Married but feels guilty
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ladies, I apologize for Mr. 40's words making your body sound like nothing more than an amusement park. Unfortunately so many men look at women as a piece of meat. No offense meant to you Mr. 40, I just believe differently than you do sir.I'll bet you are the only guy who feels this way.
he is full of crap and trying to be smooth.......
T&A is like the best thing outside of cheese fries and pizza..............and alcohol.
another non-believer....ask my friends list about me sending "member" parts to break down the stigma of sexual organs. The body is beautiful and does not need to be objectified. #BreakingDownBarriers0 -
If you wouldn't say it with your spouse standing right next to you, then its inappropriate.0
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erinwilliams10 wrote: »If you wouldn't say it with your spouse standing right next to you, then its inappropriate.
I do not disagree...but you are talking to a guy that tried to hook up a 3-some with a nurse as my dad and wife was in the emergency room with me....0 -
Anything you do that you would not do with your wife's knowledge is disrespectful and/or cheating.2
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Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
But I love the "ugly old hags". They come up to me in church and tell me how they wish their sons were like me. That sends my ego higher above Jesus perched in the dome.JeromeBarry1 wrote: »Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
But what would you do if women talk to you?JeromeBarry1 wrote: »MsRuffBuffNStuff wrote: »I think if you feel guilty, maybe you're doing something you shouldn't - ONLY because you attach meaning to it. It's not inherently wrong to talk to other people...
WRONG! It is inherently wrong for me to talk to other people, especially women.
"Hey baby, you're so hot, but I have a hot wife and therefore you are my sister."
Something like that?
But my sisters are hotter than my wife. Outside of work-related communications, I only speak to ugly old hags.
And... you're locked up... You wasted no time this week.0 -
PowerMan40 wrote: »toned_thugs_n_harmony wrote: »LiftingLady5 wrote: »LiftingLady5 wrote: »I suppose if it's something you wouldn't feel comfortable with her reading then don't post it. Only you are going to know your own comfort level. Telling someone they look good doesn't mean you are trying to seduce them.
Wait, if a girl says, "Good Morning" or "Excuse me, but you're in my way" then that's not her trying to flirt with me?
Does she lift up her shirt and show you her boobs? If she does...it is flirting. If not...just a regular day. Of course, my flirting skills are probably wrong.
showing people your boobs is a form of flirting?!? no wonder everyone thinks I like them!
Boobs are over-rated..just another body part, like an arm or something
You are sooo wrong...... fun bags, hooterz, They are what makes the world turn Bro..
ladies, I apologize for Mr. 40's words making your body sound like nothing more than an amusement park. Unfortunately so many men look at women as a piece of meat. No offense meant to you Mr. 40, I just believe differently than you do sir.
You can refrain from apologizing for me, thanks I meant every last word of what I said.
I believe me and you will always disagree, so we should sit at different lunch room tables from now on....
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this board IS addictive - gotta admit, but we're straying from the question. Basically - if you can't type it with your spouse looking over your shoulder, then don't. pretty simple0
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Are you grabbing their woo woo while complimenting them?
You should stop Trump.2 -
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Well, this is one thing we single people don't have to worry about anymore!0
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If you are concerned you are either over worrying (and probably don't need to). Or you feel you are doing something wrong. You could talk to your wife. You might be pleasantly surprised by the conversation. I think compliments are fine. But, different people have different boundaries.0
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LOL.....the jealousy factor of a significant other, that is. As far as the boobie discussion....have at it fellas. It's pretty entertaining.0
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I agree talk to your wife. She will tell you what she prefers. I choose not to have male friends on here being a married woman myself. There are fine lines in marriage and if you are married you will know what those lines for you and your spouse. Also from looking at past failed marriages in my family something small and innocent can always turn to something else. But that is just my opinion. Everyone has their own and will give it to you. You should just ask your wife and see what she says.1
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Well some women are secure and some aren't it depends on the person. Also it depends on the compliment too. If it is truly innocent then he shouldn't be worried about talking to his wife. If not then there's your answer.
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crystalsan726 wrote: »Well some women are secure and some aren't it depends on the person. Also it depends on the compliment too. If it is truly innocent then he shouldn't be worried about talking to his wife. If not then there's your answer.
Ha! Until an argument starts then all that secure crap turns to raw crazy and starts bringing stuff up from ten thousand years ago shiit they even record what you say in your sleep for ammo purposes
Well if an argument starts then I guess he will have his answer now won't he?! LoL! If there are issues there to begin with then he should know not to be commenting on pictures. But if he chooses to that is on him.1 -
Everyone is different. But, not all women feel threatened by their partner admiring women. And certainly not online from a far distance. And vice versa. We are all still human. If he/she is giving unwanted compliments then that's not cool.0
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BinaryPulsar wrote: »Everyone is different. But, not all women feel threatened by their partner admiring women. And certainly not online from a far distance. And vice versa. We are all still human. If he/she is giving unwanted compliments then that's not cool.
Well said.1 -
Lol.... is this real?2
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LiftingLady5 wrote: »Well now I know @3M_TA3 doesn't think much of my boobs. Geeeez. That's what I had going for me.
@LiftingLady5 your boobs are awesome...just trolling for FR and random boob pics....it failed....0 -
Are you complimenting them with your dick? No? Okay then.5
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Everyone has different rules for their relationships. A lot of couples aren't bothered by looking. They might be turned on by seeing their partner flirt. What about the people who are allowed to touch but not go all the way, or do whatever they want physically with other people but not do anything emotionally? We can't possibly know what's considered acceptable behavior in your relationship.1
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Noelani1503 wrote: »Everyone has different rules for their relationships. A lot of couples aren't bothered by looking. They might be turned on by seeing their partner flirt. What about the people who are allowed to touch but not go all the way, or do whatever they want physically with other people but not do anything emotionally? We can't possibly know what's considered acceptable behavior in your relationship.
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compliments are fine like "way to go"
avoid things like "looking hot"0 -
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LiftingLady5 wrote: »compliments are fine like "way to go"
avoid things like "looking hot"
'yes but a lot of people on here want to approve their appearance with becoming more physically fit...so a compliment such as "Way to go, you are looking hot" isn't all that unreasonable. Its the nature of things. Its not like saying, "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic". That would be too much and his wife would be mad I bet.
It could be argued that "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic" is appropriate standard for MFP member responses. As long as he sent his wife a D pic too, it's ok.1 -
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LiftingLady5 wrote: »LiftingLady5 wrote: »LiftingLady5 wrote: »compliments are fine like "way to go"
avoid things like "looking hot"
'yes but a lot of people on here want to approve their appearance with becoming more physically fit...so a compliment such as "Way to go, you are looking hot" isn't all that unreasonable. Its the nature of things. Its not like saying, "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic". That would be too much and his wife would be mad I bet.
It could be argued that "Way to go, you are looking hot....I'm sending you a dic pic" is appropriate standard for MFP member responses. As long as he sent his wife a D pic too, it's ok.
He could just tell his wife that he doesn't even need to send her a dic pic too, because she gets the real thing. I bet she would see how lucky she is then.
u r hilarious........but not real lol
When I looked in the mirror this morning I looked pretty real to me.
Sorry lulu, you're not real. That's just the way it goes sometimes.0
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