Married and heavy flirting good or bad

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  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,339 Member
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    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    hdatres wrote: »
    My husband is really sensitive and jealous. If we're riding down the road and I say "he has a nice truck" my husband will say "well ,get him if that's what you want"
    He knew when he met me 4 years ago ,that I was a social butterfly and love talking to people,
    So ,in my case I can't even make a comment about or too another person man or woman ( because I'm bi) without being criticized for it.
    But my guess ,is if you have to sneak or hide it it's a bad thing.

    So your husband is a really jealous person, but you're bisexual? How does that work? How does somebody who is really jealous deal with not only having to worry about the flirting with men, but with women as well?

    #justlookingforanswers

    Because she's bisexual doesn't mean she's always hitting on women...men like him are jealous of everyone...

    OP, I understand...and I agree with the if you have to hide it it's bad. Your hubby may or may not change/soften as the years pass; Hopefully you've learned how to "get around" his jealousy, or at least cope xo
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,339 Member
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    leut_underpants wrote: »
    I heavy flirt with my wife constantly. She usually turns the hose on me. :sad:

    That's because you're a dirty boy...OBVIOUSLY!! Lucky wife, lucky hubby!! xo
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,339 Member
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    I don't like flirting with anyone who's not my hubby, and I don't like for him to, either. Fortunately, we've passed those years, and are now in a quiet time together. We flirt crazily with each other in our empty nest, works for him, works for me!
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,339 Member
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    pie_eyes wrote: »
    These comments say if all

    I'm glad these people exist

    I'm glad YOU exist... <3
  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,543 Member
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    JustMissTracy wrote: »
    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    hdatres wrote: »
    My husband is really sensitive and jealous. If we're riding down the road and I say "he has a nice truck" my husband will say "well ,get him if that's what you want"
    He knew when he met me 4 years ago ,that I was a social butterfly and love talking to people,
    So ,in my case I can't even make a comment about or too another person man or woman ( because I'm bi) without being criticized for it.
    But my guess ,is if you have to sneak or hide it it's a bad thing.

    So your husband is a really jealous person, but you're bisexual? How does that work? How does somebody who is really jealous deal with not only having to worry about the flirting with men, but with women as well?

    #justlookingforanswers

    Because she's bisexual doesn't mean she's always hitting on women...men like him are jealous of everyone...

    OP, I understand...and I agree with the if you have to hide it it's bad. Your hubby may or may not change/soften as the years pass; Hopefully you've learned how to "get around" his jealousy, or at least cope xo

    I didn't say she was always flirting with/hitting on men or women. She also answered my question already. Thanks though <3
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,339 Member
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    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    JustMissTracy wrote: »
    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    hdatres wrote: »
    My husband is really sensitive and jealous. If we're riding down the road and I say "he has a nice truck" my husband will say "well ,get him if that's what you want"
    He knew when he met me 4 years ago ,that I was a social butterfly and love talking to people,
    So ,in my case I can't even make a comment about or too another person man or woman ( because I'm bi) without being criticized for it.
    But my guess ,is if you have to sneak or hide it it's a bad thing.

    So your husband is a really jealous person, but you're bisexual? How does that work? How does somebody who is really jealous deal with not only having to worry about the flirting with men, but with women as well?

    #justlookingforanswers

    Because she's bisexual doesn't mean she's always hitting on women...men like him are jealous of everyone...

    OP, I understand...and I agree with the if you have to hide it it's bad. Your hubby may or may not change/soften as the years pass; Hopefully you've learned how to "get around" his jealousy, or at least cope xo

    I didn't say she was always flirting with/hitting on men or women. She also answered my question already. Thanks though <3

    LOL! My bad! xo
  • kristinleah939
    kristinleah939 Posts: 14 Member
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    Trouble :o
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 27,910 Member
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    hdatres wrote: »
    My husband is really sensitive and jealous. If we're riding down the road and I say "he has a nice truck" my husband will say "well, get him if that's what you want"
    He knew when he met me 4 years ago, that I was a social butterfly and love talking to people,
    So, in my case I can't even make a comment about or too another person man or woman ( because I'm bi) without being criticized for it.
    But my guess, is if you have to sneak or hide it it's a bad thing.

    It's dreadful to have to walk around on eggshells all the time. That sounds emotionally abusive to me.
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
    edited April 2016
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    I must not know what flirting is. I think of it as a harmless social pleasantry not intended to lead to sex, and certainly not out of line for a married person, as long as it stays on the flattering, but not sexual, side. People don't stop needing friends just because they get married.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,296 Member
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    Merriam Webster says it's totally fine. I agree.

    flirt
    verb \ˈflərt\

    Simple Definition of flirt
    : to behave in a way that shows a sexual attraction for someone but is not meant to be taken seriously
    : to think about something or become involved in something in a way that is usually not very serious
    : to come close to reaching or experiencing something
  • LeaLeaLouise89
    LeaLeaLouise89 Posts: 44 Member
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    Like playing with fire ... bound to get burnt!!
  • Peter_Brady
    Peter_Brady Posts: 3,750 Member
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    LeaLeaLouise89 wrote: »
    Like playing with fire ... bound to get burnt!!

    Among the full definition according to Merriam Webster

    : to come close to reaching or experiencing something —used with with <flirting with disaster>
  • kdtesoriero
    kdtesoriero Posts: 141 Member
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    I am a total flirt! I love flirting with men. He knew it when he married me.
  • lesdebo
    lesdebo Posts: 39 Member
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    I flirt but dont go any further
  • _whatsherface
    _whatsherface Posts: 1,238 Member
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    I personally have an open marriage so it's whatever.
  • tcarp8
    tcarp8 Posts: 370 Member
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    Good. B)
  • Mile_High_Runner
    Mile_High_Runner Posts: 56 Member
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    Very bad.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,793 Member
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    Very disrespectful to you spouse.
  • Mile_High_Runner
    Mile_High_Runner Posts: 56 Member
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    TheRoadDog wrote: »
    Very disrespectful to you spouse.

    Agreed, very disrespectful, especially if it goes to nude photos, KIK and Skype.

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