A text message I received...what do you think?

smantha32 · January 2017

So apparently you'd be more important to him if you were in better shape. I'm with the others here. Tell him to F off. You can do better.

LiftingRiot · January 2017

aoibhs22 wrote: »

LiftingRiot wrote: »

What the hell does this guy do where he is surrounded by fit people all day? How long have you been dating and what were the pre-cursors to this discussion. This doesn't seem appropriate.

He has just qualified as a PT, works in the gym all day. We have been going out for over 8 years but we are currently doing long distance.

That is a long time. I am sorry. And do you not believe in marriage? 8 years is a long time to not put a ring on it. Your beautiful and young. Maybe its time to find someone that will appreciate you more.

Just_J_Now · January 2017

aoibhs22 wrote: »

I would love to hear your opinions on the following message.... I received this last night and I still haven't replied, cried a little and cant stop thinking about it.....

Of course you are important to me, how could you not be

But I want you to start putting more effort into training and getting into shape, as I am surrounded by people who are in shape and training hard all the time, and all these people have full time jobs too, and get tired but still do their training

so I'm used to seeing hard working, slim and toned girls all day, and want to be proud to show off my girlfriend as being just as hard working and in just as good of shape

Chat tomorrow

...................

....And I'd like you to start putting more effort into learning how to treat a lady as I'm surrounded by true gentlemen and I'm used to seeing men who are not so vein and shallow. I want to be proud to show off my boyfriend as not being an arrogant prick.

We will NOT chat tomorrow.

spicyginger2006 · January 2017

Get is a** out of your life ASAP. It will never go up from here....

DerangedPixi · January 2017

I would respond with
"hahahha eff you. Bye Felicia"

I don't take kindly to that crap though.

synchkat · January 2017

He sounds like an emotionally abusive idiot.
8 years is a long time but I think you should cut your losses and move on

vikinglander · January 2017

Here is a quote that I love, and many of us have seen before, but I think all of us need to hear:

"Sexy is not a size. Every calorie is not a war. Your body is not a battleground. Your value is not measured in pounds. You are just as beautiful as every other woman."

Of course, it really ought to say 'person'; I think we guys need this, too.

I hope you sort things out and either enlighten this person, or find someone who loves YOU for YOU.

ninerbuff · January 2017

Lol, the dude is hung up on being superficial. He views what he HAS as what defines success. Move on. The longer you stay, the more inadequate he'll make you feel.

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nolan44219 · January 2017

here ya go

MayaSPapaya · January 2017

I was shocked when you said you've been together 8 years. If someone said that to me after dating three weeks, we would still be dunzo. Find someone who loves you for YOU. You are beautiful because of who you are. If he doesn't see that, that's a deal breaker.

sw33tp3a1 · January 2017

F* you would be my response back and never talk to him again. What an *kitten*.

jamcdonel · January 2017

I'm getting the vibe that his head is being turned by a PYT at the gym and this is his heavy handed way fo starting the "fade". He is rationalizing his attraction to another woman by projecting on to you. Rip the bandaid off for him. "Bye Felicia".

A man who can't make a solid commitment after eight years isn't worth your time.

livingleanlivingclean · January 2017

nolan44219 wrote: »

here ya go

He can't eat those. He'll get fat.

OP-he sounds like a first class douche. A lying one.... Does his gym only accept pro bikini models, in comp condition, as members? What a crock. Sounds like a bunch of excuses and wank to me.

No one deserves to be spoken to like that. Get out without wasting any more time on someone who clearly doesn't deserve you!

synchkat · January 2017

jamcdonel wrote: »

I'm getting the vibe that his head is being turned by a PYT at the gym and this is his heavy handed way fo starting the "fade". He is rationalizing his attraction to another woman by projecting on to you. Rip the bandaid off for him. "Bye Felicia".

A man who can't make a solid commitment after eight years isn't worth your time.

well said.

Gimsteinn · January 2017

Deal breaker.. Dude's an *kitten*.. Get away and count your blessing.

A text message I received...what do you think?

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