Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))
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girldownsouth wrote: »orangesmartie wrote: »pofoster21 wrote: »orangesmartie wrote: »I am really tempted to book my flight to Nashville, as a training incentive. But i'm worried about booking a flight and not a hotel. and I don't know how long to go for.
That would do need to figure out. I do that all the time, book things as an incentive. And then don't train.
it doesn't always work. Are there any half marathons locally in Dec you can start training for as a shorter term objective? Or even a 10k in like Oct or nov?
Its going to cost me nearly £1000 in flights and hotel (about $1500) for a week. It better be a beeping incentive!
there is windsor half marathon on 27th September, but I'll have been back from holiday for 2 days, so i think that will be beyond me.
there is a 5/10/15/20km walk/run/jog at Eton Dorney on 23rd January.
I did a ladies 5 miler that was on the day before the Windsor half a few years ago. Don't know if they still do that, but it was quite good, around the great park.
Yeah its on again this year. Does look good. Not sure I'd be up to it having just got back from holiday!
but i have just signed up for the beginners course with Burnham Joggers which starts from 2nd October.
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quiksylver296 wrote: »*post date update*
first date #14
interacting online and via text, things were pretty cool.
good, fun interactions, actual conversations that moved past the "hi, how's your day going?" type thing.
but despite fun convo, dude kinda seemed like he was never going to actually ask me out, so on friday, i was like hey, if you wanna hang out let me know! so then we ended up going to a local place that evening.
in person, it was....awkward?
he was really quiet and withdrawn. which, i get the whole nervous first date type thing, but usually after a few hours, that lightens up a little. only it didn't. he just didn't seem very interested, and that's totally fine. but it still feels weird. so after a few hours, a few beverages, my filter ceases to exist, and upon saying good night (no attempt at a kiss or even a hug), the phrase "you poor boy" slipped out. eep.
que the ensuing text argument wherein any chance of a second date was destroyed. so despite what appeared to be a total lack of all interest, dude says he had a good time. but of course at this point, i'm all angsty and annoyed and say as much in regards to his stand-offishness, to which he does the fine, it's all me whatever, thing.
done and done.
i miss mr.jerkface more than i care to admit
Stupid frogs. I wish I could just conjure up Mr. Right-for-you and send him your way!
hehehehe, i wish you could too!
i just want to come home from work one day and have a cute dude sitting on my front porch, he knows all my weird quirks, likes to clean, can make me laugh, and wants to love me forevers.
is that too much to ask for?
I'm afraid the bolded will be too much to ask for. I'm yet to find a man who does that let alone enjoys it.
I found one!! I don't clean. My husband does all of the cleaning. And remember we have 5 cats and a dog.
Yes, he's a keeper.
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raelynnsmama52512 wrote: »So, we're back home now. Hubby didn't have a heart attack (thank you God!), and the doctor thinks it was an esophageal spasm caused by reflux. We're following up with our family doctor and may need to see a GI specialist. He's still asleep, but he's feeling better and not in pain thanks to the morphine shot they gave him. Thanks for all the kind words and thoughts and prayers!
So glad to hear this! Make sure he does the follow up.0 -
Had my first unsolicited bump/size comment today from a co-worker I hardly know! It went along the lines of:
- When are you due?
- Early January.
- You're big for that early on. My wife didn't show until she was 6 months gone.
- Brave of you to comment on a woman's size.
- ...awkward silence...
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I don't mind a comment when I post a bump photo in the batcave, I'm rather inviting them. But coming unsolicted from acquaintances I hardly know, um no thanks. If you wouldn't say it to a non-pregnant woman, why would you think it's okay now. I'm not upset as I know he wasn't trying to be rude. I just think it's a crappy double standard.
When is it ever OK to tell anybody that they're awfully big? I mean, really.0 -
orangesmartie wrote: »pofoster21 wrote: »orangesmartie wrote: »pofoster21 wrote: »orangesmartie wrote: »I am really tempted to book my flight to Nashville, as a training incentive. But i'm worried about booking a flight and not a hotel. and I don't know how long to go for.
That would do need to figure out. I do that all the time, book things as an incentive. And then don't train. it doesn't always work. Are there any half marathons locally in Dec you can start training for as a shorter term objective? Or even a 10k in like Oct or nov?
Its going to cost me nearly £1000 in flights and hotel (about $1500) for a week. It better be a beeping incentive!
there is windsor half marathon on 27th September, but I'll have been back from holiday for 2 days, so i think that will be beyond me.
there is a 5/10/15/20km walk/run/jog at Eton Dorney on 23rd January.
Definitely don't do the 1/2 in Sept its too soon. Look to the Eton Dorney that sounds more reasonable.
So, I think a week will be good.- Get there Thur, Race Expo Friday
- Race Saturday/nap or hotel (house) pool (NOTE if we rent a house or get a hotel we need a HOT TUB), then dinner on Broadway
- Sunday recovery/Zoo (believe it or not it will be good to move)?
- Monday Plantation/tours
- Tuesday Broadway/Nashville (will be doing a bit of that probably Friday too but we don't want to walk too much) or if we have had enough of Broadway/Nashville more tours?
- Wed either one more day relax/day trip or leave?
I plan on driving down so will probably drive down a day early or same day depending on when you are getting in when you book your flights. So I need a travel day each way too for driving.
sounds good to me. I can get a flight that gets in to Nashville about 4pm local time on the Thursday, and one out the following Wednesday that departs at 5.15pm, letting me sleep overnight.
A hot tub is a great idea. I was looking at cheapo motels, but if we can find a house to rent that would be awesome.
Depending on how many people, I have tons of room at my house. But no hot tub yet.
I have a jacuzzi tub in my master bath that I use constantly, definitely love the idea of a hot tub.0 -
Italian_Buju wrote: »I confess that I love the show Masters Of Sex.
I have no idea what this is (and I'm not googling it at work!) but thank you for a funny, silly confession.
And to all those dealing with sad/bad things right now, internet hugs for you and I hope things resolve themselves for the better.
It's about Masters & Johnson, and their medical study about human sexuality. Though, it's full of drama and such to make good TV, of course!lilaclovebird wrote: »Italian_Buju wrote: »I confess that I love the show Masters Of Sex.
@Italian_Buju I've been thinking about getting into it. Is it really that good? I thought it would be great but I've never gotten around to watching any of it.
I liked it a lot more before this current season. I personally feel like too much time has passed in the course of the show, without a whole lot really happening/changing/etc. But, the acting is fantastic, so there's always that.0 -
lilaclovebird wrote: »MelissaPhippsFeagins wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »*post date update*
first date #14
interacting online and via text, things were pretty cool.
good, fun interactions, actual conversations that moved past the "hi, how's your day going?" type thing.
but despite fun convo, dude kinda seemed like he was never going to actually ask me out, so on friday, i was like hey, if you wanna hang out let me know! so then we ended up going to a local place that evening.
in person, it was....awkward?
he was really quiet and withdrawn. which, i get the whole nervous first date type thing, but usually after a few hours, that lightens up a little. only it didn't. he just didn't seem very interested, and that's totally fine. but it still feels weird. so after a few hours, a few beverages, my filter ceases to exist, and upon saying good night (no attempt at a kiss or even a hug), the phrase "you poor boy" slipped out. eep.
que the ensuing text argument wherein any chance of a second date was destroyed. so despite what appeared to be a total lack of all interest, dude says he had a good time. but of course at this point, i'm all angsty and annoyed and say as much in regards to his stand-offishness, to which he does the fine, it's all me whatever, thing.
done and done.
i miss mr.jerkface more than i care to admit
Stupid frogs. I wish I could just conjure up Mr. Right-for-you and send him your way!
hehehehe, i wish you could too!
i just want to come home from work one day and have a cute dude sitting on my front porch, he knows all my weird quirks, likes to clean, can make me laugh, and wants to love me forevers.
is that too much to ask for?
Yes, because I don't believe anyone actually likes to clean. We just all know we need to get it done anyway. (see my previous post wantIng Rosie the Robot).
I actually really like to clean but only if I am angry, stressed, or REALLY excited/happy about something. EVERY TIME I visit SSP, I clean his WHOLE apartment. It's a problem. I mean I get his laundry going and everything. He says he really appreciates it. I've even gone so far as to bathe his dogs!
I pull all of his clothes out of his drawers and fold them, mate his socks, vacuum and shampoo his carpets, dust. I cook for him. It's like somewhere in my subconscious mind I'm trying to show him I'm good wife material or something. But really, I am just happy to be doing something for him that he doesn't really have time to do for himself and I think cleaning up after him and cooking for him is a way I can show I care.
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Glinda1971 wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »*post date update*
first date #14
interacting online and via text, things were pretty cool.
good, fun interactions, actual conversations that moved past the "hi, how's your day going?" type thing.
but despite fun convo, dude kinda seemed like he was never going to actually ask me out, so on friday, i was like hey, if you wanna hang out let me know! so then we ended up going to a local place that evening.
in person, it was....awkward?
he was really quiet and withdrawn. which, i get the whole nervous first date type thing, but usually after a few hours, that lightens up a little. only it didn't. he just didn't seem very interested, and that's totally fine. but it still feels weird. so after a few hours, a few beverages, my filter ceases to exist, and upon saying good night (no attempt at a kiss or even a hug), the phrase "you poor boy" slipped out. eep.
que the ensuing text argument wherein any chance of a second date was destroyed. so despite what appeared to be a total lack of all interest, dude says he had a good time. but of course at this point, i'm all angsty and annoyed and say as much in regards to his stand-offishness, to which he does the fine, it's all me whatever, thing.
done and done.
i miss mr.jerkface more than i care to admit
Stupid frogs. I wish I could just conjure up Mr. Right-for-you and send him your way!
hehehehe, i wish you could too!
i just want to come home from work one day and have a cute dude sitting on my front porch, he knows all my weird quirks, likes to clean, can make me laugh, and wants to love me forevers.
is that too much to ask for?
I'm afraid the bolded will be too much to ask for. I'm yet to find a man who does that let alone enjoys it.
My husband cleans. I don't think he likes it, but I've only had to clean the bathroom twice in 2 years - he does it all the time.
We have a system for getting the house clean, I do all the cleaning, except the floors. Hubby does all the floors! (I hate mopping so this works out great for me) I have not mopped in years.0 -
pofoster21 wrote: »orangesmartie wrote: »pofoster21 wrote: »orangesmartie wrote: »I am really tempted to book my flight to Nashville, as a training incentive. But i'm worried about booking a flight and not a hotel. and I don't know how long to go for.
That would do need to figure out. I do that all the time, book things as an incentive. And then don't train. it doesn't always work. Are there any half marathons locally in Dec you can start training for as a shorter term objective? Or even a 10k in like Oct or nov?
Its going to cost me nearly £1000 in flights and hotel (about $1500) for a week. It better be a beeping incentive!
there is windsor half marathon on 27th September, but I'll have been back from holiday for 2 days, so i think that will be beyond me.
there is a 5/10/15/20km walk/run/jog at Eton Dorney on 23rd January.
Definitely don't do the 1/2 in Sept its too soon. Look to the Eton Dorney that sounds more reasonable.
So, I think a week will be good.- Get there Thur, Race Expo Friday
- Race Saturday/nap or hotel (house) pool (NOTE if we rent a house or get a hotel we need a HOT TUB), then dinner on Broadway
- Sunday recovery/Zoo (believe it or not it will be good to move)?
- Monday Plantation/tours
- Tuesday Broadway/Nashville (will be doing a bit of that probably Friday too but we don't want to walk too much) or if we have had enough of Broadway/Nashville more tours?
- Wed either one more day relax/day trip or leave?
I plan on driving down so will probably drive down a day early or same day depending on when you are getting in when you book your flights. So I need a travel day each way too for driving.
You MUST try to get to the Grand Old Opry if you can move at all on Saturday night. If you can't, you must see the Ryman Auditorium during your visit. Since imam not racing, I'm probably going to try to drive down Friday and home on Sunday. Nashville is just 4.5 hours from my house.
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raelynnsmama52512 wrote: »So, we're back home now. Hubby didn't have a heart attack (thank you God!), and the doctor thinks it was an esophageal spasm caused by reflux. We're following up with our family doctor and may need to see a GI specialist. He's still asleep, but he's feeling better and not in pain thanks to the morphine shot they gave him. Thanks for all the kind words and thoughts and prayers!
Oh good! I was waiting to get an update, I'm happy it's not too serious but I know from experience acid reflux is not fun! Hope he's feeling better! xoxo
Hope he feels better when he wakes up!!
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rungirl1973 wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »ConfessiOn: I'm torqued at my husband right now. Come home after a super long, tiring day to find out he didn't go to work because he had a headache. And he's not going to football practice, so I have to take Payton alone.
I'm just tired and crabby. I'll be better by tomorrow.
I'd be torqued, too. Staying home because of a "headache" is a hot issue for me.
But, it's tomorrow now, so I guess you're better.
You have clearly never had a migraine.0 -
I hope you and Mr. Q feel better soon.Susieq_1994 wrote: »kelly_c_77 wrote: »Susieq_1994 wrote: »Soooo... Today was a fail. I've been horribly depressed and spent most of the day ugly-crying in my bed, almost hysterically at one point so that I couldn't breathe at all and started wheezing like I was dying. Good times. And then Mr. Susie and I went to Tamimi and bought baking ingredients and made cookies AND brownies. Yay me?
Oh, and the best part? I have NO idea why I was crying. At all. I just woke up completely depressed with no known reason.
How weird that you just wrote this. I wrote on your page about 5 minutes ago asking if you were ok. I'm sorry today wasn't good. But yay for cookies and brownies? Did they make you feel any better?
I didn't make them for me, I made them for Mr. Susie. (He's down in the dumps too--must be something in the air.) I don't like the brownie recipe that he loves, so I don't touch them--they're really dense and gooey and they make me feel kind of sick. I had two cookies, but I'm not in a food mood really. :-/
I did see your message, and replied to it, too! I really appreciate that you checked in. Makes me feel special.
Sorry to hear about your Roxy! The paw print is a nice way to remember her.saraherren wrote: »So after my sweet dog passed away on August 1, my mom and I (mainly my mom) decided to have her cremated. We were able to have her paw print made so we would always have that with us, as well. We got her ashes a week after she passed, but we just picked up her paw print that was made, and I almost started bawling my eyes out while leaving the vet.
Glad to hear everything went well!raelynnsmama52512 wrote: »So, we're back home now. Hubby didn't have a heart attack (thank you God!), and the doctor thinks it was an esophageal spasm caused by reflux. We're following up with our family doctor and may need to see a GI specialist. He's still asleep, but he's feeling better and not in pain thanks to the morphine shot they gave him. Thanks for all the kind words and thoughts and prayers!
A couple of years ago, I was waiting with my nieces for my sister to move her car. A guy came up to me and asked me if I was ready to handle another because of my gut.Had my first unsolicited bump/size comment today from a co-worker I hardly know! It went along the lines of:
- When are you due?
- Early January.
- You're big for that early on. My wife didn't show until she was 6 months gone.
- Brave of you to comment on a woman's size.
- ...awkward silence...
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I don't mind a comment when I post a bump photo in the batcave, I'm rather inviting them. But coming unsolicted from acquaintances I hardly know, um no thanks. If you wouldn't say it to a non-pregnant woman, why would you think it's okay now. I'm not upset as I know he wasn't trying to be rude. I just think it's a crappy double standard.
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Glinda1971 wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »*post date update*
first date #14
interacting online and via text, things were pretty cool.
good, fun interactions, actual conversations that moved past the "hi, how's your day going?" type thing.
but despite fun convo, dude kinda seemed like he was never going to actually ask me out, so on friday, i was like hey, if you wanna hang out let me know! so then we ended up going to a local place that evening.
in person, it was....awkward?
he was really quiet and withdrawn. which, i get the whole nervous first date type thing, but usually after a few hours, that lightens up a little. only it didn't. he just didn't seem very interested, and that's totally fine. but it still feels weird. so after a few hours, a few beverages, my filter ceases to exist, and upon saying good night (no attempt at a kiss or even a hug), the phrase "you poor boy" slipped out. eep.
que the ensuing text argument wherein any chance of a second date was destroyed. so despite what appeared to be a total lack of all interest, dude says he had a good time. but of course at this point, i'm all angsty and annoyed and say as much in regards to his stand-offishness, to which he does the fine, it's all me whatever, thing.
done and done.
i miss mr.jerkface more than i care to admit
Stupid frogs. I wish I could just conjure up Mr. Right-for-you and send him your way!
hehehehe, i wish you could too!
i just want to come home from work one day and have a cute dude sitting on my front porch, he knows all my weird quirks, likes to clean, can make me laugh, and wants to love me forevers.
is that too much to ask for?
I'm afraid the bolded will be too much to ask for. I'm yet to find a man who does that let alone enjoys it.
My husband cleans. I don't think he likes it, but I've only had to clean the bathroom twice in 2 years - he does it all the time.
We have a system for getting the house clean, I do all the cleaning, except the floors. Hubby does all the floors! (I hate mopping so this works out great for me) I have not mopped in years.
We do this too, pretty much. I do all the cleaning when I get home from work on Friday afternoon, including laundry. He then cleans the floors when he gets home (except for once a month when I do the hands-and-knees floor cleaning instead to get the stuff I think he misses with the stupid Swiffer mop.) Our roommate just does garbages and recycling.
It saves us all the headache because I don't get stressed about stuff not being done well/weekly and they don't get stressed about me being mad or judging how well they do it. Plus I find it kind of soothing to get the house in order and they just find it onerous.0 -
rungirl1973 wrote: »Had my first unsolicited bump/size comment today from a co-worker I hardly know! It went along the lines of:
- When are you due?
- Early January.
- You're big for that early on. My wife didn't show until she was 6 months gone.
- Brave of you to comment on a woman's size.
- ...awkward silence...
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I don't mind a comment when I post a bump photo in the batcave, I'm rather inviting them. But coming unsolicted from acquaintances I hardly know, um no thanks. If you wouldn't say it to a non-pregnant woman, why would you think it's okay now. I'm not upset as I know he wasn't trying to be rude. I just think it's a crappy double standard.
When is it ever OK to tell anybody that they're awfully big? I mean, really.
Yup. This.
And just for the record..I saw your picture in the Batcave and think you look great! (which I already commented on..but I'll say it again). 0 -
rungirl1973 wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »ConfessiOn: I'm torqued at my husband right now. Come home after a super long, tiring day to find out he didn't go to work because he had a headache. And he's not going to football practice, so I have to take Payton alone.
I'm just tired and crabby. I'll be better by tomorrow.
I'd be torqued, too. Staying home because of a "headache" is a hot issue for me.
But, it's tomorrow now, so I guess you're better.
You have clearly never had a migraine.
No, I understand that I'm very fortunate that way. I totally get that people have debilitating migraines, and I totally didn't mean to come off as judgmental about anything like that.
My comment is related to my son's senior year of high school. Every time I was traveling for work, he would miss school for a "headache". I took him to doctors after doctors, including a couple of neurologists. He wound up dropping out of school and going back to get his GED. Guess what? No more headaches as soon as he quit school.0 -
Had my first unsolicited bump/size comment today from a co-worker I hardly know! It went along the lines of:
- When are you due?
- Early January.
- You're big for that early on. My wife didn't show until she was 6 months gone.
- Brave of you to comment on a woman's size.
- ...awkward silence...
-
I don't mind a comment when I post a bump photo in the batcave, I'm rather inviting them. But coming unsolicted from acquaintances I hardly know, um no thanks. If you wouldn't say it to a non-pregnant woman, why would you think it's okay now. I'm not upset as I know he wasn't trying to be rude. I just think it's a crappy double standard.
That's damn funny.0 -
rungirl1973 wrote: »rungirl1973 wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »ConfessiOn: I'm torqued at my husband right now. Come home after a super long, tiring day to find out he didn't go to work because he had a headache. And he's not going to football practice, so I have to take Payton alone.
I'm just tired and crabby. I'll be better by tomorrow.
I'd be torqued, too. Staying home because of a "headache" is a hot issue for me.
But, it's tomorrow now, so I guess you're better.
You have clearly never had a migraine.
No, I understand that I'm very fortunate that way. I totally get that people have debilitating migraines, and I totally didn't mean to come off as judgmental about anything like that.
My comment is related to my son's senior year of high school. Every time I was traveling for work, he would miss school for a "headache". I took him to doctors after doctors, including a couple of neurologists. He wound up dropping out of school and going back to get his GED. Guess what? No more headaches as soon as he quit school.
Sorry, I get that some people use as an excuse, but as a migraine sufferer, I can say I have missed a few days of work due to headaches, because there is no way I could survive looking at a computer screen when I have one.0 -
rungirl1973 wrote: »rungirl1973 wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »ConfessiOn: I'm torqued at my husband right now. Come home after a super long, tiring day to find out he didn't go to work because he had a headache. And he's not going to football practice, so I have to take Payton alone.
I'm just tired and crabby. I'll be better by tomorrow.
I'd be torqued, too. Staying home because of a "headache" is a hot issue for me.
But, it's tomorrow now, so I guess you're better.
You have clearly never had a migraine.
No, I understand that I'm very fortunate that way. I totally get that people have debilitating migraines, and I totally didn't mean to come off as judgmental about anything like that.
My comment is related to my son's senior year of high school. Every time I was traveling for work, he would miss school for a "headache". I took him to doctors after doctors, including a couple of neurologists. He wound up dropping out of school and going back to get his GED. Guess what? No more headaches as soon as he quit school.
Probably stress related headaches from being unable to deal with the school structure. Otherwise, having to sit in the back to be "cool" meant he had to strain to see the board. Both of those were issues with illness and headaches during my school years.
Or he's just lazy.0 -
rungirl1973 wrote: »rungirl1973 wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »ConfessiOn: I'm torqued at my husband right now. Come home after a super long, tiring day to find out he didn't go to work because he had a headache. And he's not going to football practice, so I have to take Payton alone.
I'm just tired and crabby. I'll be better by tomorrow.
I'd be torqued, too. Staying home because of a "headache" is a hot issue for me.
But, it's tomorrow now, so I guess you're better.
You have clearly never had a migraine.
No, I understand that I'm very fortunate that way. I totally get that people have debilitating migraines, and I totally didn't mean to come off as judgmental about anything like that.
My comment is related to my son's senior year of high school. Every time I was traveling for work, he would miss school for a "headache". I took him to doctors after doctors, including a couple of neurologists. He wound up dropping out of school and going back to get his GED. Guess what? No more headaches as soon as he quit school.
Sorry, I get that some people use as an excuse, but as a migraine sufferer, I can say I have missed a few days of work due to headaches, because there is no way I could survive looking at a computer screen when I have one.
I fully understand your pain, my momma gave me that lovely migraine gene. Thankfully I don't get them all that often but when I do man oh man I am down and out, throwing up from the pain.0 -
@spamarie, please tell me you actually said that! That's the perfect reaction, not attacking yourself but a very clear indication that he was being unfathomably rude. Very much in the Dear Ann/Abby/Prudence advice column vein of "...whatever would make you say that?". I approve heartily.
Editing to add that I saw the photo in the batcave and you look adorable and not oversized in the slightest. Short (and short torsoed) women usually show faster from what I've observed because there's just nowhere for it to hide!0
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