was back down two pounds. So I'm just three over my low weight of 170. Must have been all that hiking. I walked 69 miles last week. Even on driving days (and being sick) I managed to make my 10,000 steps. So I'm pretty happy with that.
There were signs up when we came through Joplin, advertising a cat show this weekend. Now, my middle dgd is CRAZY about cats! So, I asked my son to ask the ex if I could pick the kids up on Sunday at noon (instead of 6pm) so I could take them to the cat show. He thought it was a good idea, but I'm waiting to see if the ex will agree to it. I sure hope so. That would be so much fun for them.
Hubby has gone to the Y, so I'm going to try and get some laundry done before he gets back. All his shorts are dirty from the trip. Do I'd better get busy. Have a wonderful day!
Sylvia0 -
Meg... I don't feel that way. Which, for all I know, may mean that I am. Of course, that sounds much like the old definition of insanity. If you're insane, you don't know you are, but if you think you might be, you're probably sane ... but, if you waffle between the two, you might be Bipolar. LOL!
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Mary, I don't expect results too soon....I've been on this journey long enough to know that things take time...Just doing the routine more than once is a victory for me...I had dreams last night about how to use my adjustable weight wrist and ankle weights to be able to lift more than the maximum I can get now with 15 pound dumbbells as my heaviest weights. I've also done some reading about push-ups providing similar benefits to bench press since I don't have a weight bench or heavy enough weights to make it worthwhile.
Barbie 0 -
Good morning!
Did a kettlebell workout this morning - what a great way to start the day.
Thank you to everyone who shared about prepping for the colonoscopy. dreamwriter, I'm thankful that yours found your cancer!! Thanks for the tip about the apple juice. I'll be drinking that and broth the day before, I'm sure.
Good thoughts to each of you struggling right now.
High fives to everyone!!
Have a healthy and wonderful Wednesday!
Colleen in Virginia0 -
mollywhippet wrote: »We just got home. Boy, am I glad to be here! Hubby and I had a little tiff after we left the hotel this morning. He said he didn't want to rush back. I wanted to go to the mall. He said, no time for that. We saw a farm stand overflowing with goodies, I said I wanted to stop and he conveniently drove past it. And the next six too. Finally he said, do you want to turn around and go back? I said yes, but he wouldn't do it. I had a little melt down. He didn't see what the big fuss was, and I told him that it makes me feel terribly unimportant when he does stuff like that, but he still didn't get it. So, when we went through Springfield Missouri he asked if I wanted to go to the mall. I think he expected me to say no, but I called his bluff and said yes. So, we went shopping which is his worst nightmare. I made him sit and wait for me while I shopped. They had some nice comfy chairs out in the midway area, just for tired hubbies.
I'm really excited about a store I found. It's called Justice and they have little girls clothes. I went in and asked what the bigges size they carried, and it's a 20!!!! My oldest dgd has outgrown size 16, and that's the biggest size I can find anywhere else. So, I can get her cute clothes there that look like a little girl's instead of an old lady. She and I are going shopping next week, for sure. They have a location in Joplin, too.
Time to unpack and do laundry.
Good night everyone!
Sylvia
Now I know you are going to have to come and visit me. Not only does our local outlet mall have Christopher and Banks, but they have Justice, too.
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I would love to join this group! I am 50 and even though I am married and still have 1 child at home, I have no support system. I need all the encouragement and motivation I can get!0
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Pip: I'll be sending good thoughts your way. If your doctor buys a clue and shows you respect that is one thing, but he hasn't passed the respect test so far. :noway: :flowerforyou:
Carol: Hugs to you during this time. I hope you get through the depression quickly, but I know that depression runs its own course. Vitamin D3 may help. It helps me.
We will be meeting our son and neighbor at the coast today and then retuning home tomorrow. Right now I need to tidy up the house so that it will be company ready when we return.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” Thomas A. Edison
August Goals:
1. Log every bite and swallow.
2. Cardio exercise at least 3 days a week. Work on flexibility and back strength.
3. Have fun every day.
4. Drink at least three glasses of water daily, preferably more!
5. Eliminate alcohol.
6. Monitor sleep. Try to average 7 or more hours of sleep nightly.
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How do I join the group? Sounds like a great place!0
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GRITSandSLUTS wrote: »
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"Thanks for asking about me and a special thanks to Barbie for checking on me. I am in a really dark place right now. I've been reading posts but haven't had the gumption to write. PT is going well, I think. I discovered Monday that I can not lift my arm off the mat--that was a really yucky feeling. Nothing earth shattering is going on. Let me see if I can remember this quote...
"Depression is when you don't really care about anything.
Anxiety is when you care too much about everything.
Having both is just like hell."
Carol in NC"
I don't post much,but am so glad to see you here! Haven't had depression,but have had times when I could have killed someone,usually my Sis or other family outlaws.
Carol,hope the PT will also help,along with getting your shoulder back to where it needs to be. Remember,nothing in this life lasts forever. Most of us might not say so,but don't we all have days or times when all we can do is one foot at a time. Hugs & sweet wishes. Pat0 -
Quiet day here today! Happy hump day to those who are working.
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I'm back in the fold. About time too. I didn't know how much I missed MFP and all the support, until I got back in. MFP is by far the best place for me - for losing weight, keeping it off, and (especially) feeling good while I'm doing it. It lifts my spirits just to know I'm doing something good for myself. BTW, for those of you who go back a ways with me, the pic is of me with 4 of my grandkids. We were in the kitchen cooking...a moment that needed to go down in posterity.0
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Happy Wednesday ! ! !
Carol – Hugs ! I hope you are able to work through your depression quickly. Take Care and know we are all pulling for your success.
Janetr – Good to know about Shemar. I’m pretty certain he will NOT be my third husband, but I will keep dreaming.
Sylvia – what your hubby did to you is a HUGE pet-peeve for me, too. I love stopping at those little farm stands, because the produce is so fresh. My ex used to drive past them, and he didn’t care how bad of a meltdown I had. Now my DH will drive past the first, but knows better than to drive past the next place I mention that I want to stop (again, live at home or find your things in the bushes?) It is rare that we are in such a hurry to get anywhere that there isn’t time to make the wife happy, and I always allow him to sit in the car (or bar, or food court, etc depending on where I want to shop). I’m glad he finally allowed you to shop, because you deserve to be happy too. Hugs !
Renny – thanks! That felt good to read. You matter, too ! ! !
Michele – My DH has learned to not challenge me when I want to work-out, so I stayed late at work and rode the bike for another 20 minutes, and was still able to have 2 pieces of the Pizza he brought home for supper (not cooking after work is often my goal). I still have about 2/3 of a bag of cherries.
Last night I struggled between pain and not being tired, so I listened to a weight loss podcast while DH did his snoring. It helped keep my mind off the pain, but I think I will listen to it a few more times, because even though it was a “first in a series”, I think it will take a few more times for it to sink in. But it did mention some of the things you wonderful ladies have posted on this thread (liking myself, breath in place of stress, find gratitude, etc). Thanks to Barbie and everyone else who suggested the podcasts. I even listened to a few minutes of it this morning while I used the handbike, because my RA is pretty big in my right foot today; it feels like there is a superball in my shoe under my big toe.
Speaking of colonoscopy - what perfect timing. The PigglyWiggly has apple juice on sale for $0.99 each with no limit posted. I plan to stock-up. I understand the Gatorade is on the prep list, and that is $0.69 per bottle limit of 6 bottles, so I will stock up on that too (I like the white cherry flavor, and if I hide it in my underwear drawer, DS won’t drink it).
Speaking of DS, his friend decided to not attend the State Fair yesterday, and also decide to not tell him, so DS stayed home all day yesterday, thinking he could get the call any minute. So, after I chatted with the boys mom, I told DS to start making other plans. Well, that took on a life of its own. There are now a total of 4 boys going to the State Fair together on Saturday, and they are then planning to spend the night at the house of one of those boys. Should be interesting. I’m just so thankful that they can act like we did at that age. Too many kids don’t get to enjoy their childhood anymore (too much pressure from parents regarding sports, too much time in front of a screen for TV or videogames, etc). I remember putting on my swim suit and a pair of shorts and spending the whole day at the City pool, coming home for supper, then going back out to play kickball or softball in the street until the streetlights came on, then lightning bugs in someone’s yard until Mom called us in for bed. It was GREAT. Now, I know some of you are thinking that I have my kid over-booked in sports, but if you could hear our conversations, you wouldn’t believe how much more he thinks he can do but I tell him no. He even thinks that this winter he can play on both the High School basketball and bowling teams at the same time. Because, basketball will come first, and he will go to bowling practices and matches when there is no basketball. Plus, he is trying to create his own Travel Bowling Team. There must be about 36 or more hours in this kids’ day. Today he is in the weight room with the basketball team, then goes to the Dentist when DH gets home from work.
Tonight after work I drive to the radio station to pick up the Justin Moore concert tickets that I won for tomorrow night at the State Fair. I will probably attend alone, because no one has responded wanting to attend with me. That’s ok, because it means I can be comfortable, since they are probably bleacher seats and it’s supposed to be 80 degrees outside today, which means closer to 90 or better with all the people.
Hugs for Everyone ! ! !
Terri in Milwaukee (the lion was seen again, now about 10 miles north of the latest sighting)0 -
Here is a link to the Facebook Photo Album I made of our visit to the Nesselrod Bed & Breakfast in Radford, Virginia.
https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10206645743534657.1073741832.1604898932&type=1&l=05006b2a89
Cheri in NE Ohio0 -
Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding .
Good Morning Ladies,
Lillian, so sorry about your cold. I hate any but a summer cold is the worst. Sending healing thoughts your way. ((Hugs))
Michele NC, I had a feeling you would have fun playing R in the pool, no matter how your game pieces worked out. That was cool of you to figure out how to make everything.
Joyce, how is Charlie doing with his treatments? I’m anxious for the yard to be finished and get pictures of it.
Sharon, “horse tail grass”???? You have to explain that one for me. LOL It sounds like your trip to the airport was an experience in itself.
Miriam, I do think what we have are Dwarf Barberry shrubs. Ours have some thorns but I haven’t noticed any berries.
Lisa, glad there is a silver lining and you are getting staffed back up. Now if they are just all there to do their jobs you should be able to get things turned around pretty quickly. Good luck! I know you are looking forward to that trip.
Sylvia, you walked 69 miles last week?? Woo Wee You go gurl!!!
Litnbug, welcome, neighbor. You live just up the road from me. Unfortunately there are lots of people with large families that have no support system. This group of ladies gives excellent support. I have one suggestion, if you want to lose weight and keep it off: give up on diets and adopt a new lifestyle. This thing is a lifelong journey that works. Many of us have successfully lost weight on diets only to gain it back plus more. Please tell us a bit more about yourself to help us get to know you. Also, we ask that you sign each post with the name you want to be called and a location. Come often and join right in.
Katla, have a safe and fun trip.
Jodi, welcome. You have joined and now you just need to tell us about yourself. Come often and post when you want. And please sign each post as it makes it so much easier to respond.
Grits and Sluts, when I come back to this forum each day, it takes me back to where I left off. If you do this marking thing and you have two pages left to read, it will show up at the end of those two pages. But if you just log back in it will take you to the last page you were on.
Has anyone talked to or seen Dee Dee lately? I know she doesn’t post as often as many of us but I’m missing her. I hope all is okay.
Mimi, welcome back. I love your profile picture!
to any Newbies that I missed. Come often and join in the chat. This thing works!! Please sign your post with what you want to be called. It makes it easier for us to respond to you. Also a location is great, be it specific or general. We are happy to have you join us.
I’m starting to lay out things to pack for my trip to Texas. I don’t know why but I’m a little irritable today? I find myself snapping at DH when he doesn’t even deserve it. At least being aware, I’m trying to be civil, but feeling a bit off. I’ve never minded flying but the past few years I’ve come to dread it. When I was young it was almost a thing of privilege and now it feels like the slum mode of transportation to me. You are so cramped that it is uncomfortable and they have taken away any of the comforts that used to come with flying. Also just this morning on GMA, they had a story about all the complaints about the airlines, most of which were about not being on time. But I’m really looking forward to seeing my niece and nephew and their children and my ex-SIL who I have always loved even after my brother divorced her. I don’t know if I’ll have much time to post but will do my best to keep up. For sure I’ll log my food and drinks.
I hate that some of you are going through such struggles. Know how much I wish the best for all of you and I wish you all a happy and healthy day.
Words I live by:
Savor. I have to slow down and savor every bite.
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Opportunity. Each day offers new opportunities for good health and happiness if we just look for them and choose them.
I Love you,
DJ
Myrtle Beach, SC
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MORNING PEEEEEEEPPPPPSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
exermom and jmkmomm - it was me that was awake for the colonoscopy. they kept me numb down there and reduced my drugs so that they could nudge me awake to see the screen.
annr - bag balm smells good. i was raised on a farm.
rode home for the last two days, taking the day off today cuz I have to ride home thurs and fri to go see the docs.
today the shoulder is hurting more than usual... :0/ but not crazy bad, don't want u getting the wrong idea
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Good afternoon everyone!
Mimi - I can't tell you how glad I am to see you! Missed you. Love the photo!
Well, ladies ...........wait for it ............... I HAVE ACCEPTED AN OFFER ON MY RENTAL! :drinker: Not the asking price, but the figure I first thought I would accept without grief.
I can hardly believe it! ! ! ! ! ! ! Keep all fingers crossed it goes through without hitch.
We had a lovely meal, Fish and Chips, in the New Forest today. Once upon a time I would have eaten it all, but I was able to leave most of the batter and most of the chips (fries). The actual cod was delicious.
We walked for an hour and a half through the forest, so it was a very good day.
I came back and prepared roasted butternut squash, garlic and parsley chilli prawns and mangetout for tonight. As we say over here, "I'm knackered!" My friend has gone to bed for a nap.
My new pink top arrived in the mail. Haven't tried it on yet.
Love to all, Heather UK
Forgot to say that as I was getting my friend's breakfast plate ready this morning I saw something fall out of the corner of my eye. There was the most ALMIGHTY crash! I had no idea what had happened, but a ceiling light with three large, glass plates had just fallen off the ceiling and landed on the floor. Glass everywhere! ! ! We are still picking it up from far away places! Good job I wasn't standing underneath it! We will have to replace all four light fittings.
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Oh my goodness, what a great thread! I don't have time to look at all 31 pages of posts before mine right now, but will go back later so I can get a feel for who everyone is.
I'm a 55-year-old woman on a journey to lose weight and and feel healthier in general. I am a breast cancer survivor and the treatment really took a lot out of me, so my quest right now is to just take back my life! I am happy to say I had an "all clear" follow-up on Monday and am now moved out to every 6-month follow ups, so YEA on that subject!
I struggle with cravings in the evening for something sweet (ice cream usually). So, my goal this month is to get away from the 8 p.m. bowl of ice cream and significantly decrease sugar in my diet. This will not be an easy task since everyone else in my house can eat anything and not gain a pound!
I hope to get to know you all better as time goes on. Thank you for creating this group. Have a wonderful day!
Tracie
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Terri - cracked me up, he can't be yours cuz if anything happen to Jack, Shemar will def by my 4th. Not sure how I'll break the news to HIm tho. Thanks for the laugh.
Cheri in NE Ohio - Wow, wow, wow. Thanks for the pictures. I was just trying to "transport"myself into the pictures. Thanks for sharing them with us.
Janetr OKC0 -
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Heather - HOORAY, and happy dances and all that good stuff on the rental sale. Whoa watch out for those falling light fixtures, what the heck happened. Glad for you.
Janetr OKC
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