A text message I received...what do you think?
I would love to hear your opinions on the following message.... I received this last night and I still haven't replied, cried a little and cant stop thinking about it.....
Of course you are important to me, how could you not be
But I want you to start putting more effort into training and getting into shape, as I am surrounded by people who are in shape and training hard all the time, and all these people have full time jobs too, and get tired but still do their training
so I'm used to seeing hard working, slim and toned girls all day, and want to be proud to show off my girlfriend as being just as hard working and in just as good of shape
Chat tomorrow
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Of course you are important to me, how could you not be
But I want you to start putting more effort into training and getting into shape, as I am surrounded by people who are in shape and training hard all the time, and all these people have full time jobs too, and get tired but still do their training
so I'm used to seeing hard working, slim and toned girls all day, and want to be proud to show off my girlfriend as being just as hard working and in just as good of shape
Chat tomorrow
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Tell him to eff off. Then send him pics of you with someone else. I'll be your prop for the pic.32
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happilymegan wrote: »Ummm tell him to eat a bag of d!cks
THIS!12 -
happilymegan wrote: »Ummm tell him to eat a bag of d!cks
This. 10000x this.7 -
My reply would be
I want to be proud of my boyfriend and you're a *kitten* shallow *kitten*
Lose my number
Have a nice day29 -
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His response sounded like an answer to a question. What did you ask him?2
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What the hell does this guy do where he is surrounded by fit people all day? How long have you been dating and what were the pre-cursors to this discussion. This doesn't seem appropriate.6
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If it were me, I avoid shallow people that lie like that.1
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We should throw him a blanket party...What an *kitten*0
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thisonetimeatthegym wrote: »His response sounded like an answer to a question. What did you ask him?
I was like........... I am feeling that i'm am not in your life at the moment, I am feeling that you have no time for me and and i'm not important.0 -
thisonetimeatthegym wrote: »His response sounded like an answer to a question. What did you ask him?
This was my first thought as well. What was the convo prior to this?
If this was out of the blue then I would tell him to eff off and lose his number but you usually don't start something off with "Of course," unless it was preempted... if you asked an opinion and he gave it then you can't really be mad at him for answering it honestly. Honesty doesn't equal being mean.1 -
LiftingRiot wrote: »What the hell does this guy do where he is surrounded by fit people all day? How long have you been dating and what were the pre-cursors to this discussion. This doesn't seem appropriate.
He has just qualified as a PT, works in the gym all day. We have been going out for over 8 years but we are currently doing long distance.0 -
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thisonetimeatthegym wrote: »His response sounded like an answer to a question. What did you ask him?
I was like........... I am feeling that i'm am not in your life at the moment, I am feeling that you have no time for me and and i'm not important.
So now that you've clarified this, I'd say it's time to hand him that bag of dlcks.24 -
If you want to hit the gym and get in shape, do it for yourself and not for his ego. Don't make people a priority if your not a priority to them.21
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Wow, douche...3
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PlaydohPants wrote: »"New phone. Who dis?"
Lmaooo2 -
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So apparently you'd be more important to him if you were in better shape. I'm with the others here. Tell him to F off. You can do better.12
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LiftingRiot wrote: »What the hell does this guy do where he is surrounded by fit people all day? How long have you been dating and what were the pre-cursors to this discussion. This doesn't seem appropriate.
He has just qualified as a PT, works in the gym all day. We have been going out for over 8 years but we are currently doing long distance.
That is a long time. I am sorry. And do you not believe in marriage? 8 years is a long time to not put a ring on it. Your beautiful and young. Maybe its time to find someone that will appreciate you more.11 -
I would love to hear your opinions on the following message.... I received this last night and I still haven't replied, cried a little and cant stop thinking about it.....
Of course you are important to me, how could you not be
But I want you to start putting more effort into training and getting into shape, as I am surrounded by people who are in shape and training hard all the time, and all these people have full time jobs too, and get tired but still do their training
so I'm used to seeing hard working, slim and toned girls all day, and want to be proud to show off my girlfriend as being just as hard working and in just as good of shape
Chat tomorrow
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....And I'd like you to start putting more effort into learning how to treat a lady as I'm surrounded by true gentlemen and I'm used to seeing men who are not so vein and shallow. I want to be proud to show off my boyfriend as not being an arrogant prick.
We will NOT chat tomorrow.31 -
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Get is a** out of your life ASAP. It will never go up from here....5
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I would respond with
"hahahha eff you. Bye Felicia"
I don't take kindly to that crap though.3 -
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He sounds like an emotionally abusive idiot.
8 years is a long time but I think you should cut your losses and move on8 -
Here is a quote that I love, and many of us have seen before, but I think all of us need to hear:
"Sexy is not a size. Every calorie is not a war. Your body is not a battleground. Your value is not measured in pounds. You are just as beautiful as every other woman."
Of course, it really ought to say 'person'; I think we guys need this, too.
I hope you sort things out and either enlighten this person, or find someone who loves YOU for YOU.7
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