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    Married and heavy flirting good or bad

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    • Posts: 5,276 Member
      Merriam Webster says it's totally fine. I agree.

      flirt
      verb \ˈflərt\

      Simple Definition of flirt
      : to behave in a way that shows a sexual attraction for someone but is not meant to be taken seriously
      : to think about something or become involved in something in a way that is usually not very serious
      : to come close to reaching or experiencing something
    • Posts: 44 Member
      Like playing with fire ... bound to get burnt!!
    • Posts: 3,750 Member
      LeaLeaLouise89 wrote: »
      Like playing with fire ... bound to get burnt!!

      Among the full definition according to Merriam Webster

      : to come close to reaching or experiencing something —used with with <flirting with disaster>
    • Posts: 141 Member
      I am a total flirt! I love flirting with men. He knew it when he married me.
    • Posts: 39 Member
      I flirt but dont go any further
    • Posts: 1,235 Member
      I personally have an open marriage so it's whatever.
    • Posts: 369 Member
      Good. B)
    • Posts: 56 Member
      Very bad.
    • Posts: 11,788 Member
      Very disrespectful to you spouse.
    • Posts: 56 Member
      TheRoadDog wrote: »
      Very disrespectful to you spouse.

      Agreed, very disrespectful, especially if it goes to nude photos, KIK and Skype.

    • Posts: 4,537 Member
      TxGlenn251 wrote: »
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      Agreed, very disrespectful, especially if it goes to nude photos, KIK and Skype.

      Nude photos are more than flirting.

      I guess I thought this was talking about real life flirting and not all of the MFP flirting.
    • Posts: 18 Member
      A little flirt never hurt.
    • Posts: 1,737 Member
      what IS heavy flirting? I was unaware that there are "degrees" of flirting... but then again I am an EMU... I say this... I try to smile at everyone I come across in my day... sometimes I get a smile back...and sometimes there's a little zap of electricity... like..."Hmm... that smile definitely said I would not be averse to taking the smile one step further..." and that is as far as it ever goes... why ruin a good thing... two people can live a flirty little happily ever after in just fractions of a second... NOW... if you are on the other hand... having private discussions revolving around intimate subjects... that isn't flirting... that IS betrayal... if you are okay with that... then... you have your reasons...Emu's don't judge
    • Posts: 36 Member
      None. It only plants the seeds for future infidelity.
    • Posts: 4,553 Member
      edited April 2016
      There's no one sized, fits all answer to this question. Just like there is no one sized, fits all equation to a successful relationship.
    • Posts: 821 Member
      I feel being married and accepting others oral advances and nodding them off is okay. Intentionally sending your own signals to someone else or accepting physical advances is another story (unless it is understood by both partners that it is okay). Sometimes its just easier to get along with people by being outgoing and joking around, instead of a prude.
      jnichel wrote: »
      There's no one sized, fit all answer to this question. Just like there is no one sized, fit all equation to a successful relationship.

      but like this guy said...............exactly this
    • Posts: 22,834 Member
      Peter_Brady wrote: »
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      Peter Brady with the threadsurrection...on topic.
    • Posts: 78 Member
      I do it all the time
    • Posts: 813 Member
      Who do you love?! Go flirt with him/her. The end!
    • Posts: 1,453 Member
      gmoneycole wrote: »
      Who do you love?! Go flirt with him/her. The end!

      Uh, this yeah.
    • Posts: 3,750 Member
      Timshel_ wrote: »
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      Peter Brady with the threadsurrection...on topic.

      wwjd-atheist-star-wars-religion-jesus-demotivational-poster-1288375232.jpg
    • Posts: 22,834 Member
      What about Married and light people flirting? Do I have to be heavy? And what is flirting? If I tell a girl she is hot? If I see them nood? If I do a cam session?
    • Posts: 680 Member
      No way. It makes me so uncomfortable - I am completely, totally, head-over-heels in love with my husband. I've had a few men on this site message me, flirting. I pretty much just delete. And I like to flirt with my husband, who is married to me. Does that count? :D
    • Posts: 141 Member
      What is considered heavy flirting?
    • Posts: 16 Member
      A person should never dis-respect the one they are married to or in a serious committed relationship.
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    • Posts: 1 Member
      Most of these comments are wildly judgemental and narrow minded. Every couple has the right to define what their relationship looks like. From very strict monogamy to something polyamorous. Respecting your partner means living within the boundaries that you've agreed upon, whatever they may be.
    • Posts: 876 Member
      edited September 2017
      Hahaha these comments though
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    • Posts: 4,619 Member
      Bad?
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