Why flirting on MFP is a bad idea..

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  • Oh I know we're all beautiful! That's why we're trying so very hard to change what we look like...

    I'm sure people join MFP for all kinds of reasons but many (most?) of us joined MFP to be healthier, not solely to change our appearance.

    Oh a little bebe is just a few days! Congratulations!:drinker:
  • debbiequack
    debbiequack Posts: 275 Member
    I am newly single, and excited about meeting Mr. right and enjoying life. Even though I've noticed some flirty remarkes on this site, It's still reeking with " Forget about dating signs" I have come to the conclusion that it's like "bathroom meet.com" When you're at your worst, trying to recapture the "better you" and you are staring your potential love in the face, Well what's romantic about that! Another way to look at it, we're in a factory being prepped and honed & transformed into wonderful, attractive, beautiful people. Just not done yet. Oh I know we're supposed to be beautiful as we are, I'm just saying...

    It's why dating is forbidden in AA, if you think about it.

    Debbie
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    I am newly single, and excited about meeting Mr. right and enjoying life. Even though I've noticed some flirty remarkes on this site, It's still reeking with " Forget about dating signs" I have come to the conclusion that it's like "bathroom meet.com" When you're at your worst, trying to recapture the "better you" and you are staring your potential love in the face, Well what's romantic about that! Another way to look at it, we're in a factory being prepped and honed & transformed into wonderful, attractive, beautiful people. Just not done yet. Oh I know we're supposed to be beautiful as we are, I'm just saying...

    It's why dating is forbidden in AA, if you think about it.

    Debbie

    I guess...if you equate becoming fit and healthy to getting off of an addiction. I understand for some of us that could be a valid comparisons. For the majority though...I think its something different.
  • debbiequack
    debbiequack Posts: 275 Member
    Oh I know we're all beautiful! That's why we're trying so very hard to change what we look like...

    Changing how I look is COMPLETELY secondary. I'm trying to avoid some health problems. I have always liked the way I look :)

    Debbie
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Why this keeps getting brought up is a mystery to me.
    You have control of how you use and interact on this website,you can report any unwanted PMs when they happen and block the person sending them.
    To worry about how others act is just silly.
    As I have said before,the game threads hold no interest to me,the endless TOM threads to me are annoying but know there will be a new one or several a day.
    I just ignore them.

    Sheesh.
  • yummy♥
    yummy♥ Posts: 612 Member
    *cracks open the bathroom door and peeks out* sheesh, is everyone really still talking about this!

    *goes back to having fun!!!*
  • LeeKetty1176
    LeeKetty1176 Posts: 881 Member
    Oh .its not a dating site ! DAM IT ! and here was me wasting my money !

    seriously for one min (YES I CAN DO THAT), it cant be any surprise to ANYONE that flirting happens because most people use the site cos they feel bad about how they look..................all of a sudden people start saying NICE things///////things that you might not of heard for a while, things like........ WELL DONE..........or YOU LOOK GREAT............. it only natural that people start to want that attention more and more.... that why people come on here all the time.

    Flirting is human nature.............. if people dont like it or dont want it, if you come across it just say thanks but no thanks.

    if you do like it..................... please pm me :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Oh .its not a dating site ! DAM IT ! and here was me wasting my money !

    seriously for one min (YES I CAN DO THAT), it cant be any surprise to ANYONE that flirting happens because most people use the site cos they feel bad about how they look..................all of a sudden people start saying NICE things///////things that you might not of heard for a while, things like........ WELL DONE..........or YOU LOOK GREAT............. it only natural that people start to want that attention more and more.... that why people come on here all the time.

    Flirting is human nature.............. if people dont like it or dont want it, if you come across it just say thanks but no thanks.

    if you do like it..................... please pm me :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Never thought of it that way.. good point..:huh:
  • DizzieLittleLifter
    DizzieLittleLifter Posts: 1,020 Member
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    ROFL! :laugh:
  • LeeKetty1176
    LeeKetty1176 Posts: 881 Member
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    ROFL! :laugh:

    hahahahahah
  • Stephanie08
    Stephanie08 Posts: 1,023 Member
    *cracks open the bathroom door and peeks out* sheesh, is everyone really still talking about this!

    *goes back to having fun!!!*

    LOL!!!
  • SetecAstronomy
    SetecAstronomy Posts: 470 Member
    I can't add anything that hasn't already been said, other than maybe I should include my status in my profile. LOL
  • updowngirl
    updowngirl Posts: 31 Member
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    Sorry--I just wanted to see this again! LMAOwS (with snorting)
  • GrampsWooha
    GrampsWooha Posts: 184
    U lost me at bathroommeet.com
  • crystalslight
    crystalslight Posts: 322 Member
    Hahaha! Funny responses to a pointless topic. LOL
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    yeah really hard to blur the lines on that one.....but....

    wanna know what I couldn't stand? being on match.com and I get pm's saying ____________ just burned 500 calories doing 40 minutes of "running 5.2 mph". Really????? I'm here to get laid, not read about your calorie burn!!!! ****

    ****sorry Taso I had to reuse your line*****
  • JingleMadera
    JingleMadera Posts: 13 Member
    I am newly single, and excited about meeting Mr. right and enjoying life. Even though I've noticed some flirty remarkes on this site, It's still reeking with " Forget about dating signs" I have come to the conclusion that it's like "bathroom meet.com" When you're at your worst, trying to recapture the "better you" and you are staring your potential love in the face, Well what's romantic about that! Another way to look at it, we're in a factory being prepped and honed & transformed into wonderful, attractive, beautiful people. Just not done yet. Oh I know we're supposed to be beautiful as we are, I'm just saying...

    Hey meeting in the bathroom is not a bad idea, put on the glamour another day. Hey I get what your saying, didn't know it was so many mentally challenged people on here. LOL
  • Cella30
    Cella30 Posts: 539 Member
    yeah really hard to blur the lines on that one.....but....

    wanna know what I couldn't stand? being on match.com and I get pm's saying ____________ just burned 500 calories doing 40 minutes of "running 5.2 mph". Really????? I'm here to get laid, not read about your calorie burn!!!! ****

    ****sorry Taso I had to reuse your line*****

    omg! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    LOL you sound like a sweety, enjoy your drink!:drinker:

    I sound like a sweetie? You mean women want to unwrap me and put me in their mouths? How rude!

    Now, I'm looking for a trophy wife. I think it's potiche in French. Any idea where I can find one of those (I am guessing you will understand the joke...)

    Still loving this thread.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    LOL you sound like a sweety, enjoy your drink!:drinker:

    I sound like a sweetie? You mean women want to unwrap me and put me in their mouths? How rude!

    Now, I'm looking for a trophy wife. I think it's potiche in French. Any idea where I can find one of those (I am guessing you will understand the joke...)

    Still loving this thread.

    I have not gotten any suggestive PMs from it yet, :angry:
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    LOL you sound like a sweety, enjoy your drink!:drinker:

    I sound like a sweetie? You mean women want to unwrap me and put me in their mouths? How rude!

    Now, I'm looking for a trophy wife. I think it's potiche in French. Any idea where I can find one of those (I am guessing you will understand the joke...)

    Still loving this thread.

    I have not gotten any suggestive PMs from it yet, :angry:

    Poor guy lol, my friends list has grown by a mile =p.

    TEASING!
  • Stephanie08
    Stephanie08 Posts: 1,023 Member
    LOL you sound like a sweety, enjoy your drink!:drinker:

    I sound like a sweetie? You mean women want to unwrap me and put me in their mouths? How rude!

    Now, I'm looking for a trophy wife. I think it's potiche in French. Any idea where I can find one of those (I am guessing you will understand the joke...)

    Still loving this thread.

    I have not gotten any suggestive PMs from it yet, :angry:

    Rrrrrttthhhaaaoooowww (with left eye brow flittering up and down) :bigsmile:
  • Stephanie08
    Stephanie08 Posts: 1,023 Member
    Still loving this thread.

    Me too!!!
  • If you make sense and open yourself up to others you can meet your Mr or Mrs Right anywhere including MFP, even though it's not this sites purpose. But, if you talk goobley gook, act like a desperado and bag out MFP (which is basically all the members of this site) noone here will want to get to know you. Be yourself if you know who that is!
  • Still loving this thread.

    Me too!!!

    Thanks! Its been a wild ride but a lot of fun!:laugh: :laugh:
  • MsRobin_TheSequel
    MsRobin_TheSequel Posts: 127 Member
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    This is the funniest *kitten* I've read on the board ever!!!

    I'm with the people that say, take what you want, leave the rest.
  • MsRobin_TheSequel
    MsRobin_TheSequel Posts: 127 Member
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    HILARIOUS!!!!!!
  • Thanks for the Topic,:happy: You are right, this site is reeking with those signs! :noway:
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    I'm in who wants to flirt?????? P.S. No DUDES
  • TheTeeWhy
    TheTeeWhy Posts: 186
    This topic is hilarious, though I dont think flirting is a terrible terrible thing.
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