LGBT chit-chatters?

OpinionatedCyborg wrote: »

Straight, proudly.

newmeadow wrote: »

salembambi wrote: »

newmeadow wrote: »

salembambi wrote: »

newmeadow wrote: »

jaelynsmith wrote: »

SassyMommasaurus wrote: »

jaelynsmith wrote: »

285to170 wrote: »

jaelynsmith wrote: »

Hey all I'm 27 bisexual woman, in a monogamous relationship with my husband of 7 years let's be friends! Need some motivational friends to kick me in the A**

My condolences

WTF does that even mean?

That they feel sorry for you?


Understand where they're coming from since I don't believe monogamy. Not as fun.

So because they can't be in a monogamous relationship, they have to be rude about the choice I made for my life? If that's the kind of people in this chat group, I'm out.

You are married to a man and are monogamous within your marriage, which is a lifetime commitment. Yet you still identify as bisexual?

You seem to feel sincerely offended by the comment offered. Yet you intentionally entered a thread for LGBT people, where traditional values are not usually commonplace. Perhaps you'd be more compatible chatting in threads with monogamous women married to men who limit themselves to having sex only with their husbands.

Have you considered entering discussions at religious sites where monogamy is valued and practiced by both the men and the women? The likelihood of becoming the recipient of comments like the one you take umbrage to is probably nil.

MFP is about "fitness". Consequently most discussions are body related and include heaps and heaps of: 1) body consciousness, 2) body celebration, 2) body fixation, 3) body hobbies (promiscuity), 4) crude jokes, 5) sexual innuendo, 6) obsession with appearance; and 7) various expressions of dysmorphia.

Sometimes it's more fun to lurk and count your blessings. Otherwise, like I said - go with the religious sites.

just because someone is in a committed relationship does not all the sudden make them no longer bisexual.....

when i date someone i am always bisexual i dont suddenly only like dcks or vag

If woman is married to a man, who identifies as monogamous, and also identifies as bisexual - it would be prudent to question what the future holds in terms of maintaining said monogamy.

I love the bisexuals and homosexuals in my life as neighbors, friends, co-workers, family members, etc.

But if I were being pursued romantically by a man who identified as bisexual, and he promised me commitment and monogamy whilst still identifying as bisexual - I would feel very uncertain about how he would manage temptation futuristically and decline the offer.

oh damn i forgot

bisexuals are sluts how silly of me

let me just listen to someone who is not bisexual tell me what it is to be bisexual

I didn't make that specific generalization actually. I was commenting on the curiousness of why a person who had made a marital commitment to a member of the opposite sex would continue to identify as bisexual. I interpret it as Yeah, I'm married but I continue to leave my options open.

I identify as heterosexual and always have. However, when I was sexually active I was always monogamous. I understood there was dick all around me, some it attached to attractive faces and bodies. But once my commitment was made - I knew the dick all around me was none of my business and presented no temptation for me. I understand there are bisexuals and homosexuals who take commitment seriously and respond the same way.

FridayApril01st2016 wrote: »

newmeadow wrote: »

salembambi wrote: »

newmeadow wrote: »

jaelynsmith wrote: »

SassyMommasaurus wrote: »

jaelynsmith wrote: »

285to170 wrote: »

jaelynsmith wrote: »

Hey all I'm 27 bisexual woman, in a monogamous relationship with my husband of 7 years let's be friends! Need some motivational friends to kick me in the A**

My condolences

WTF does that even mean?

That they feel sorry for you?


Understand where they're coming from since I don't believe monogamy. Not as fun.

So because they can't be in a monogamous relationship, they have to be rude about the choice I made for my life? If that's the kind of people in this chat group, I'm out.

You are married to a man and are monogamous within your marriage, which is a lifetime commitment. Yet you still identify as bisexual?

You seem to feel sincerely offended by the comment offered. Yet you intentionally entered a thread for LGBT people, where traditional values are not usually commonplace. Perhaps you'd be more compatible chatting in threads with monogamous women married to men who limit themselves to having sex only with their husbands.

Have you considered entering discussions at religious sites where monogamy is valued and practiced by both the men and the women? The likelihood of becoming the recipient of comments like the one you take umbrage to is probably nil.

MFP is about "fitness". Consequently most discussions are body related and include heaps and heaps of: 1) body consciousness, 2) body celebration, 2) body fixation, 3) body hobbies (promiscuity), 4) crude jokes, 5) sexual innuendo, 6) obsession with appearance; and 7) various expressions of dysmorphia.

Sometimes it's more fun to lurk and count your blessings. Otherwise, like I said - go with the religious sites.

just because someone is in a committed relationship does not all the sudden make them no longer bisexual.....

when i date someone i am always bisexual i dont suddenly only like dcks or vag

If woman is married to a man, who identifies as monogamous, and also identifies as bisexual - it would be prudent to question what the future holds in terms of maintaining said monogamy.

I love the bisexuals and homosexuals in my life as neighbors, friends, co-workers, family members, etc.

But if I were being pursued romantically by a man who identified as bisexual, and he promised me commitment and monogamy whilst still identifying as bisexual - I would feel very uncertain about how he would manage temptation futuristically and decline the offer.

That'd be like saying that a straight person, can no longer be straight; while in a committed relationship to 1 person because for them to be straight, it means that they're either attracted to men or women, not a man or a woman! Being straight is an attraction to the gender, opposite of your own of various people; not just the gender of 1 person.