WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2017
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Lanette, my mom bought the “My Pillow” and hates it.
Joyce, yikes! Please, please, take care of yourself. Thanks for letting us know.
Allie, hugs and prayers for you and your dad.
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Good morning everyone3
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Can't help with the pillow thing as I'm a front sleeper and have to have a flat pillow.
Most of the sheets /towels are clean now. Just one lot to go. Drying them is more of a problem as I don't have a tumbler dryer.
I've got some curried sprouted beans in the Instant Pot to go with sea bass, broccoli and raita. Lovely smell.
The delivery people had run out of blinis so I made my own rather than face the huge supermarket! They are in the freezer now, waiting for New Years Eve. Light creme fraiche and faux caviar blinis are our go to celebration food as it is so easy and delicious, but I have never actually made the blinis before. I'm also going to cook a zucchini lasagna for the early evening, using zucchini strips as pasta. I will make the ragu tomorrow. Freeze some and keep some for the lasagna. It's just us, but my son bought us a very special bottle of champagne for Christmas, so we will have that with the blinis. That all depends on whether we come down with Bea's flu, of course. Edie had it the previous week and had a temperature for 5 days!
I'm trying the trick mentioned on the MFP blogs of having a teaspoon of olive oil on an empty stomach to cure hunger pangs. I don't think it's working as I'm still starving! :laugh: They also suggest water with a tiny amount of sugar. But I like olive oil better.
I'm worrying a bit about my cancer friend who hasn't replied to my text or email. She's probably just overwhelmed with solicitude.
Much love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxx
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Lanette ... love reading your posts ... and as I was reading, a My Pillow commercial came on tv. Buy one get one free with Promo code MP29. I have know idea what they're like though ...
Penny ... what a magical Christmas memory!
Margaret ... you painted the Cardinal? I love it!
My father is doing better and they plan to release him today. The doctors would like him to go to rehab but he will have no parts of it. So he and my very frail mother will try to make a go of it at home. It's not a good plan. Time Magazine just posted an article about 5 surprising things that are evident in people who live to 100 ... stubborn, domineering, authoritative people are more likely to live longer .... that would describe my father who will be 89 on the 1st. His mother lived to 93 his grandmother 95 and a great-aunt made it well into her 100s.
I am getting the organization bug. I have followed that de-cluttering website that recommends 15 minutes every day... problem is, for the past few years I only get through the first 6 weeks. So I have some of the cleanest kitchen drawers you can imagine ( the first month's schedule)! I need to move on in the program.
It's bitter cold here ... -1 F this morning ... but the sun is shining and that makes all the difference.
Beth near Buffalo
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Beth, I think I do the same one. They really need to run it backwards one year, just for you and me. I had unfollowed the FB group, because it was making me feel guilty, but I refollowed it just this morning. I’m such a sucker for New Year’s Resolutions.4
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Michele: I think I had your daughter's names mixed up. Jessica is the one I meant as being a blessing. I know what a struggle you've had accepting Denise's choices. I have similar struggles accepting my daughter's choices. :ohwell:
Beth: The photos are gorgeous!
Joyce: AAA is a good asset, especially as we age and are less able to handle heavy items like car batteries. We needed their services last summer when we were having car trouble with DH's car. They paid for the tow from the breakdown point to the VW dealer, and that is about 34 miles. Our big problem with them is location. They seem to think that we should be doing a lot of business with a little town in Washington that is right across the river from us. Nice theory, but there isn't a bridge between here and there so it would be 44 miles to get there from here, and 44 miles back. We explained and they gave us the support we needed. :flowerforyou:
Allie: Sending prayers for your dad. I hope the colonoscopy goes well and the news is good.
Lenora: DH has pill caddies that he sets up every week. His caddies allow for two doses per day but if he needed four he could use two caddies per day, one for am and the other for pm. I hope you get things set up in such a way that you feel confident about managing your medicine. I am so glad that you are back with us!!! :bigsmile;
Barbie: I've used the seed stitch forever in my knitting, but I don't know the trinity stitch. :ohwell:
Sue: The pork roast looks wonderful. Is there a secret for keeping it moist? :smilie:
Joyce: Sending prayers for a good outcome.
Sharon: One day at a time. I'm sending prayers for a good outcome for your situation with Larry. (((HUGS)))
Wendy: I am sorry your purse was snatched & your new phone missing. :grumble: I have a purse made by DH. It is a convertible over the shoulder version, and I wear it across my body or under my coat in busy public locations. I can also shorten the strap and make it into a belt. It is small compared to many purses but it holds my keys, billfold and a checkbook well enough. I hope you get things sorted out asap.
Marcelyn: Somebody's idea of humor, no doubt. I am sorry that it is offensive. :grumble:
Karen: I love the bald eagle photo. We have them in summer but they don't stay for winter here. :noway:
Becca: Procraftinating is a fabulous word. I resemble that remark! :laugh:
I am way behind, but have some hope of eventually being caught up with everyone. The grandson is born and the dog is getting better.
Have a great day!
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
"The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another." - William James
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My DH got me the dvd of the movie The Four Seasons for Christmas. Perfect to curl up with since I’m sick. I had several layers of wraps on and hot tea to keep me warm, but easy to discard when the inevitable hot flashes came on.
I had forgotten what a self righteous prick Alan Alda played in this movie. But he has a scene with Carol Burnett (who plays his wife) that I’ve never forgotten and resonates with me like tapping a crystal goblet. They are fighting with each other and he calls her “perfect”. She explodes:
“How dare you call me perfect- when I’m perfect I cease to exist! You don’t have to hug me when I’m low, you don’t have to cheer me up with a bunch of 2 dollar daffodils...nothing!”
I’m struggling with a new friendship right now. Thoughtless words and actions that have cut me to the bone. I’ve never in 50 odd years been able to do anything in this situation- and continue to find myself in it. To say something, to explain how hurtful their thoughtlessness was, is to intentionally cause them pain, or worse to have to bear the typical excuse, I didn’t think it would matter to you, because you are so_______ (fill in the blank with whatever adjective that like “perfect” means I’m invisible and don’t get to feel the same gamut of things others get to).
But as I get older just walking away from people seems to be less and less desirable.
My social skills and awareness work fine if it is my empathy being drawn upon. Kind and thoughtful are often adjectives used to describe me. So how come I so often don’t rate the same in return?
Right now I’m thanking my lucky stars for DH. Truly he is the best thing to ever happen to me. And he has no illusions that I’m perfect .
Wishing everyone happy and healthy,
Rye
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Ladies - At this point in the game - it is just easier to write a general post rather than answer individually; hope I get what I want to say said.
As for the "My Pillow" (advertised on TV??S?), it just 'looks' lumpy to me. We use 'feather pillow' ... soft and mold around head when you lay on them. We both have a king-sized one and a standard sized one. The kings were to replace foam pillows that were way too hard. Standard ones, I don't think Louis will ever give his up. It 'smells' like him - fresh because he takes his daily shower at night. When he isn't here - I lay on it because it smells like him. My king has settled down and I use it, too. He just doesn't want to go through using his until it settles down.
Our ISP (Windstream) is blocking certain emails ... at this point the @Hotmail.com or the @live.com; but, they 'admitted' they were having this issue; but, don't know how long it will take to fix it. If I sue my web-based email program through them I would have to do it over an unsecured line. I'm not willing to do that.
When I got home from hospital, my computers were updated to Microsoft Edge or Office 360 or something that replaced Windows 10. I 'hate' it and was really, really ugly to the technicians last week. Now, it is syching all my devices somehow and I get posts from FB and it seems to have change the settings and is bringing me FB posts that I really don't want to come to my cell. Some of them there, don't appear on my laptop Facebook Wall. I don't ever remember putting it on my cellphone. I do remember putting MFP on it (so I could post food to my MFP page); but, I do remember taking phone to Verizon to have them 'turn off' the notifications I started getting. I prefer to check them on my laptop, not cell ... which is turned off most of the time. I just don't like having the 'dinging' all the time. It also runs my battery down very quickly. They were able to do that. But, I apparently don't know how to 'turn FB off ... or specifically how to 'log out' if that is what you need to do so that it isn't up and running all the time. I have to 'log out' on my laptop. Only place that I know I put it on, because I can 'check it' and still be out here in the den. It seems to be the 'synching' feature that I can't seem to 'grasp' the concept of it. For whatever reason, it has made me a 'bit paranoid' because I am thinking ... who has my information and how? Apparently, every time someone was posting anything that would be coming to my FB Wall it was notifying me on my cell and when I go to the Wall through FB on my laptop, the Walls did not seem to have the same posts. I just feel like 'I am being watched' and it is 'creepy'.
Got to also think of what I want to cook this weekend. Louis wants or needs to go to grocery store today, so I have to decide what I want to cook for Saturday and Sunday and possibly even Monday while DS and DBnL are here. He is so picky about what he eats. They grill out a hamburger (every night), we don't actually have a good grill to cook out on. We have the one Trey had before he got one for his birthday a couple of years ago. Time is passing by so fast. I was looking through my address book and saw former/late boss's obit taped in the back. He's been dead 7 years. That is unbelievable.
I did my nails last night. No polish, because all I do is 'peel it off'. For the first time in years they actually look nice (for once in a long time). Only one that isn't pretty is my 'middle' one on the left hand. It is bruised and looks like it isn't attached to skin under the nail on the right side of it. The spot that looks like a bruise also looks like something I have 'stuck' under the nail, but just can't get out from under it.
Love all the pictures, too. So inspiring and makes me want to get back to my drawing and painting. Since I have been home, I have been working on one of those ones you use colored pencils on. An adult coloring page that Lynn (former HS classmate) brought m while there. One of the nurses went into the Activities Director's room and got about 10 different colored pencils for me to use. She was the one that I really felt as if she had my best interests at heart. I never gave them back. I had already used markers and taped them to his door. He was such a jerk to begin with. Hated his sessions, thought he was acting totally unprofessional and that he was far more antagonistic than I would have thought someone in a S/W's position should have been in a psyche unit. Each day, the last few days ... it just got worse and worse. Made me think of the hospital that I got sent to because the DO (Dumb Ox, maybe) after I was dealing with the "Lithium Toxicity" at the time sent me to simply because I 'wanted to go home'. I end up filing a complaint because she had put a note on my records (over my time in the ICU; and time she was assigned to treat me) because she did not want them to release them to me. I had never asked up to that point that they be released 'to me' ... I had signed an authorization ... actually weekly over a 16-month period of time for them to be released to one of my MDs. I think she knew that she had sort of left herself and the hospital open for a lawsuit because of the transfer. It was amazing how quickly I got them once I called the CEO's office at the hospital and told them I had filed my complaint. When I did get them, I looked through them. There were so much information to show that she was guilty of malpractice it was scary as to what might have happened to me before of incomplete or inaccurate information. Of course, when I got that I filed it with the CSBME. While I was not privy to their investigation ... I did succeed in making it so the hospital refused to renew her contract. I was satisfied with that decision because it meant it would remain on her record until the end of time. Any future employers who would be looking at her 'track record' when considering her for employment would be able to see it. At that point, I did not care who agreed or disagreed with this decision. I had to do it; but, it meant that I now have to travel 2 hours in order to get out of the reach of the local hospital that owns most of them hospitals in SW GA. Actually, the PsycheMD I had been assigned to there told me that I should report her. She had sent me to a very dangerous place. A hospital that housed the 'criminally insane'. I've never been 'criminally insane' ... she just wanted to 'fix me' by getting me 'out of her hair'. She could have sent me home, she just was being a real @$$. I had someone that could have stayed with me 24/7; but, she had not even had me on enough medication that would have gotten my bipolar episode under control. He jacked my medications up from 100mg a day to 800mg a day. That hasn't changed.
Well, hope all y'all have a wonderful weekend. I might post again over the weekend; but, I will probably only be 'lurking'.
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Joyce - thank you for checking in, and glad you're doing well enough to be moved into a regular room.
Allie - still thinking about you and your dad. I know you were hoping for better results. Please keep us posted.
Penny - good to see you, what a lovely memory...
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drkatiebug wrote: »Beth, I think I do the same one. They really need to run it backwards one year, just for you and me. I had unfollowed the FB group, because it was making me feel guilty, but I refollowed it just this morning. I’m such a sucker for New Year’s Resolutions.
Exactly!!
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Hi I would of had to read back 66 pages and more to catch up to all of u. It is still a very popular room.
As for me all is fine. I'm trying again after taking a break from it all. But didn't gain a whole lot before getting back with it. Had a very nice Christmas with all three boys daughter in law and grandkids. There's one son can't be home every Christmas as he works in mine two in two out. This year he was out. So it was great. Looking forward to the same kind of New Years. But receiving brothers and sisters and their families for supper.. Should be fun. As I love to cook and with me it's the more the merrier.
See you all lighter Linda in cold Northern Ontario4 -
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Sitting in dad's hospital room.he is resting...I did get some information that will be needed if he decides no treatment is the way to go...but have a few other irons in the fire...I am mentally exhausted but am here for dad...glad I did take him on that trip....8
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Lanette, My Pillow was successfully sued for false medical claims. “My Pillow claimed it could prevent sleep loss associated with insomnia, restless leg syndrome, neck pain, fibromyalgia, sleep apnea, migraines and other ailments.”
Heather, I hope you hear from your friend soon.
Beth, glad to hear that your father is doing better and is being released. Can you get your parents an Medic Alert button? Can’t remember what they are called but my mom wore one around her neck in case she fell. It’s hard when they want to stay independent.
Rye, glad to hear you are taking care of yourself. Heal quickly my friend. I too can be hurt easily and find it hard to speak up. I think it is always best to say…”I know you didn’t mean to hurt me when you said _________ but I was uncomfortable when you said it.”
Lenora, it must have felt good to do something for yourself and paint your nails.
Well I couldn’t think of just one work for 2018 so I am going with this.
Terry in VT
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Wendy, great attitude regarding the pond scum who stole your wallet! And you're absolutely right, he/she is not worth your time or energy. Hopefully, the police will get some good video of the perpetrator and deal with him/her. Awesome that the thief's charges are being reimbursed!
Allie, big {{{HUGS}}} to you and your dad. I'm so glad you took him to his reunion, a special trip for both of you I'm sure.
Penny, great to hear from you! What a special memory, thank you for sharing.
Like a few others, I need to attack my craft room! We just moved into our house in June, so just kind of put stuff in where there was room. Some of it got organized immediately, other stuff, not so much.... so anyway, my craft room is one of the last rooms that needs a thorough going through. I'm not looking forward to it, but will have to buckle down and git 'er done in the new year.
I have been to the gym two days in a row now, and gave away the majority of the shortbread and gingersnap cookies this morning. Still have some pumpkin pie, but not giving that away, I will have that for dessert for the next few days and then it will be gone also. And then the really good eating will start! I have started paying attention to what I'm putting in my mouth, and have updated my stats here on MFP. I have gained, so wanted to start off on the right foot. I have also decided that I need to step on the scale only once per week, not every day like I have been. Hopefully that will make me more accountable.... Can't hurt! lol
Hope everyone has a great day!
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I changed the words around to be Dream, Believe, Imagine3
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Rye, sorry you are sick and also hurting from something. Consider stepping up high and looking from afar at the situation. Do you encounter the same thing over and over? What could you learn from this, so it doesn't happen again? Or if it continues to happen, could you "react"in a different manner? Refuse to feel hurt...just don't catch that ball that someone has thrown at you, don't take it personally? What good can you make come from this situation? Do you choose the same type of 'friend" who wants to use you, take advantage of you or treat you as inferior? (I am not expecting you to answer any of these things on the forum but just giving you some food for thought as you are in bed recovering...) Wendy
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Did Paul Katemi's ASAP Workout DVD. The plan for tomorrow is to do Gilad's Body Sculpting DVD
We had our Wigilia last night. Denise is getting quite a bit of food to take home, there's things that I've determined will go other places or else she's getting. Between her and the soup kitchen, my refrigerator is pretty emptied out.
We're planning to go out to breakfast this morning. Vince wants to go to Waffle House. I'll just get 2 egg whites fried. Pete mentioned that he would like to get his cousin interested in bowling so I thought it might be good to take them bowling. Then we'll ask them where they'd like to go for dinner (we'll eat out). Depending on the time, we'd like to take them to Charlotte Motor Speedway to see the lights, mainly because I'd like to see them. And if we don't have time, hopefully we can do it tomorrow. I'm just hoping that because they came a day early, that won't mean that they'll leave a day early. Update: I also got bacon since it was so late, figured that would hold me over for lunch.
Penny - your Christmas sounds really nice.
Joyce - I know that it feels really good to get out of ICU. Hopefully, you'll be out of the hospital real soon. So glad there isn't any more bleeding. Did the bleeding cause the tingly sensation?
Gotta think of something to have pork related for New Years. You always have pork on New Years. Then I'll probably get more lettuce so we can have a salad. I'll start giving Vince some of the leftovers.
Don't know why I'm so tired right now.
Lanette - how many times I think how I probably treated my father the same way that my kids are treating me. Sometimes I think they're treating me worse than I treated my father. But now that he's gone, I think of him practically every day and realize how very much he loved me and sacrificed for me (that is, except marrying his second wife. But when he asked me the first time what I would think if he married her, I said "I wouldn't think much of it" and he didn't marry her. Guess at my young age, I knew.). I'm convinced that especially when I'm gone, they'll know how much they were loved. I don't know about Bryan, tho. I don't think I've ever heard of hemp milk. Where do you get it? I've started really liking almond milk
I've kept up with my exercising, even if some days it was for a shorter period of time. Like today the DVD was only something like 45 minutes long. Now for the hard part -- not snacking. Well, I gave away most of the food (or I'm ready to give it away, it's in a bag for Denise out of my sight), I know one type of cookie I can give to a lady who works at the Y (they're her favorite), Vince will eat the chocolate chip cookies, I'll give most of the snickerdoodles to the place where I do the extremepump. Desserts taken care of. Now for me to keep my paws out of it. Well, I think I might be able to do it since I'll constantly remind myself that the less I eat, the more they'll have. I'm someone who likes to give food away (as you know)
I have a feeling Denise and Pete plan to leave tomorrow. They put their Christmas gifts in the car. Well, this was the plan originally, then it was going to be delayed a day because of the dog
My MIL had one of those medic alert necklaces, but she refused to use it. I think she got it just to make Vince feel good. But she "didn't want to bother anyone". She wanted to be independent, even tho she really couldn't and shouldn't have lived alone.
Pete talked about bowling so we'll take him and Denise bowling. Denise asked if there was anything else to do, so I asked her what she'd like to do. No answer. Not sure where they want to go for dinner. I would go for Golden Corral since I don't have to eat a whole lot since I'm not really all that hungry.
Michele in NC
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Learning From Superhumans: The Incredible Fitness and Success of Jack LaLanne
I subscribe to the James Clear email letters and this is what came in today:
by James Clear
Read this on JamesClear.com
Jack LaLanne was a pioneer in the world of fitness.
The gyms that you see all over town? He opened one of the nation's first fitness gyms in 1936.
The machines that fill those gyms? He invented dozens of them.
All of those home workout videos and television weight loss shows? He was the man who first brought fitness into your living room. The Jack LaLanne Show was the longest–running television exercise program of all time. It was on television for 34 years.
And that's just his business career.
If you really want to be impressed, take a look at a handful of his personal fitness achievements.
Here are a few of the fitness feats that LaLanne accomplished…
• He swam from Alcatraz to Fisherman's Wharf in San Francisco while wearing handcuffs.
• At age 42, he set the world record for pushups by doing over 1,000 in 23 minutes.
• At age 45, he did 1,000 jumping jacks and 1,000 pullups in 1 hour and 22 minutes.
• At age 60, he swam from Alcatraz to Fisherman's Wharf for the second time. This time he not only wore handcuffs, but also towed a 1,000 pound boat.
LaLanne was in such remarkable shape that he could do one—armed fingertip pushups while in a completely stretched out position.
Ready for something really incredible?
To celebrate his 70th birthday, LaLanne swam 1.5 miles along the California coast from the Queen's Way Bridge to Long Beach Harbor. And he did it while wearing handcuffs and shackles on his arms and legs and towing 70 row boats holding 70 people.
It sounds impossible, but here's a photo of the 70–year–old LaLanne finishing the swim with all of the boats dragging along behind him.
On his 70th birthday, Jack LaLanne swam 1.5 miles while towing 70 boats filled with 70 people.
What Made Jack LaLanne Different?
In some ways, LaLanne's accomplishments are so out of the ordinary that it's hard to translate them into our own lives. (I mean, I love doing fitness challenges, but I'm not planning to tow 70 boats anytime soon.)
Thankfully, there is a lesson you can learn from Jack LaLanne that applies to nearly everything in your life. You won't discover it by looking at his accomplishments, but rather, by examining his daily habits.
The Daily Routine of Jack LaLanne
The only way you can hurt the body is not use it.
—Jack LaLanne
LaLanne was a big believer in rituals and routines. He realized the power that consistent daily actions could have on his life.
Here are a few of the habits that Jack LaLanne did every day for decades…
• Lift weights and do strength training for 90 minutes.
• Swim or run for 30 minutes (in addition to his strength training).
• Eat 10 raw vegetables.
• Eat two meals: a late breakfast and an early dinner (hmm… that sounds familiar).
• Wake up at 4am (in his later years, LaLanne “slept in” until 5am).
Look at that list. It's not overly long, but imagine doing those things not just for one day or one week, but for 60 years like Jack LaLanne did.
Even at age 94, LaLanne was still exercising for two hours every day. 90 minutes of strength training. 30 minutes of swimming or walking. 10 raw vegetables. Every. Single. Day. For 60 years.
When we see someone who accomplishes something incredible, the easy way out is to discount it, chalk it up to natural talent or genetics, and claim that they were born with something you could never have. It takes the responsibility off of you. But the truth is that most incredible people — even the ones who accomplish superhuman feats — are simply more consistent than everyone else.
It was his incredible consistency that made Jack LaLanne superhuman.
When you look at Jack LaLanne's life, it's easy to focus on the big accomplishments and overlook the daily habits. Similarly, in your own life it's easy to spend all of your time focused on transformations, big goals, and rapid changes, and forget that it's the daily habits that lead to long–term success.
Success is any field is about lifestyle choices, not life–changing transformations. It's your daily routine that will carry you to wherever it is you want to go.
If Something is Important to You, Schedule It
How did Jack LaLanne stick to his daily habits with such consistency?
Do you think he just waited until he felt motivated to workout each day? No way. His consistency has very little to do with willpower or motivation. Nobody is motivated every day for 60 years.
LaLanne knew what was important to him and so he scheduled it into his life. He started every day with strength training. Then he did his swimming and walking. Then he has his breakfast. Same order. Same time. Every time.
If you look at LaLanne's daily habits, everything had a time and place when it was going to happen. Can you say the same about your goals?
So often we tell ourselves things like, “I'm going to eat healthier” or “I'm going to workout more” or “I'm going to start writing more” … but we never say when and where these things are actually going to happen.
Carve out some time. Pick a date. Choose a place. Give your actions a time and a space to live.
LaLanne didn't rely on his willpower or motivation. He just stuck to his daily schedule. That's how all professionals approach their work.
Lessons from LaLanne: Keeping Life In Perspective
In his later years, Jack LaLanne was fond of saying, “I can't afford to die. It would ruin my image.”
Eventually, he passed away at 96 years old. And in all of those years, I think one of his greatest accomplishments was holding on to his happiness as much as his health. Even with all of his fitness achievements, LaLanne didn’t ruin the rest of his life in pursuit of a particular goal.
The balance between achievement and happiness is something that I think about often – not just in my own life, but also in what I write on this site. I'm still working on it, but I believe that you don't have to be dissatisfied to be driven. There's no reason you can't love the life you have and want to make it better at the same time.
But it's not easy. Happiness and gratefulness require constant tending, much like diet and exercise. Your happiness and your health form the basic foundation of your life. There's nothing new or complex about this — despite what the newest commercials for health products, new drugs, and fitness programs want you to believe.
This balance between happiness and achievement is something that I'm working on getting better at myself. What Jack LaLanne showed us — not just in his words, but also through how he lived — is that you can do incredible things and have a wonderful time while doing it.
Learning From Jack LaLanne
Jack LaLanne lived an incredible life, and he mastered something that we can all benefit from: the daily routine.
Is there a skill that is more valuable than the ability to consistently work towards goals that are important to you while maintaining a sense of perspective and happiness?
It's not the incredible achievements, but rather your daily habits that determine who you are and what you accomplish. Get your habits handled, and the rest will fall into place. If we can take this small lesson and apply it to our lives, there is no doubt we will all be better off for it.
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Linda good t see you post again.
I had a good time with my former colleagues at the luncheon today.
I am trying to instill a routine around my sleeping habits. I do think it is helping. I rarely have leg cramps now and find I am only waking up at most one time a night. Slept nine hours last night with one time waking up and had a dream. I am a strong believer in routine especially when trying to change a habit.
Sleep Routine:
All video off at 8 p.m.
Hot bath with Epson salts for Magnesium, All make up off and coconut or shea butter night cream with rose essential oil.
Write in note book...
Check list in bed by 9, drink tart cherry juice before 8 (to up my melatonin for sleep) did I exercise, get outside in the afternoon, listen to my bedtime CD's What did I do today? What to I plan to do tomorrow? What am I grateful for? Did I place my cares on my healing tree?
Listen to yoga relaxation CD
Read for half hour to forty five minutes light reading nothing upsetting
Read with a 15 watt bulb no LED light
Have black out curtains
Cover any light source like the CD player I use to listen to sleep CD
Right before I go to sleep I listen to a CD that puts me into a trance that leads to sleep. Usually I asleep before it it over no later than 10.
Am I able to stick to this routine every single night. No but I try the best I can. Will my routine work for everyone? No! This is what works for me.
I just know if I want to stay healthy sleep is one of the first places for me to start.
Margaret
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Our Christmas was a potluck in a rental hall SIL’s SIS was able to reserve.It’s free to home owners where she lives.
Ppl from both sides of the family,about 26,worked great with plenty of space & table games for teens & adults.
ALLIE,So sorry to hear about your Dad’s health.Prayers to him & you.
Joyce....hoping you will be better soon.
Katla,how lovely to have a new Grson!
Heather,Bea is growing & a beauty.I Enjoy your Grkids pics.
Have a busy few days coming up. Marine Grson & his GF are coming for dinner Monday.
DH has Dr appt Tues & Wed,has a stent removed at hospital outpatient.
That will involve changing our insur info,pre op etc.They said count on 5 hrs to dismissed from out patient.
I take hosp talk with a grain of salt......we’ll get home when we get here.
Thur,Grson leaves for SC & Fri ,Grdaughter flies in for 5 days.
Our only Grdaughter.Don’t get to see her enough.She & BF work & also love to travel,
so are as busy as can be.
Pat in Oh
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Decided on my word for 2018: S T R E T C H
as in: physically, emotionally and financially!
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Wendy, thank you for what you shared about Jack LaLanne. The "take-away" for me is that he put his health and fitness at the top of the list and then matched his actions to it. The point about motivation is also important. If we all waited for motivation, we'd never get anything accomplished.
Margaret, it was interesting to read your sleep routine right after reading about Jack LaLanne's routines. I have my own sleep routines that are different from yours but have enabled me to get satisfactory sleep almost every night. I have read a lot about having a set time to go to bed. Mine is earlier than yours but it is consistent and works for what time I have to get up.
Linda, It's good to hear from you again. I hope you make this thread a regular stopping place.
It's warmer and the snow is melting so it was easier to walk the dogs this morning. They walked a lot and when they were ready to go home, I walked awhile without them. There are still icy places on the roads and parking lots, so being careful is a must.
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Did Paul Katemi's ASAP Workout DVD. The plan for tomorrow is to do Gilad's Body Sculpting DVD
We had our Wigilia last night. Denise is getting quite a bit of food to take home, there's things that I've determined will go other places or else she's getting. Between her and the soup kitchen, my refrigerator is pretty emptied out.
We're planning to go out to breakfast this morning. Vince wants to go to Waffle House. I'll just get 2 egg whites fried. Pete mentioned that he would like to get his cousin interested in bowling so I thought it might be good to take them bowling. Then we'll ask them where they'd like to go for dinner (we'll eat out). Depending on the time, we'd like to take them to Charlotte Motor Speedway to see the lights, mainly because I'd like to see them. And if we don't have time, hopefully we can do it tomorrow. I'm just hoping that because they came a day early, that won't mean that they'll leave a day early. Update: I also got bacon since it was so late, figured that would hold me over for lunch.
Penny - your Christmas sounds really nice.
Joyce - I know that it feels really good to get out of ICU. Hopefully, you'll be out of the hospital real soon. So glad there isn't any more bleeding. Did the bleeding cause the tingly sensation?
Gotta think of something to have pork related for New Years. You always have pork on New Years. Then I'll probably get more lettuce so we can have a salad. I'll start giving Vince some of the leftovers.
Don't know why I'm so tired right now.
Lanette - how many times I think how I probably treated my father the same way that my kids are treating me. Sometimes I think they're treating me worse than I treated my father. But now that he's gone, I think of him practically every day and realize how very much he loved me and sacrificed for me (that is, except marrying his second wife. But when he asked me the first time what I would think if he married her, I said "I wouldn't think much of it" and he didn't marry her. Guess at my young age, I knew.). I'm convinced that especially when I'm gone, they'll know how much they were loved. I don't know about Bryan, tho. I don't think I've ever heard of hemp milk. Where do you get it? I've started really liking almond milk
I've kept up with my exercising, even if some days it was for a shorter period of time. Like today the DVD was only something like 45 minutes long. Now for the hard part -- not snacking. Well, I gave away most of the food (or I'm ready to give it away, it's in a bag for Denise out of my sight), I know one type of cookie I can give to a lady who works at the Y (they're her favorite), Vince will eat the chocolate chip cookies, I'll give most of the snickerdoodles to the place where I do the extremepump. Desserts taken care of. Now for me to keep my paws out of it. Well, I think I might be able to do it since I'll constantly remind myself that the less I eat, the more they'll have. I'm someone who likes to give food away (as you know)
I have a feeling Denise and Pete plan to leave tomorrow. They put their Christmas gifts in the car. Well, this was the plan originally, then it was going to be delayed a day because of the dog
My MIL had one of those medic alert necklaces, but she refused to use it. I think she got it just to make Vince feel good. But she "didn't want to bother anyone". She wanted to be independent, even tho she really couldn't and shouldn't have lived alone.
Pete talked about bowling so we'll take him and Denise bowling. Denise asked if there was anything else to do, so I asked her what she'd like to do. No answer. Not sure where they want to go for dinner. I would go for Golden Corral since I don't have to eat a whole lot since I'm not really all that hungry.
Michele in NC
Why pork on New Year's Eve? I've never heard of that tradition .... and unless it it spicy pulled pork in a burrito -- ick.0 -
Why pork on New Year's Eve? I've never heard of that tradition .... and unless it it spicy pulled pork in a burrito -- ick.
I always heard that this is a German oriented custom. Pork because pigs "root forward" when they eat, showing a desire to move on to the new in the New Year. Usually served with sauerkraut. This was something that my family did as my dad was quite German. My mom and her Swedish background didn't seem to bring any New Year's customs to the family, we had different holidays that we "did Swedish."
Around here it's black-eyed peas and rice. I don't serve it because nobody in my family likes black-eyed peas.
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