Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to ask me to pay him to live with him?
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I would sit tight for a wee while and see how things are in six months,do not give up your place too quickly0
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If I believed this was real, which I *don't*, Jasiek wants a green card. And as a Pole, I could see how his Polish brain could try to request splitting the rent and having it come out as you need to pay me. That's if I believed this was real, which it isn't. For my sanity's sake, it can't be.
We're not going to the United States. Also I'm not giving him any rent money I put my foot down yesterday. We will be in London1 -
Is it school holidays everywhere or just in Australia?
Some of these teenagers get very bored and you know, the internet is big place to amuse oneself making up silly stories for forum threads.......
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mellymel315 wrote: »Wait...What?? this is a joke right?? In what universe don't you pay your share of the living expenses??? I'm sure once you let him know you expect to be "kept" he will run for the hills
I laid down the law yesterday telling him that I will not pay him a cent of the rent or for food or anything else and he said that I am right. Men are supposed to be the providers, this is a biological thing and women take care of the kids, not that I plan to have kids though honestly.
you sound kind of old fashioned.
So you expect him to provide for you and you not work? do you cook and clean and have his kids? Do you do as he tells you?
Or are you picking and choosing from the 1950s? picking the best parts like the man pays for everything and leaving the worse parts like being a subordinate wife, no sex before marriage, doing all the house work, cooking dinner for when he gets home etc?
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Women want equality, as long as it's beneficial to them. Yeah, I said it! Girl, split the living costs and stop with this nonsense.
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Of course you should contribute, the food/gas/electric/water bills will all increase with another person living with him so it's only fair that you pay your bit!
I'm genuinely stumped as to why you would even ask this question. When my partner asked me to move in with him I insisted on paying my way from the get go, I'm working 45 hours a week so why shouldn't I? This is a modern society after all.
Unless you find yourself a sugar Daddy that's the way the world works!
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Either pay up or find someone who can afford to keep you in the life you are accustomed to princess!1
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